Hello and welcome. My name is Elmer Otey. I am excited to share in your therapeutic experience. I am a License Clinical Social Worker and a State of Missouri approved Clinical Supervisor. I earned a Master's degree in Social Work from Saint Louis University and have extensive training in a wide range of treatment modalities. I have over 20 years of experience in various clinical settings. I believe in treating everyone with respect, dignity, sensitivity and compassion. My approach adheres to cognitive behavioral and rational emotive counseling with my ultimate goal being to meet your unique and specific needs. I do promote self determination and believe that together we will be able to make effective change in your everyday coping skills for an optimum outcome. I look forward to working with you.
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
LGBT , Trauma and abuse , Grief , Intimacy-related issues , Eating disorders , Sleeping disorders , Parenting issues , Anger management , Self esteem , Career difficulties , Bipolar disorder , Coping with life changes , Coaching , Compassion fatigue , ADHD , Abandonment , Adoption and Foster Care , Aging and Geriatric Issues , Antisocial Personality , Attachment Issues , Blended Family Issues , Body Image , Cancer , Caregiver Issues and Stress , Codependency , Commitment Issues , Communication Problems , Control Issues , Coping with Natural or Human-Caused Disaster , Divorce and Separation , Domestic Violence , Drug and Alcohol Addiction , Emptiness , Family Problems , Fatherhood Issues , First Responder Issues , Forgiveness , Guilt and Shame , Impulsivity , Infidelity , Isolation/Loneliness , Jealousy , Life Purpose , Men's Issues , Midlife Crisis , Military and Veterans Issues , Money and Financial Issues , Mood Disorders , Multicultural Concerns , Narcissism , Obsessions, Compulsions, and OCD , Panic Disorder and Panic Attacks , Paranoia , Phobias , Post-traumatic Stress , Prejudice and Discrimination , Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) , Self-Harm , Sexual Assault and Abuse , Smoking/Vaping Cessation , Visually Impaired , Workplace Issues , Young Adult Issues Read more...
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Existential Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Solution-Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy
LCSW #002375 (Expires: 2022-09-30)
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He truly cares to see you grow and change!
Elmer is incredibly attentive and engaging. He makes sure that you feel heard and offers solutions and ways to instill good habits and behaviors.
Elmer Otey is thoughtful and insightful. I feel he sincerely cares about my mental well being. His guidance which includes various therapy techniques has helped me to manage my mental health independently and positively. Grateful for his teachings and his time.
I admit coming into online therapy with a huge grain of salt. But darn it, Elmer is the perfect person to help me walk through the problems I'm trying to sort through. He "gets" me. I feel like I'm able to deal with the setbacks that have cropped up and dig through the past that has held me back. He's the best.
Elmer is very smart and he is full of wisdom! He has years of experience and it really shows!
Elmer is a very wise, insightful and thoughtful counsellor. He has a real knack for asking the right questions. Elmer is paticularly good with dealing with sensitive issues in a very diplomatic way. He encourages a lot of reflection during his sessions and I often leave the sessions with a tremendous amount of food for thought. I am very fortunate to have been assigned to him and I would highly recommend him to anyone.
Phenomenal counselor and man
As before, I feel supported
My sessions with Elmer gives me clarity on my decisions, my values and myself. I feel more and more equipped in my work and my relationships due to my deeper understanding of myself. I highly recommend
He is very under stable, agreeable
Elmer is insightful and easy to talk to. He gives helpful feedback and suggestions while going through the worksheets. I appreciate his caring about my progress. I highly recommend him.
I worked with Elmer for a few months and found him intelligent and compassionate. Over this time, I was able to contextualise my thoughts in perspective, and map out a plan to progress further. I am happy to recommend Elmer to anyone.
Elmer is a good listener. He asks the right questions at the right time. He helps you deal with painful memories. He a a kind manner and good sense of humour. He gives short and relevant advice for the coming week.
Elmer’s exceptional at what he does and is great at shedding perspective to everything. I’ve been incredibly fortunate to get to work with him
He is a lovely man who seems genuinely interested in what you have to say. Very kind and puts you at ease. Gives you ideas about how to help yourself
I promise you that Elmer’s always helpful and responsible. He gives good advices!
Dr. Elmer always responds my messages quickly. I am not a good patient, always try to avoid pain and problems. When there was no big conflict, I didn’t go to BetterHelp. I always missed Dr. Elmer’s messages. When problems/ conflicts come up again, I look for support. And Dr. Elmer follow up with me immediately. I really appreciate his support. He is always there for me. Thank you Dr. Elmer!
Elmer has made me feel extremely comfortable and heard. I am very happy I chose to take this leap and that he is helping me along the way.
Elmer is extremely personable and communicative.
I appreciate his understanding and approach to issues we discuss.
Elmer is a wise and insightful professional.
Elmer has good insights and it definitely feels like he listens, supports me and has my best interests in mind. Would highly recommend
Going OK so far although I suspect it will take us a while to discover what my real problems are. Elmer offers a relaxed atmosphere, doesn't pretend the issue can be solved quickly, patiently follows the trail of clues and reminds me that I'm driving the bus, he's just a passenger.
I have nothing but great things to say about Dr. Otey. I could not recommend him (or BetterHelp) more to friends and colleagues of mine. I feel like he truly validates the way I am feeling, he creates a safe space to be open with him in and patiently guides me to find answers to my own rhetorical questions, etc myself - which I feel is important in the process of implementing healthy and longlasting practices into my life. I told myself I would give it at least a month, but the progress I have made with Dr. Otey in this short time has motivated me (in the greatest and most positive way possible) to continue on this journey with him to better myself. Thank you!!!
Mr. Otey is very professional and understanding. He is a great listener and really has been helping me to focus on my needs and what I need to work on myself. I highly recommend him.
Thanks to Elmer I understand myself better, he is a very experienced and professional counselor.
Elmer was simply great, very stand up human being.
Elmer was very professional and I really enjoyed working with him. He is clearly well informed in helping people with anxiety and has been great
Elmer has been really great to talk to and work with. He is good at helping understand concepts of cbt. Working with him has been a very positive experience
Dr. Otey's approach is unlike any other therapist I have ever had. I cannot believe how much has changed since I began here. I am grateful for Dr. Otey and for BetterHelp.
After only a couple sessions with Elmer, I feel a strong connection with him as I think we share similar outlooks on situations. He gleams out wisdom & kindness. He is naturally supportive, a good listener and easily picks on things I say when I brush over them. Our conversations flow easily & I thoroughly enjoy my sessions with him. He’s a great life coach/supporter.
Elmer is a great help. He is able to help you identify your issues and proposes changes or behaviors that can help you resolve them. He is easy to talk to and actively listens.
Elmer has been such a great person, I feel like everything I have issues with he always has solutions for me. As well as, him just being available when needed and how professional he is from the first session I had is all a breath of fresh air. An amazing therapist!
I'lI be honest, I wasn't expecting much considering me previous experiences trying to get help.
However, I'm extremely satisfied with how well Elmer is able to understand my issues and help me to understand myself and my decisions better, even in ways I hadn't considered. He's super easy to talk to and his experience really shows, can't recommend him enough!
Enjoy working with Elmer. He listens to my concerns, provides me homework to work on, and puts accountability on me to make the changes I need to make to not be anxious. Would recommend him if you are looking to put the work in to be a better you.
Elmer is a true professional. He has been very supportive during my most difficult time.
Elmer is a friendly and wise counselor who makes you feel at ease and offers great advice.
He is a wise counselor and capable counselor.