I am a licensed mental health counselor in Florida with over 3 years work in community mental health and 18 years experience in private practice, including 14 years as a certified clinical trainer for other counselors. I work a great deal with adult survivors of childhood abuse, but also with those dealing with depression and anxiety. Additionally, I often assist couples dealing with relationship and communication issues as well as issues encountered by members of the LGBT community
I completed my Masters Degree in Ohio at a dual enrollment program, which was partly at Ashland University and partly at Case Western Reserve University School of Medicine. I completed internships at both Cleveland Psychiatric Institute and Lutheran Medical Center of Cleveland, both of which are large teaching hospitals.
I believe the best counseling technique is the one that helps the person seeking help to feel better. To that end, I use a variety of cognitive techniques in my work. In other words, techniques that assist individuals who feel "stuck" to look at their situation from different angles and from that new perspective, work out new methods for resolution. No two problems are ever exactly the same, so I make it my personal objective to listen very carefully to each person and in a very open and non-judgmental way, do my best to understand what each situation feels like when looking out through their eyes. I have experience with both relatively mild and very severe types of problems.
I do offer video sessions at specified times when I am in my office and have a reliable high speed connection. Phone sessions are always available at times posted according to my Live Chat schedule.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Anger management
- Self esteem
- Bipolar disorder
I also have experience in Addictions, Family conflicts, Grief, Intimacy-related issues, Sleeping disorders, Parenting issues, Career difficulties
LMHC #MH2142 (Expires: 2021-03-01)
Brenda is easy to speak to and is understanding of the issues I face. She prompts me to look past the surface and consider alternatives.
Brenda has been great. She has challenged me when necessary and listened when necessary. I appreciate the convenience of this platform and the counselors here.
Brenda's responses are respectful and timely.
Brenda has been a lifeline to me in a very difficult time. In one month she has helped support me through quitting alcohol, partaking in self care and helping me through the process of a breakup. She asks the questions that your friends won’t, a real chance to understand what’s happening to you as well as being able to evaluate it healthily. Brenda also gave me very good practical advice on how to manage my anxiety and how to handle those first few days of a breakup which can feel impossible. I’ve loved that I can message her whenever I get those awful feelings and she usually responds pretty quickly. You can also schedule weekly phone sessions which have also been helpful some weeks when I’ve really been really struggling.
Brenda is a very capable and an excellent professional. She offers very wise advice and is very knowledgeable. I feel she knows exactly what I'm going through and is non-judgmental. I would highly recommend Brenda. It's me doing the work but it's her being there and helping me through.
Brenda is a great Counselor -- very responsive and understanding. She asked me good questions and kept me focused on the things I could control (instead of the parts of my life I was fixating on and were out of my control). While I was traveling internationally, I had not seen my regular Counselor in several months, and it was difficult to coordinate with her across multiple time zones. Working with Brenda through BetterHelp gave me peace of mind that I could quickly access a qualified person to get the help I needed. It was great to be able to message her several times a week as negative thoughts were happening and get support quickly. I am very appreciative of her and BetterHelp!
Competent, compassionate, and always available. She helped me find compassion for myself, which I desperately needed and am so grateful for.
I can breathe easy now. Brenda Carlson has been so helpful, encouraging, and timely in supporting me as I navigate complex and mundane issues of being a human! So grateful for her wisdom and patience.
She was very responsive and helpful. I will recommend.
Brenda is an amazing therapist. If you are willing to put in the work, you will get tremendous results. Within two week my whole life changed so much for the better in so many and in unexpected ways.
Brenda has a gift of being able to pull out the important pieces that need to be addressed. I appreciate this method of counseling, as I don’t need to physically drive to an office for a pre-booked appointment. If my anxiety is getting the best of me at 3AM, I can send an email and know I’ll receive encouragement and help by morning. I have recommended BetterHelp, and Brenda, to several friends and family.
No waiting list. No high costs. Same price as two private sessions in the UK and you can send as many messages as you like in the week. The councillor I was given is very supportive. Makes me feel what I'm feeling is normal and that I'm ok to feel how I do.
Brenda helped me get through a very difficult period of grief. It was hard for me to imagine that I would ever feel like myself again, but Brenda asked me the questions and gave me the tools I needed to get there. Working with her was so important to my process and she was infinitely patient and understanding while also being upfront with me about where to focus my attention and strength in order to get through the worst days. I would recommend her in a heartbeat.
