Food Therapy For Kids: Developing Healthier Eating Habits With A Therapist

Medically reviewed by Melissa Guarnaccia, LCSW
Updated July 23rd, 2025 by BetterHelp Editorial Team

Learning to try new foods and make healthy food choices can be common parts of growing up, and young children often go through periods of picky eating. However, childhood eating difficulties can sometimes go further than occasional pickiness. 

Severe eating challenges can have an impact that lasts beyond childhood, which is why some children may benefit from a specialized treatment called food therapy. In this article, we’ll explore what food therapy is, what it involves, common eating challenges it can treat, and more. 

Helping your child navigate eating challenges can be stressful

An introduction to feeding therapy

Feeding therapy, also known as food therapy, is a specific type of therapy designed to help children who struggle with eating. Children may benefit from feeding therapy if they have difficulty with tasks related to eating—such as chewing and swallowing—or if they struggle with extreme pickiness, transitioning to solid foods, or food-related anxiety. Feeding therapy generally aims to improve children’s relationship with food and build healthy, sustainable eating habits that they can carry into adulthood. 

What type of therapist provides feeding therapy? 

The exact type of therapist who provides feeding therapy to a child may depend on the child’s individual situation and eating challenges. That said, the two most common types of feeding therapists are occupational therapists and speech-language pathologists. 

Occupational therapists typically focus on helping patients perform tasks related to daily living, while speech-language pathologists primarily specialize in treating people with speech or swallowing difficulties. These specialists may also work with pediatricians or dieticians to ensure their patients are receiving comprehensive care. 

Reasons for seeking food therapy for kids: Motor skills, pickiness, and more

Pediatricians recommend food therapy for kids for various reasons. These range from improving a child’s eating habits to making it easier for them to eat, improving their nutrition, and more. Below are some specific reasons a parent might seek food therapy for their child.

Avoiding new foods and other problematic eating habits

It can be common for children to be picky eaters early in life, and many children naturally learn to enjoy a wider range of foods as they grow older. However, this may not always be the case. Some children may avoid eating entire food groups, throw tantrums during meals, or refuse to eat altogether. 

Motor skills challenges

Some children struggle with eating not because of their food preferences, but because they struggle to chew, swallow, and put food in their mouths. This can be due to developmental delays, cleft palates, cerebral palsy, and various other conditions. Symptoms of feeding difficulties related to motor skills may include the following: 

  • Difficulty transitioning from milk to solid foods

  • Frequently gagging or choking on food

  • Struggling to drink from straws

  • Trouble breathing while eating

  • Trouble controlling the jaw, lips, and tongue

Sensory difficulties

Certain conditions can lead children to be especially sensitive to specific textures, smells, and tastes. As a result, they may undereat, refuse to try unfamiliar foods, or avoid mixing foods. Below are a few disorders that may cause these symptoms: 

  • Sensory processing disorder (SPD)

  • Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)

  • Autism spectrum disorder (ASD)

  • Avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID)

The consequences of untreated eating challenges

Not all children who struggle with picky eating have feeding disorders. However, for those who do, these challenges can have negative consequences for mental and physical health: 

  • Malnutrition, including inadequate calorie, nutrient, and vitamin intake

  • Altered brain development and/or physical growth

  • Difficulty forming healthy eating habits later in life

  • Anxiety, tantrums, or other emotional challenges around food

  • Family stress

  • A risk of longer-term disordered eating habits

(H2) The connection between eating habits and mental health 

While untreated feeding disorders can have negative effects on children, developing healthy eating habits early in life can benefit children’s emotional and mental well-being. Adequate nutrition in childhood can help form the foundation for healthy brain development

Research has also found that the quality of our eating habits in childhood is linked to our mental health and susceptibility to stress throughout our lifetimes. While genetics and environmental factors also tend to play a role in mental health challenges, healthy childhood eating habits may reduce the risk of mental illness later in life. 

Addressing eating challenges early may also help children form a healthy relationship with food, learn to recognize their bodies’ hunger signals, and confidently make healthy choices. This may reduce the risk of disordered eating behaviors, provide a sense of autonomy and agency, and support self-esteem.

Is not trying new foods a sign that my child needs food therapy? 

If your child is a picky eater, you may wonder if it’s worth starting food therapy. Keep in mind that children often go through picky eating phases early in life, and this may not always be cause for concern. Pickiness can be a way for children to assert independence and test boundaries, which are typical parts of development. That said, it may be worth paying attention to your child’s eating habits and looking out for the following symptoms:

  • Extremely restrictive food choices

  • Frequent tantrums, anxiety, or crying fits, especially in response to new foods

  • Frequent gagging, vomiting, or choking

  • Extreme aversion to specific tastes, colors, smells, or textures

  • Eating habits that negatively affect family routines and quality of life

  • Nutritional deficits

Symptoms like these may be a sign of an underlying challenge that could be worth discussing with a professional. 

