Dr. Jillian Graves


About Me

Hello. I am Dr. Jillian Graves, a licensed clinical social worker (LMSW), in the state of Michigan. I have experience working with adults, adolescents and families in both group and individual sessions. I have the most experiencing working with anger management, trauma, anxiety, parenting issues, mood disorders and workplace issues. I earned my MSW at Smith College and then went on to earn a Ph.D. in social work at Bryn Mawr, where my dissertation work focused on emerging adult (18-29-year-old) siblings of people with schizophrenia.

As you might guess, working with siblings of people with mental illness and adolescent and young adult development are specialties of mine as well. I believe that the most important work in therapy is the relationship. Establishing trust and solid communication is important and with that in mind, therapy is a collaborative process where I am here to help you set goals, provide support and offer insight. I have an eclectic approach to therapy, using approaches such as psychodynamic theory (including attachment theory), Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy, solution-focused treatment and narrative approaches. Making meaning, improving communication and understanding the ways that our personal histories shape us are important areas to focus on in therapy as well. Beginning therapy is difficult but I will be here to work with you every step of the way and if you have additional questions for me, please do not hesitate to ask. I look forward to working with you.


  • Stress, Anxiety
  • Family conflicts
  • Trauma and abuse
  • Anger management

I also have experience in Addictions, Grief, Parenting issues, Self esteem, Career difficulties, Bipolar disorder, Depression

Years of Experience: 21

Services Offered

  • Messaging

  • Live Chat

  • Phone

  • Video


LMSW #6801100672 (Expires: 2021-04-30)


Written by J.E. on Mar 10, 2019 after counseling with Jillian for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and trauma and abuse

Dr. Graves has helped me immensely in crafting the narratives which are at the base of many of my anxieties, and how these are grounded in my particular trauma history. She is truly a therapist I feel comfortable delving into extremely difficult subjects and greatly value her feedback and inputs.

Written by A.L. on Feb 09, 2019 after counseling with Jillian for 2 months on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, grief, eating disorders, and self esteem

I feel very good talking to her, funny and understanding

Written by M.E. on Jan 03, 2019 after counseling with Jillian for 1 month on issues concerning family conflicts, and parenting issues

Dr Graves has done more for me in a few sessions than years and years of therapy have done previously. I was skeptical at first, as is human nature to be with something new, but she picked up on my problem at once, and I cannot emphasize enough how much she has helped me. As a person whose opinions & wishes had been invalidated for many years, I came to Dr Graves broken and at the end of my rope. I understood many things about myself, and things just fell into place - all thanks to Dr Graves' openness and understanding. She is present, she is genuine, and I am just so grateful that we were matched. I highly recommend her!

Written by M.I. on Dec 31, 2018 after counseling with Jillian for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, self esteem, career difficulties, and adhd

Dr. Graves answers my questions and gives me practical things to do in assisting to solve my issues.

Written by L.O. on Nov 12, 2018 after counseling with Jillian for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, and self esteem

I was completely unsure about online counselling but Dr.Graves put me at ease. Her approach being focused on the therapeutic relationship eased me into being open and able to communicate. Her response; immediate, compassionate, empathy, trustworthy but also straight and honest! Thank you for always being there when I needed it, you are an amazing therapist!

Written by T.A. on Sep 06, 2018 after counseling with Jillian for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, sleeping, and self esteem

Dr. Graves is very professional. She listens well and has clear approaches which are science-based. Before I started my sessions with Dr. Graves I was anxious and confused about intrusive thoughts. She helped me open my eyes to see things in clear perspective.