I have had Brenda's help during 2 periods: First for almost 3 months during a relationship and anxiety issue. She has been really helpful since the first time I contacted her, has given me thoughtful advice and really empathetic with anything I have gone through. After that period I had some financial issues and stopped my subscription until I saved some money. This period has been tougher, my mom died several months ago and I resumed counseling 2 months ago. She has helped me process my grief and the new challenges I have in my life. I am so thankful for having her as a counselor and I'm sure my life will get better as I put some effort every day to accomplish my goals :)
My counselor has been prompt in her replies to me. She seems to be a very understanding, kind, and a compassionate lady.
Brenda was extremely helpful and understanding. Even though my worries may seem trivial in comparison to others', she never made me feel this way. She took me and my concerns seriously and gave me useful advice and I am very grateful!
Brenda is an amazing counsellor that was very helpful during a hard time I was overcoming lending an open ear to understand my circumstances and help me understand the situation from another compassionate perspective! I really recommend Brenda to anyone.
Brenda is probably my 14th or 15th counsellor I have seen in the last 13 years. I wish I had the honor of finding her the first time I ever had to start seeing a counsellor. She is always on the other end of your messages and truly listens to what you have to or need to say. She always has your best interest at heart and never judges you about anything.
I had a great experience being counseled by Brenda. She was very compassionate and empathetic.
During our conversations, she asked really incisive questions which helped me narrow down on what was causing my current problems and what I could do to overcome them.
In less than a week, she had a great impact on my thinking and helped me get out of the situation where I was victimizing myself. It was a pleasure to be counseled by her!
Brenda is the best counselor/psychologist I’ve ever worked with. Considering how many years and how many people I’ve worked with in my struggle with anxiety and depression I’d really almost given up on working with someone who had as much interest in general conversation about my issues and practical/helpful every day advice as they did discussing the psychological roots of my issues and throwing all the big words around and labels on everything. Brenda is easy and comfortable to share with, always kind and understanding but also very practical and open with her ideas and perspectives in her responses, even when it’s not immediately easy for me to accept or understand. She works with me as I need her and always responds in a timely fashion, as well as checking in with me when I have slacked in communicating with her. I can’t imagine ever working with a better counselor for me. BetterHelp is the best thing I’ve ever experienced in working with and managing my depression in conjunction with the medications I need. It (and Brenda) makes it convenient and more appealing to continue with the long term counseling and guidance that I know I need.
Completely satisfied with Brenda, she's been a great deal of help for me by making me realize I was doing things in a wrong way, finally finding a term that describes me as a person. I would definitely recommend. Thank you!
Brenda Carlson really helped me! She is supportive, empathetic and encouraging. I would recommend her to anyone looking for a counselor! :) I wish her all the best!
Brenda is very thoughtful and smart. I also appreciate her honesty with my issues.
Brenda is great! Right away she understood what I needed and gave great advice! She helped me focus on the past events that caused my anxiety so that I can change my life not just put a bandaid on to cover the problem. I felt like I could be completely honest and she would be understanding. She gave me great recommendations for books and things I could do to help process what I was feeling. I would highly recommend her.
I appreciate very much the time Brenda has given me, and the gentle yet solid advice that is shared.
Brenda is great counselor! I get from Brenda exactly what I need - and I needed explanation how and why something is working and what can I do to improve my mental and physical state. Everything is working!
Brenda is a great listener and very gentle with advice and suggestions.
She listens and she understands my situation and concerns. Wonderful at getting back to me. I I trust her completely
She always listens, understands, offers practical suggestions. She just listens to me!
Brenda went straight to the core of my issue which was the impetus I needed to change things. Thanks Brenda!
Brenda is an excellent communicator with a unique style that resonated with me allowing me to overcome many obstacles on a path to happiness. She always responds in a timely manner and is very professional and caring. I would recommend her to anyone that is struggling to find answers on their own. Thank you, Brenda!
Brenda has been a rock to me in my time of need. She understood what I was struggling with and helped me with coping strategies to deal with this. Brenda has been so supportive of me from day one and I appreciate everything she has done for me!
Brenda is great. She knows my issues and helps me work through everything I'm going through.
