The Impact Of School Bullying On LGBTQ Mental Health And Education Outcomes

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Updated September 26th, 2025 by BetterHelp Editorial Team
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Children attend school in order to learn and grow, but it can be difficult to do this if their educational environment doesn't feel like a safe and welcoming place. For youth who are members of the LGBTQ+  community, being the target of identity-based bullying and discrimination at school is common, and it can significantly affect their mental health and educational outcomes. Here, we'll examine statistics about school bullying of LGBTQ+ students, its potential impacts, how schools can create more inclusive environments, and how mental health support can help those who have experienced bullying. 

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The state of LGBTQ youth mental health

LGBTQ+ youth and adults alike tend to be at greater risk of mental health challenges than their non-queer counterparts. Experts indicate that this disparity is likely due to two key reasons: because many queer people experience discrimination, harassment, and violence due to their identity, and because systemic barriers prevent many queer people from receiving medical and mental health care. These effects are typically even more pronounced for transgender and gender-diverse individuals as well as for queer people of color

Bullying and mental health statistics related to LGBTQ students

Consider the following facts about the mental health of queer students from the Trevor Project’s 2024 National Survey:

  • Almost 40% of lesbian, gay, trans, queer, and bisexual youth report seriously considering attempting suicide last year, and this is true of 46% trans and non-binary youth specifically.
  • Transgender and non-binary students who report attending a school that is gender-affirming have lower rates of attempting suicide. As many as 46% report attending a school that is not affirming. 
  • LGBTQ+ youth who say they live in accepting communities attempt suicide at less than half the rate of those who do not.
  • Almost a quarter of queer youth say they’ve been physically threatened or harmed in the past year because of their queer identity.
  • Around half of queer youth ages 13–17 report having been bullied in the past year. 
  • Queer youth who experience bullying of any kind are three times as likely to attempt suicide.

School bullying of LGBTQ students

While school is supposed to be a safe place to learn and build relationships, it can be a source of fear and stress for LGBT youth. As shared above, about half of queer teens report having been bullied based on their gender identity or sexual orientation.

Common forms of bullying faced by LGBTQ youth

Bullying is defined as the act of intentionally and repetitively abusing a person or group, either physically, verbally, or both. Bullying can take many forms, both online and in person. Below are just some examples of what LGBTQ students who are targets of bullying may face based on their identity:

  • Mocking of voice or mannerisms
  • Name-calling and rude comments
  • Rumors and gossip about sexual activity
  • Emotional harassment
  • Cyber-bullying
  • Intentional social exclusion and isolation
  • Threats of violence
  • Sexual assault
  • In-person bullying like pushing, kicking, spitting, and other forms of physical violence

The long-term psychological impacts of bullying

For most targets, school violence and other forms of bullying aren’t just harmful experiences in the moment; they also have the potential to lead to long-lasting mental health challenges. Research suggests that even years after being bullied in school, people in their late 20s have higher rates of depression, anxiety, agoraphobia, panic disorder, and suicidality. 

Gender identity- or sexuality-based bullying as a public health concern

Surveys by the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network (GLSEN), and other institutions continue to show that bullying of LGBTQ youth is a public health concern. 

For one, there is a strong link between bullying and negative mental health outcomes, including depression, suicide, and substance misuse. Bullying can also negatively affect a student’s self-image, self-worth, relationships, home life, ability to focus, physical health, and more. The distress and anxiety related to not feeling safe at school can also make it difficult or nearly impossible to focus on learning and completing one’s schoolwork, so in this way, bullying can also affect educational outcomes. 

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Creating affirming spaces for LGBTQ students

Affirming environments are those that allow LGBTQ individuals to be themselves without fear of judgment or invalidation. Again, as mentioned above, the Trevor Project reports that young people who attend affirming schools and/or live in accepting communities are far likelier to attempt suicide. Creating inclusive and affirming school environments may also help reduce bullying and its mental and emotional tolls for gay teens and other LGBTQ youth.

The role of education professionals in preventing school bullying of LGBTQ students

As well as potentially preventing certain mental health challenges, an accepting school environment can help LGBTQ youth to succeed academically, make long-lasting friendships, and enjoy daily life. School administrators, school staff, and school psychologists can play a large role in creating a space that is supportive of LGBTQ youth. 

Creating safer, more inclusive education environments

There are specific, tangible steps that teachers, administrators, and other educators can take to make a school environment more inclusive, affirming, and safe for queer students. Some examples of ways to promote school safety include: 

  • Hire specialized educators to train current school staff on LGBTQ+ topics so they can interact with queer students in an informed and affirming way
  • Establish LGBTQ student organizations, led by LGBTQ staff members and allies, where students can connect with peers and build community in a supportive setting 
  • Make sure school psychologists are available to support LGBTQ+ students with knowledgeable care for specific concerns, including gender-related stress and bullying
  • Create and enforce anti-discrimination and anti-bullying policies that can help students of all identities feel safe and welcomed in their school

Implementing peer-led mentorship programs

Finally, peer-led mentorship programs can also be a source of support for LGBTQ youth navigating middle school or secondary education. These programs can link older queer students or allies with younger queer students so they have a friendly face in the halls and someone with whom they can discuss their experiences, concerns, and plans for the future, reinforcing a culture of support and compassion.

The role of gender-affirming language 

For LGBTQ and transgender youth in particular, being referred to by the correct pronouns can be a life-saving form of respect and validation. The use of gender-affirming language can help all individuals—especially transgender and gender-diverse (TGD) people—feel seen and supported. Studies suggest that when parents use gender-affirming language, TGD youth experience less depression and anxiety, and the same may be true of teachers and school staff. Training teachers and staff on the importance of using inclusive, gender-affirming language is another step that can contribute to the safety and well-being of queer youth at school.

Supportive talk therapy for queer individuals of any gender identity

Research continually suggests that having a strong social support system can be a protective factor against developing certain mental health challenges and may help a person be more resilient to stress. For queer youth who are being bullied or experiencing other forms of discrimination based on their identity, having a trusted and affirming therapist to speak with regularly can be a critical part of their support system. Parents of children who are experiencing such challenges may also benefit from receiving support in managing the stress of the situation. 

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How online therapy can help LGBTQ students

While receiving talk therapy support can be helpful, not all queer individuals live in an area with LGBTQ+-affirming providers nearby. Or, a person may not feel safe or comfortable commuting to an office and meeting with a provider in person, especially if they're living with anxiety or hypervigilance from experiences of bullying.

In such cases, online therapy might be a more convenient way to receive support. With a platform like BetterHelp for adults or TeenCounseling for those ages 13 to 19, an individual can get matched and then meet with a licensed therapist remotely, from anywhere they have an internet connection. 

A recent study published by the Frontier of Psychology suggests that digital interventions may help reduce depression and stress in LGBTQ youth. This study is part of a large and growing body of research which suggests that online therapy in general can often be as effective as in-person treatment.

Takeaway

Identity-based bullying is a widespread problem for LGBT health today, particularly among LGBTQ students. It can take many different forms and has the potential to create a long-lasting impact on an individual’s mental and emotional well-being, not to mention disrupt their education. Schools can create more inclusive environments by using gender-affirming language, starting peer-led mentorship programs, implementing anti-discrimination and anti-bullying policies, and more, which may be a step toward helping queer youth feel safer at school. Youth who are experiencing or have experienced bullying may benefit from meeting with an affirming mental health professional, as may their parents or caregivers.
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