About Me

Great! Reaching out for support is a sign of strength.

I am a strong believer that every person already holds the key to improving their own life. They sometimes just need a trained listener to bring that inherent wisdom to the forefront. My personal joy and the reason I’m a therapist is that I enjoy people and I love to see clients grow, feel happier and develop confidence. I also believe that therapy should be short term and my goal is to work to put myself out of a job.

I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. We specialize in relationships. I have more than 25 years of experience in private practice working with depressed individuals, couples and adolescents. In addition, I have been a supervisor and trainer of therapist interns. I was Senior Clinical Supervisor at an agency working with severe trauma as well as VP of clinical services at an agency working to promote the healing for those recovering from physical abuse.

My approach to therapy is evidence based, solution focused cognitive behavioral therapy. That sounds complex but it means that our thoughts, beliefs and feelings link to our behaviors and positive changes come from exploring the connections.

I would love to partner with you to provide you with some support and to provide you with tools for positive change you seek.


  • Relationship issues
  • Trauma and abuse
  • Parenting issues
  • Depression
  • Coping with life changes
Also experienced in:
Stress, Anxiety , Addictions , LGBT , Family conflicts , Grief , Intimacy-related issues , Self esteem , Body Image , Communication Problems , Domestic Violence , Family of Origin Issues , Family Problems , Isolation/Loneliness , Phobias , Read more...

Clinical approaches:
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Trauma-Focused Therapy

Years of Experience: 20

Services Offered

  • Messaging

  • Live Chat

  • Phone

  • Video


LMFT #LMFT35117 (Expires: 2024-04-30)


These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Lola Haag. We don’t pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.

Written by L.I. on Jun 22, 2022 after therapy with Lola for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, eating disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes

Great so far

Written by P.A. on Jun 14, 2022 after therapy with Lola for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, and coping with life changes

Although it is my first time talking to a therapist, I feel very confident to say Lola is a great therapist. She is very professional and respectful, a great listener and supporter. It feels great to feel like I have someone to support me emotionally in this new self growth journey. I look forward to many more meetings! I look forward to seeing a more strong and confident me!

Work with me!