I worked with Brenda in the past and I felt she did understand my issues and helped me to recognize why I had certain feelings.
I had problems sleeping at night because I over think at night. After she gave me some techniques I am able to sleep properly. She is also very honest. Which I respect the most.
Brenda not only listens, but offers techniques and advice to apply to life situations to learn from and better experiences. She is very helpful.
She talks to me at my education level which doesn't waste my time, which is a problem I have had with other counselors. She tells me how to solve my problems in ways I would never think of and they work! I think she is great and the perfect fit for me.
Absolutely love this app. My counselor Brenda is amazing.
I was hesitant to do online counseling, and even more skeptical that I would find a person who would have the appropriate background to relate, but I did. Brenda's profile outlined her extensive experience, which gave me confidence. Interacting online with her has significantly assisted me in working through some issues I had taken so long to face. I really like the convenience of texting, as it gives me time to ponder various questions and comments she makes. I am very happy with the process and experience I have had thus far.
Ms. Brenda is amazing. Even when life starts getting hectic and I can't get on everyday, she still checks in to make sure I'm doing alright. 10/10
Brenda is amazing. She listens to me and is able to provide the best advice. She makes me see things through other lenses and makes me want to start changing negative into positive things. Thank you for all your support - it is much appreciated.
Brenda is insightful, compassionate, and has a host of tools to help me deal with the challenges of life. Her intelligence coupled with her kindness help her to see things I haven't, and guide me successfully out of the rough patches.
Brenda is such a kind soul. I have never felt such an instant connection with a therapist as I did with her. I would highly recommend her to anyone needing an empathetic ear.
I've had great experiences with Brenda, and my wellness and recovery path since I started working with her have been absolutely stark. Just knowing that someone sane, patient, and objective is waiting at any time of day or night has made an inexpressible difference to my life.
Brenda is very receptive to your thoughts , concerns and a true person to look for advice and guidance. You can easily feel connected to her in a short period of time .
When I started with BetterHelp, I'd pretty much given up on the idea of face to face counselling because I've struggled with following through and dealing with my issues surrounding trauma and PTSD in the past. Over the last few months, Brenda has helped me see that getting help and moving forward is not only possible, but something I can feel positive about.
Brenda has been great. She has been very insightful and helpful with my situation -- offering guidance than not even my face-to-face counselor offered me. Very compassionate and responsive too.
Brenda is an amazing person. I am lucky to have her as my counselor.
Brenda has given me some great advice and she has helped me see the world in a different way. Thank you Brenda!
Brenda is an outstanding counselor. I have been working with for a few weeks while stationed in Afghanistan. I appreciate the help she has given me.
Brenda has been very helpful and given me a different perspective on things which I haven't received from anyone else thus far
I'm so happy I was assigned to Brenda. She's been incredibly helpful in working through a lot of my brain demons. I've recommended BetterHelp to like, everyone I know who's interested in counselling services, and even mentioned it to my GP. I am definitely better off and a healthier person because of Brenda's help and thoughtful, kind words.
Brenda has been what I need in a counselor, helping me address a few of my struggles head on. Though it is still an ongoing process, I am happy to be able to work with her.
Listened to my problems, gave great advice on the problems at hand
In the short time Brenda has been helping me I have notice a vast improvement in my self, I would definitely recommend her. Thank you very much Brenda i really appreciate it.
I can't say enough great things about Brenda. I was in a bad place recently and now I feel so much better. In this short time, Brenda has guided me through a bad week and I've come out the end a happier and with some work a better person who is planning to take all of Brenda's good advice and no longer be an addict. Thank you so much Brenda.
Brenda is very patient and kind. I feel very comfortable talking to her about a variety of things and I would definitely recommend her to a friend.
I'm glad I have Brenda as my counselor, she's been very helpful since I started with her, and she always makes me see the positive side of things, even when friends and family fail to do so.
So far my session have been very helpful. Brenda has given me some skills to try to divert my thoughts and they have been helpful. I feel I have a long way to go but I feel I'm on the right track.
Brenda has been helpful, personally learning how to implement positive actions into my daily life.
Brenda was a great help for me and provided me a different way to view my situation which allowed me to shrink back from my worries and relax more.
She's very comforting and understanding!
Brenda is very attentive and responds quickly. She asks good questions and is sensitive and apt to everything said.
