How can I make my boyfriend spend more time with me.
Relationships can be very tricky, especially in the beginning. It is important to remember that 2 months is not a long time and that healthy relationships are about boundaries. Most successful relationships are ones where each individual is able to maintain their autonomy. In order to make things work, there needs to be compromises as well: a conversation could be had about what your needs are as well as his needs and how you two can meet in the middle. When the boundaries are created, then it is important to stick to them and be respectful of each other's boundaries.
Also, finding out the reason behind why he wants to spend time alone and why you feel the need to be around him all the time can be helpful to figure out whether you two are a good fit for each other. We do not always have to agree on things in a relationship. If there is a reason he feels he needs his time alone then it is important to respect that. For instance, when I've worked a long day, I need 30 to 45 minutes to myself in order to relax and reflect on the day before I can fully engage with my loved ones. Outside of that time, I am useless because I am trying to navigate shifting from work mode to mom mode and that isn't always an easy transition. This could be similar to what he is experiencing, he may need time to relax and let his mind go before engaging fully in other activities or conversations.
Here are a couple of other ways to help engage him in activities together so they are appealing to both you and to him: One thing you can do is to come up with 'date night' ideas that are appealing to both of you and planning once a week or every other week spending time just you and him. Another thing you can do is identify love languages for each other and start trying to connect with him through his love language to be able to build a closer connection.