Lynfa Wharam


About Me

Hi my name is Lynfa but you can call me Lyn if you would prefer.

I am very open-minded, practical woman and have spent a life time helping others. I am very easy to talk to and have had many life experiences which I can use to empathise with you. .

My previous background is the law, having worked for international law firms in London and Essex for 20 years.

I am qualified in psychotherapeutic counselling and hypnotherapy, and use an integrative approach to counselling, which means that rather than using just one specific type of counselling i.e. Person Centred Counselling, etc. I like to use a wide range of therapies to help the client with their individual needs as they progress through their sessions.

I am also a qualified psychosexual therapist which covers all aspects of sexual health as well as dealing with subjects such as abusive relationships, extra-marital affairs, physical and emotional problems affecting couples such as frigidity and premature ejaculation, commitment, trust, communication and compromise. I offer this therapy to individual and/or couples.

At the start of the pandemic, I offered my services as a volunteer mental health practitioner to Project5; an organisation specifically set up to offer mental health support to NHS workers and those working in care homes.

I look forward to seeing you.


  • Stress, Anxiety
  • Relationship issues
  • Intimacy-related issues
  • Self esteem
  • Depression
Also experienced in:
Addictions , Family conflicts , Trauma and abuse , Grief , Career difficulties , Coping with life changes , Coaching , Abandonment , Attachment Issues , Avoidant Personality , BDSM, Kink, Alternative Sex Culture , Body Image , Read more...

Clinical approaches:
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Hypnotherapy, Jungian Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy

Years of Experience: 7

Services Offered

  • Messaging

  • Live Chat

  • Phone

  • Video


NCS NCS15-02642


These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Lynfa Wharam. We don’t pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.

Written by L.I. on Sep 29, 2022 after therapy with Lynfa for 2 months on issues concerning intimacy-related issues

I was working with Lyn for a short time due to my time limitations and she was not only able to get to the source of the problem in very short time but also brought it to different level and gave me a broad vision onto it which helped to put it in perspective. The hypnosis is very helpful and effective and Lyn became in very short time a trusted companion on my side... almost a friendship-level of confidence. She is listening, motivating, empowering and really puts her head and heart into helping you. I will dearly miss our session and hope to connect with her in future again. I can highly recommend her! absolute sweetheart and professional!

Written by E.M. on Sep 22, 2022 after therapy with Lynfa for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, and trauma and abuse

We are just in the beginning but Lynfa is great to talk to. So relaxed, dosent seem stressed at all while talking. I am so happy I did this!

Written by M.O. on Jul 29, 2022 after therapy with Lynfa for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, addictions, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and coaching

Really enjoying working with Lyn.

Written by M.A. on Jul 17, 2022 after therapy with Lynfa for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes

Lynfa listens and works well with the issues presented, using a variety of approaches. I would strongly recommend her to work with.

Work with me!