Hello and Greetings! I am a licensed psychotherapist with a degree in Marriage and Family Therapy (LMFT). I have been a professional clinical therapist for over 4 years, and maintain a private practice in Highland Park, CA and in Huntington Beach, as well as online services. I graduated in 2016 from Northcentral University (NCU), a 100% online program with full accreditation, and the first university of its kind to break ground with all the accrediting boards, which is why I feel so confident and enthusiastic about the effectiveness, practicality, and flexibility of online and distance-related therapeutic work and services.
Although I service a range of needs, i tend to specialize in adolescent depression, adult depression, anxiety, stress, LGBT issues, lack of motivation, low self-esteem, feeling "stuck" in life, addictions (including food), and family/relational issues. I also participate in a weekly PodCast called Mind Fit. https://www.facebook.com/mindfitpodcast/
Does life often seem stuck in patterns that repeat over and over? Feel powerless or helpless to change that experience? Do you frequently feel anxious, depressed, overwhelmed, self-conscious, or fearful? Ever wonder why you feel the way you feel, and think the way you think, and why it is so hard to make permanent change? Do you want more control, insight, and power to achieve personal breakthroughs?
My experience, practice, and training have shown me that our ways of thinking and feeling are due to years of self-authored truths. Our perceptions, interpretations, and beliefs about who we are and what everything means keep us trapped. Together, we will chip away at how to re-author yourself in a non-judgmental setting.
We work at a pace that is tailored to you and your goals, to discover your best self, and what you can become. I invite you to contact me!
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
Addictions , Trauma and abuse , Grief , Intimacy-related issues , Eating disorders , Parenting issues , Self esteem , Career difficulties , Coping with life changes , Compassion fatigue , ADHD , Abandonment , Adoption and Foster Care , Attachment Issues , Autism and Asperger Syndrome , Avoidant Personality , Blended Family Issues , Body Image , Co-morbidity , Codependency , Commitment Issues , Communication Problems , Control Issues , Dependent Personality , Divorce and Separation , Drug and Alcohol Addiction , Eating and Food-Related Issues , Emptiness , Family of Origin Issues , Family Problems , Fatherhood Issues , Forgiveness , Gender Dysphoria , Guilt and Shame , HIV / AIDS , Hoarding , Immigration Issues , Impulsivity , Infidelity , Isolation/Loneliness , Jealousy , Life Purpose , Men's Issues , Midlife Crisis , Military and Veterans Issues , Money and Financial Issues , Mood Disorders , Multicultural Concerns , Narcissism , Obsessions, Compulsions, and OCD , Panic Disorder and Panic Attacks , Paranoia , Personality Disorders , Phobias , Polyamory / Nonmonogamous Relationships , Postpartum Depression , Posttraumatic Stress , Prejudice and Discrimination , Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling) , Self-Love , Sex Addiction , Sexual Assault and Abuse , Sexual Dysfunction , Sexuality , Smoking/Vaping Cessation , Social Anxiety and Phobia , Workplace Issues , Young Adult Issues Read more...
Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Existential Therapy, Gottman Method, Imago Relationship Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy
LMFT #112115 (Expires: 2023-03-31)
I’ve only worked with Neil a few months and he has tremendously helped me understand the nuances of certain situations. He has also offered amazing coping skills and understands when I don’t really feel like talking he has a way of kindly drawing out of me what would help me should I talk about at that time. He’s not pushy, but not placating at the same time. I have recommended him to several close friends and family members.
Neil has been a really great therapist for me. I was nervous at first picking a therapist of the opposite gender because I didn’t think he would understand my point of view, but he does and he’s been really really helpful. There are things I didn’t think of for the problems I was facing and he would help me see it in a different light. So I give him a 10/10 in my book
Neil is awesome! He is extraordinarily knowledgeable and really has a unique way of seeing things. I like how he doesn't just comfort my surface emotions but challenges me to think deeper so I can change for the better.
He's an excellent therapist who is extremely attentive and offers an absurd amount of different ways to help deal with and work through the different issues that someone might have.
In the short time I have been in contact with Neil Babins, he has been extremely attentive and reads all my messages. Neil responds with validating and helpful messages. He really makes me feel heard and I appreciate his time spent helping me.
Neil’s awesome and I’m looking forward to picking back up my journey with him
Neil is great at his job. Very productive in helping get to the root of the problem and in time overcome it.
Neil has been a great help not only for the original reason I started attending but also during Covid. He gives actionable things which helps.
Neil is outstanding, very professional and has deep knowledge of the work. He listens well and processes the information quickly and effectively. He will help you.
Neil Babins has been extremely helpful as I faced a personal crisis. He listens well, is engaged, and asks good questions. He draws upon a wealth of knowledge, makes helpful observations, and makes good referrals to other resources. He was very helpful even in the early sessions before I knew him well and had built trust. I was surprised that I was comfortable discussing sensitive subjects. As I've gotten further into the process my trust has grown. I feel fortunate that I was given Neil as my counselor.
