How To Practice Self-Care Each Day

Medically reviewed by Majesty Purvis, LCMHC
Updated April 24, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team

It’s crucial to learn how to practice self-care each day. It can help reduce stress and make you feel grounded. Whether it’s taking a walk on your lunch break, going to a yoga class, reading a book, engaging in physical activity, reflecting on your thoughts and feelings, or writing in a journal, they all benefit you. These are all things that you can do daily. 

When life gets busy, it’s easy to forget to care for yourself, but it’s crucial to spend quality time nurturing your body, mind, and soul. Here are some ways you can practice self-care each day.

Does making time for self-care feel impossible?

Do a little at a time

It can feel stressful to have many things going on at once. There are many different things you can do that don't take up a lot of time but can give you a moment of peace. You could take a moment to write in a journal, pamper yourself with a quick manicure, stretch, or meditate. You could practice self-care by maintaining health awareness. 

One of the best ways to continue to practice self-care is by being mindful of what you eat and how much sleep and exercise you are getting. Little things you implement can produce big dividends over time.

Eating and self-care

Part of healthy living is eating food regularly throughout the day. Make sure, if you are able, that you have three meals a day and healthy snacks in between. When you read about health awareness, you will find that what you put into your body nurtures your mind and physical being and can affect your emotional well-being. There are foods you can eat that will lower your blood pressure and cholesterol.

It’s easy to forget to take care of your body. Maybe you skip lunch or forget to have breakfast before you go to work. It’s essential to not skip meals if you can help it because that may contribute to not feeling great.

Eating well and drinking lots of water can help facilitate better sleep at night; your body may well feel calmer when you nurture it with the proper food and drinks.

Make sure that you are eating healthy foods regularly throughout the day as a part of your daily self-care routine.

Winding down

Many people find that one of the best parts of the day is when they're winding down. You can establish a ritual where you relax after a long day of work. You can use daily self-care strategies to relax. Reading, a warm bath, or journaling are just a few examples of relaxing activities. You can check your social media when you sign off work for the day, but when you’re winding down for the evening, it’s better to avoid technology. 

As a part of your nighttime routine, you might choose to enable night mode on your smartphone or tablet. That way, it doesn’t keep you up at night, and you can feel more connected to your mind and body.

A quiet, comfortable place in your home helps self-care

One of the best self-care strategies is to create a safe, comfortable space in your home. It is especially important for people who have a mental illness such as depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, or PTSD to have space where they feel safe. Bipolar disorder has many challenges, such as rapid mood swings, and a person with bipolar disorder flips from mania to depression in a moment. It’s crucial to have a space in your home where you feel safe. It could be a reading nook or maybe an indoor garden.

Creating the right environment for you is a part of your self-care whether you have a mental health condition or not. Don’t feel guilty about creating a space that is just for you. Self-care means that you are doing things to help reduce stress in your life. It’s a way that you can feel physically and mentally connected to your whole being.

Check-in with a friend

One thing you can do each day to make yourself feel good is to check in with a friend or loved one. It’s good for your mental health to stay connected to your support system. It doesn’t have to be an extensive form of reaching out. You could send a quick text message to see how your friend is doing. You could give them a call during your lunch break. Maybe you choose to reach out to your best friend to check in and catch up each day. Or perhaps you could pick somebody you haven’t spoken to for a while. Human connection is an excellent form of self-care.

Think about a friend who struggles with mental health issues. Maybe you have a good friend who has bipolar disorder. Bipolar disorder is a severe condition where people suffer from the highs of beauty and the lows of depression. If you have a friend who has this condition, check in with them and see how they’re doing. You can help to be a support for that person. You are a good friend by connecting with that individual.

It might sound counterintuitive to care for somebody else as a form of self-care. But it’s not. You can practice self-care by doing a good deed. Doing good actions or, as they say in Yiddish mitzvahs, makes you feel good about yourself, which is a form of self-care. Doing good is a form of self-care because it empowers you and makes you feel like a good person. It’s essential for your well-being to show that you love the people in your life that are there for you. 

Does making time for self-care feel impossible?

Body positivity

Everybody has a different body type. Part of self-care is looking in the mirror each day and saying kind things to yourself in your mind or out loud. Be kind to your mind and your body. Love yourself for who you are. You can practice body positivity in many different ways. One way to honor your body is by doing yoga. Another is to look at yourself in the mirror naked and notice the things you love about your body. You could journal about something that you appreciate about how you look. Body positivity is a form of self-care you can do every day. And it will empower you to stay well.

Verbal affirmations

Verbal affirmations are one of the best ways to learn to love yourself. Self-care isn’t about being selfish. It is about building yourself up and making yourself feel good. Verbal affirmations can support you in this process. You can write down different mantras that resonate with you. It could be something as simple as “I’m doing the best that I can." Pick some sayings that make you feel good about yourself. You can say them out loud to yourself in your bathroom mirror as you're getting ready for the day or silently to yourself while walking down the street. You can use these mantras as a form of mindfulness meditation.

Telling yourself three positive things about yourself can help as well. Think about three things you like about yourself. Maybe you’re a devoted friend, a kind brother or sister, and a loyal son or daughter. Remind yourself of the things that you do that make you feel good about yourself.

Daily meditation

Meditating daily can help you stay grounded. It takes care of your body, mind, and soul. Mindfulness meditation is a form of self-care, and you can do it every day. Even a one-minute meditation may be beneficial. Dedicate a small block of time to meditate, and you may feel better about yourself. Some people like to meditate in the morning, while others prefer to do so before they go to sleep. When you meditate, you may feel more connected to your mind and body, which is a good part of a substantial self-care routine.

Therapy and self-care

One of the most excellent self-care tips is to see a therapist. Life gets busy, and therapy can help you cope with daily stressors. Online therapy can be helpful for those who are experiencing depression, anxiety, or stress. It's as effective as in-person therapy for pinpointing negative thoughts that may be weighing you down and replacing those thoughts with more positive ones.

BetterHelp could be one of your self-care routines. You can meet with a therapist at a time convenient to your schedule anywhere you have an internet connection. Your therapist can walk you through some ideas for self-care if you're not sure where to start.

Takeaway

It’s crucial to practice self-care that is effective for you personally. Doing a self-care routine isn’t selfish. You must prioritize yourself so that you feel calm and centered. Minimizing stress can offer a better quality of life

Having a ritual that you do each day provides structural comfort you can look forward to. Routines can enable you to manage symptoms of conditions like depression or bipolar disorder. The therapists at BetterHelp are skilled at helping individuals with these concerns. Don’t be afraid to reach out for help. And don’t feel guilty about doing so either. You have a right to take care of yourself.

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