What happens when you marry a person who never sees anything good in you?

I got married to a narcissist. I am too young to be in a loveless marriage. I am sinking into depression day by day. I want to be loved again. i cry everyday.
Asked by Ks
Answered
11/22/2022

Hi Ks,

I am so sorry to read that you are sinking into depression and that you cry everyday!

You sadly now recognize that you are in a loveless marriage and notice the person you married never sees anything good in you.

You deserve to be loved and cherished. I wonder how long you have been living with feeling unloved?

I imagine you are possibly at a point of questioning the future of your marriage? There may be some important questions you need to ask yourself.

Who were you when you married, have you changed?

Are you still in love?

Do you see a happy future?

Do you have good support around you, do others know of your sadness?

Are you noticing the person you married does not have good intentions? if this is the case, choose not to give your love to those who may exploit it!

Whatever you decide, what is important is that you find a way back to feeling your own self worth.  A need to maintain and nurture your own inner love for yourself is imperative for finding a way through this. Know your worth, build on this, you deserve to be loved and cherished but this must start with you loving you!

What makes you happy?

Are you taking good care of every aspect of you 'Mind Body and Soul'?

Take time to talk through worries and concerns to people you trust and of course BetterHelp is a platform to help you do this (this will help the Mind). Take care of yourself with exercise, eat and sleep well (this will nurture the Body). Utilize mindfulness, meditation, carefree fun, faith whatever you believe in or not to feed the spiritual needs you have (this will feed the Soul). Remember to sing and dance often like no one is watching.

by focusing your attention on you and your importance will help you become carefree and I hope happiness will come. Finding your inner spark again will help you find your sense of purpose!

I wish you well and hope you find happiness.

Very warm regards,

Gina kelly