What does seeing a food therapist involve? 

Starting food therapy for your child can seem overwhelming if you’ve never worked with a feeding therapist before. Understanding what this process may look like can make it seem less intimidating, so let’s take a closer look. 

Starting food therapy for kids: Initial intake, health assessment, and treatment plan

The specifics of food therapy can vary depending on your location, your provider, and your child’s individual situation. That said, food therapy typically starts with an initial assessment and evaluation. Your primary care provider or pediatrician may refer you to a food therapist if your child has been struggling with eating for a while. You might also find a food therapist through your insurance company or local occupational therapy practices. During the initial intake, your practitioner may ask you or your child about topics like: 

  • Your child’s medical and mental health history

  • Your child’s past and present eating habits and behaviors

  • The symptoms you’ve noticed, and how they’re affecting your family dynamics

In some cases, your provider may also want to observe your child’s eating behaviors firsthand. They may have you attempt to feed your child so they can watch their reactions and take notes. If the therapist suspects another underlying condition, like autism spectrum disorder, they may refer your child for testing to rule out other contributing factors. They may also request a comprehensive health evaluation to rule out physical health conditions that may be affecting your child’s eating habits. 

The intake process for feeding therapy may take one or more sessions to complete. After your provider has gathered all the information they need, they may sit down with you to discuss their treatment recommendations, such as: 

  • What type of therapy would be helpful

  • How many therapy sessions your child needs

  • What goals to focus on in therapy (such as developing self-feeding skills, improving food tolerance, enhancing motor skills, etc.)

What happens during sessions with a food therapist?

Once your child’s food therapist has settled on a treatment plan, your next appointment is typically when treatment begins. Again, specifics can vary from provider to provider, but a typical feeding therapy session may include the following: 

  • Sensory activities to improve body awareness and “warm up” for eating

  • Gentle exposure to diverse food items

  • Exercises to strengthen the lips, jaw muscles, and tongue 

  • Exercises to improve hand-eye coordination and other fine motor skills

  • Mealtime practice

  • Other tasks and games designed to improve your child’s ability to eat

Food therapy sessions may last anywhere from 30 to 60 minutes. Depending on your child’s needs, their therapist may also spend part of their time teaching you feeding strategies, games, and other techniques to use between sessions. 

Getting support as a parent or caregiver

Feeding challenges can be a source of significant stress, not just for children, but also for their parents. Mealtime difficulties, frequent tantrums, and the associated health consequences can strain family dynamics and negatively affect parents’ well-being, potentially even contributing to chronic stress. Chronic stress has been associated with negative mental and physical health effects, including those listed below: 

  • Depression and anxiety

  • Chronic pain

  • Fatigue

  • Decreased fertility

  • Negative mood

  • An increased risk of heart attacks and strokes

  • Immune disorders

  • Heartburn and acid reflux

Helping your child navigate eating challenges can be stressful

If you’re noticing frequent stress related to your child’s eating habits, remember to take care of yourself, prioritize healthy habits, and seek support from people you care about. You might also consider joining an in-person or online support group for parents of children with eating difficulties. 

Working with a therapist of your own may be another way to support your mental health and learn strategies for managing stress while you navigate your child’s eating challenges. However, finding time to see a therapist can be hard when you’re already busy with the logistics of your child’s feeding therapy. 

With online therapy, you can talk to a therapist via voice call, video call, or online chat at a time that works for your schedule. You’ll be matched with a therapist based on your specific mental health needs, and you can change therapists at any time, for any reason. 

Research shows that online therapy can help reduce symptoms of stress and stress-related disorders. In a meta-analysis from 2022, researchers looked at data from 14 different studies of internet-based cognitive behavioral therapy (ICBT). They found that internet-based therapy was effective in reducing self-rated stress, as well as symptoms of anxiety and depression. 

Takeaway

Picky eating can be a natural part of childhood and may not always be a cause for concern. However, when children’s eating challenges are negatively affecting their physical or mental health, they may benefit from professional support. Nutrition and eating habits have been shown to be linked to lifelong mental health outcomes, which is why addressing these challenges early can be foundational to a child’s well-being. 

Food therapy, also known as feeding therapy, aims to help children who consistently struggle with eating. After a professional evaluation and intake, a food therapist may use various exercises to improve their patients’ eating abilities and relationship with food. For parents of children with eating challenges, mental health support—such as online therapy—may reduce stress and make these challenges easier to manage. 

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