Brenda helped me manage stress and reduce my panic attacks within the first week of seeing her. I am definitely continuing my sessions and look forward to improvement in other areas of my life as well.
Brenda is a good counsellor. I am happy with her service and I will talk to her again.
Brenda is accessible and I can feel comfortable talking to her. I have really enjoyed interacting with her, and I am sure that in time we will have very good results. I recommend.
Dr. Carlson is a great counselor, she helped me a lot to get rid of my alcohol addiction and also guided me to the right path towards my personal life. She is very understanding and responsive.
Very knowledgable in her field. Counseling was objective and professional while helping me feel more at ease about the issues presented. I would recommend Brenda Carlson to anyone in need of a short or long term professional counselor.
I find Brenda has really helped. Although we are still in the beginning I believe this is working very well so far.
Thanks to Brenda my relationship is no longer in trouble and my personal well being has improved.
Brenda is an understanding, awesome counselor. When you can't make sense of something, talk to her about it and she will help you.
Brenda is a very compassionate, caring, insightful and well versed counselor. She is very very responsive and also proactive to reach out to you. She provides you the space you need but also lets you know that she is there to help. She is reassuring and makes observations but then stops to also get your feedback before further elaborating which I liked as it can be challenging for a counselor to get a sense of who you are when there is little body language or voice interaction to go on. I feel she has dealt with many different areas so is well versed to guide in many situations.
I would highly recommend Brenda!!
I got great help with some issues I have been having. She is very knowledgeable and made me feel a lot more confident about the changes I am making in my life.
Brenda is very helpful and good at what she does.
Brenda has been helpful in guiding me on the path that i=I want to be on to be my best self.
Brenda has been great at helping to navigate through life stressors. She has great insight and provides thoughts and ideas to think about pertaining to each issue. She is very experienced in helping to figure out relationships. Highly recommended. Glad I was matched with Brenda. A huge plus is how quickly she responds - always within the same day which is great for me. It has been great working with Brenda.
I loved her responsiveness and professionalism and how every time I felt wary and that I was sharing too much, she encouraged me and said it was okay and that really comforted me. She is really great!! Definitely would recommend her!!
Brenda has helped me with everything I throw at her. All of her advice is amazing and warranted, and I'm glad I got paired with her as my counselor!
Brenda has been an amazing help. I got so much insight from her.
Brenda is readily available. I receive a response promptly. She will reach out and check in on me showing concern. She has helped me think deeper and is helping me resolve some issues. She is not judgmental at all and very understanding of my situation.
Brenda was extremely helpful in assisting me in identifying some issues which had brought me to her services. She immediately made me feel comfortable in providing information without reservation. She had great insight and provided exceptionally useful resources for me to utilize in my progress. Highly recommend Brenda!
Brenda has been absolutely amazing! I really enjoy talking with her. Her responses are very professional, very friendly and I'm so glad I came across this site and that Brenda was assigned to work with me. This has been a very worthwhile experience and I am 100% satisfied with the progress that is being made.
Brenda provided me with a unbiased and fresh perspective on the problem I was dealing with, whilst also being beautifully empathetic which came through in our messages. In the short time I was working with her I got exactly what I needed, and now I have some new strategies in my toolbox that are already proving to be helpful. Would thoroughly recommend, thank you Brenda!
Brenda is incredibly prompt and thoughtful in her responses. She is never judgmental and asks the right questions to help you explore your own thoughts. After trying a few different counselors on BetterHelp, I really have to recommend Brenda to those who want gentle, clear guidance.
Brenda has been such a a wonderful, supportive counselor. She is very understanding and encouraging, and gives great insights with clear explanations. She is exactly the type of support I needed during a difficult and confusing time. Many thanks!
Great counselor in the short time we've been talking! She answers back so quickly no matter what time of day it is. Her responses are thorough and easy to understand. A good balance of understanding what I'm going through and challenging me to become better. Highly recommend.
Very friendly cordial helpful.
Brenda has been very helpful sorting through depression and anxiety surrounding my divorce. I appreciate her honest assessments and ability to sift through the frustration that I've been conveying, getting to the real heart of the problem.
Brenda has given me sound advice during this difficult time that I am going through with an abusive, alcoholic husband. She has been diligent in following up with me and checking in with me which is very reassuring. I appreciate her professional manner and her friendliness that makes me totally comfortable in sharing my issues with her. She asks appropriate questions to get a better understanding of my situation. I am so glad that I was matched with Brenda!
