Can ambition be taught?

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04/23/2021

Many individuals desire more in their lives. More money, more professional growth, more personal fulfillment, and satisfaction, etc. Everyone has personal reasons for wanting to pursue the desire they have. Some individuals do it to fulfill a childhood desire, satisfy the desires of a loved one, have a greater sense of security, and much more. For some, the desire to want more out of their lives comes naturally and for others, ambition seems to be more elusive than they would like it to be. So, can ambition be taught? Can someone learn to be ambitious just like they can learn to swim or ride a bicycle?

Modeling provides us one of the first possibilities for answering the question of ambitious behavior being learned. Through modeling one begins to associate behavior with a specific outcome and if the outcome becomes desirable enough or creates significant meaning in an individual the pursuit begins. This frame modeling assisted us in learning how effort leads to an outcome, therefore, birthing ambition for anything we need or want. Individuals can also learn ambition through positive and negative reinforcements. If an individual realizes that certain behaviors increase the outcomes, they want they are more inclined to reproduce them rather than detract from them.

One can also learn the value and worth of pursuing desired outcomes and through this means ambition can take hold. Reframing, redefining, and or re-programming oneself from a negative self-perspective can assist in providing an individual with reason, purpose, and incentive by which to become ambitious. It can allow the individual to work through the self-doubt or insecurity they may be experiencing thereby providing them with a means by which to express themselves in a manner that is specific to what they want to project to the public. Ambition can be learned by most, however, what determines the ability for some to learn it easier than others is one’s ability to be able to answer these questions “For what reason what I want to be ambitious? And “what would it change in my life?” These may seem easy questions to answer however the challenge is answering them with honesty, genuineness and depth.

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