How loneliness and social isolation are related?

Asked by Anonymous
Answered
05/10/2021

Loneliness and social isolation are both really negative experiences that we can go through.  The difficult part about both of them is that they can each cause the other.  If we are not careful, that loneliness can lead us to social isolation when we are lonely.  When we are isolating socially, that can easily lead to a feeling of loneliness.  It is important to try and pick up on your own patterns with each of these.  Both of these can have a positive purpose if we let them.  Loneliness can be a natural feeling whenever taking a vacation alone, but that vacation alone could be really healing. If you can affirm loneliness as natural and logical, that can help reduce its power as it happens.  If there is a pandemic going on and people are getting sick, social isolation can have a purpose to help keep yourself safe. 

As loneliness and social isolation can cause each other, they can also cause negative thoughts about one’s self-worth.  For some people, as they continue to feel lonely and isolate themselves, that can lead to thoughts that others do not like them and/or do not want to be around them.  If those thoughts continue, that can easily lead to severe depression, anxiety, and other serious mental health issues.  Therefore, it is important to see how serious loneliness and social isolation can become over time if they are not worked on.

Statistics tend to show that loneliness and social isolation are both on the rise.  This can be somewhat puzzling as we are more connected to one another than ever before through the developments in technology.  However, that is somewhat part of the problem in that people are relying more on technology rather than making in-person interactions a priority.  While technology is wonderful in so many ways and gives us access to so many people, it cannot replace the importance of in-person connections.  Those in-person connections can help with feelings of loneliness, which can hopefully lead someone to isolate less in the social parts of their lives.