Brenda has helped me get through my anxiety and depression following a breakup and though I need to take it a little at a time, I feel because of her coaching, I am slowly getting better and realizing my true worth as a person. She is very good at her job!
Very good and patient. Insightful. Responds quickly. Gives homework. Checks in on me if I haven't messaged in a while. Best counselor I've ever had went three four in real life and three online before I got Brenda.
I've hit a little emotional rough patch in my life and Brenda had been a tremendous help. She is thoughtful, responsive and has helped me reframe my thinking on things without being too prescriptive. I'm surprised how comfortable I feel being candid and I know that is due to her professionalism and guidance.
I worked with Brenda on LGBT issues that are coming up with me as I end my marriage. I found Brenda to be knowledgeable, caring, insightful and challenging. If you're ready to work on your issues, you will do well with Brenda as a guide.
Brenda is great. She usually responds within an hour and has insightful things to say. I wasn't sure how well someone would be able to get to know me in an online format like this, but I really feel that she has a good sense of me, my values, my issues, and my needs. She has definitely been helpful to me and I would recommend her highly. Her recommendations to me have been really great in helping me in figuring out some of the possible reasons behind my behaviors and how to begin dealing with those situations. I couldn't recommend her more, and I'm glad we met (inasmuch as we have). :)
I felt very comfortable with Brenda from the very beginning. She was spot on with some of the issues I needed to deal with. She was always available and would also check back in if she didn't hear from me for awhile. She is definitely an asset to Better Help - you are in good hands if you get matched with Brenda!
Brenda was so helpful and understanding. It was really great to be able to have someone to speak about my relationship. She provided me quite a few tools and recommendations which have tremendously helped my situation. I couldn't of asked for a better counselor!
Brenda is an awesome combination of kind/empathetic and highly trained/bravely honest. She's a great guide and she doesn't mind asking the hard questions - but she asks them with a caring and positive attitude. I'm so glad that I'm working with her.
Betterhelp is in fact better help. Quick, attentive, accommodating, kind, understanding; They are everything I am looking for. I find it mobile friendly (Android), and my counselor Brenda is worth every cent. I am low income, and the better support staff were very helpful in making it possible for me to continue sessions. (Thank-you!)
I struggled with my own pride in asking for help for years, but now, I feel like why did I never ask sooner. The anonymity of contacting someone not in my community, and not face to face, has been very opening and freeing to me. I feel it is private, and free of stigma. I don't have to tell my family or friends, unless I want to. Spectacular. I recommend this service.
Brenda is amazing she is professional, helpful, responds very quickly with understanding and empathy, and always has good advice.
Awesome therapist. Has helped me tremendously and I plan to continue sessions with her
Brenda has helped me see things I wouldn't have if I hadn't been honest with her about my feelings, thoughts and fears. She has been patient, understanding and encouraging in the time she has been my counselor. I would recommend her as a counselor.
Brenda has been an amazing influence at a critical time in my life. For me, everything about my life changed overnight, and that's not an exaggeration. Though the change was very positive, it left me without a direction and having no real idea who I am and what makes me tick. I was very lost and my positive life change was quickly becoming a source of major stress.
Brenda was the light in the fog that I needed. She offered me insight and practical answers for my questions. She was never heavy-handed, nor did she ever focus on details of the I considered unimportant. She seemed to recognize what I needed from our time together, and she delivered!
When my life gets hectic and I forget to utilize the great tool that is Brenda, she never fails to message me after a week to see if I have anything I need to talk about. She provides a nice sense of consistency in my otherwise crazy life.
After the free trial end, it was a real no-brainer to keep the service. At $35 a week, I have practically perpetual access to a gifted counselor. Thank you, Brenda, for being part of this incredibly valuable service!
Brenda is really great at building an almost instant connection. She listens and offers help in a way that is more subtle and not distant or over bearing. So far so good , and I'm glad she has the patience to hang in with me as well :-)
I've been working with Brenda for a few weeks now and she not only has wonderful insights and understanding but also provides effective tools to help sort through a challenge. I like that we are in the here and now, and she is helping me to understand some dynamics in my life that I know are difficult but she gives me clarity on them. She has been very helpful!