Although I was apprehensive to start therapy, I knew I needed it. He isn’t my first counselor, and my last one was just not for me, but I feel a connection with Neil. I feel comfortable talking to him and I can count on him giving me a thoughtful and helpful response and even outside resources/materials as well to help me navigate my thoughts. He helps me realize new perspectives, which does actually help me get out of the funk I can tend to fall into. Bonus: He also checks in when you’ve been MIA for a while which really gives me this sense that he cares and hasn’t forgotten about me.
Neil is an amazing counselor. He is kind, understanding, and thoughtful; he knows when to talk and when to listen. Thanks to his help and the tools he's given me I'm able to refocus myself, change for the better, and discover the parts of myself that I'd had tucked away for years. Thanks, Neil.
He’s a good match for my sessions
I was hesitant of online therapy but I quickly learned that my assigned counselor, Neil would exceed every expectation. He has gone above and beyond to guide and treat me. He was always available and accommodating to my schedule; even in crisis moments through the app he would respond. It is because of Neil that I was able to reclaim my life again.
Neil has been great so far. I’ve been waiting for my scheduled appointment to actually occur still since it’s been busier during COVID, but Neil has been really good about answering back on the chat and giving me great things to think about. I’m new to counseling but I think this has been a nice way to ease into it, having some key points to think about throughout the day and knowing I can ask questions anytime. I also enjoy listening to his podcast for more advice.
Neil is the most amazing counsellor I have ever worked with. He is patient, understanding, really listens, and helps me get to the bottom of the issues I am experiencing. I've learned way more about myself, problems, relationships and life, from my time with him, than all other counsellors and self help books- combined. There is something about the way he speaks, responds and handles the issues we discuss, and the way he makes it feel like normal conversation. I feel very comfortable speaking with him, and opening up as I know I am continuously moving towards higher ground. I feel stronger, braver, and more loving, accepting and understanding of myself because of him.
He is a great counselor.
Really amazing support and resources.
Neil Babins is a first-rate counselor and wonderful person. He is wise, articulate, insightful, warm and caring. He is also inspiring and our sessions have led to incredible breakthroughs in my life.
Neil is insightful, patient, kind, and thoughtful. He listens intently and then talks things out with you clearly. He is wonderful to talk out your issues/problems out with.
I've really enjoyed working with my counselor, Neil. Not only does he respond to my journal entries and questions in a timely manner, but he also helps me dig deeper. He's supportive and affirming, but also offers so many helpful analogies and exercises to help me work things out. I find myself arriving at insights and epiphanies whilst working with him and reflecting on the exercises he gives me. It's amazing, but after working with me for a while, he really understood how best to help me and I feel like I've flourished over the past few months and have grown a lot. I can see real results in my life, one day at a time. I highly recommend Neil as a counselor and the BetterHelp format to anyone seeking counseling.
Neil is an excellent therapist, very attentive. I've been to a couple of therapist and must say that I immediately felt comfortable opening up to my truth (or so I thought). His questions and exercises provide instant feedback and identification or root issues so the healing process can begin. I love and look forward to my therapy sessions with him.
Neil is great and gets to the point
Niel from my experiences, is great at what he does. He truly listens and tries to pinpoint factors to be worked on. Within a few days of talking with him, I could see myself starting to make changes. I have had a few counselors, lol, and he is by far the best.
Neil is great to work with!
Neil's been wonderful so far. I was definitely really nervous about getting back into therapy, but I've been pleasantly surprised. He has a calming presence and is a rational human being, which I find very refreshing and helpful. I feel that whenever I'm ready to dive into my deeper issues, he'll be able to support me and guide me in the right direction. I also feel safe discussing my issues, feelings, and opinions as a marginalized person with him.
Through my short time with Neil, he's definitely helped me get perspective in a variety of issues that I'm having. It's allowed me to feel better about my everyday life. I look forward to every session, he's thoughtful and very aware of the bigger picture. I highly recommend Neil to anyone looking for a thoughtful and considerate approach to relationship / family issues.
Neil is great! He is good at getting right to the point, to the heart of things.
I found my time with Neil to be very helpful and the insights I gained far exceeded my expectations going into therapy. I really felt heard and that my concerns were being taken seriously. He helped me to get to the root of my issues much quicker than I would have thought we would and I gained so much from the tools he shared with me. I would highly recommend Neil if you are looking for a counselor who will make you feel comfortable and help you get to the root of what's troubling you.
Neil is absolutely amazing! You can automatically sense how passionate he is about helping others. In the little time we've worked together I've learned key elements and steps to start my healing journey. His approach has been very helpful and insightful, would definitely recommend him to friends and family.
One of the best therapists that I have worked with my entire life despite the fact it is all done remotely. At first I was kind of skeptical about his professionalism and knowledge as I didn't have great experience with online therapy in the past but a few sessions with him have completely changed how I feel about psychotherapy online and counselling in a virtual world. He is attentive to your needs from all angles and really motivates you to self-examine meticulously. I think a lot of times we just need someone to help us expand our way of thinking a bit. He is also great at asking questions for self-reflection. He is very detail oriented and thought-provoking too. I would give him 5 star rating and highly recommend him to anyone who is in need of psychotherapy or mental counselling. Great experience of working with him and he really helped me through the most challenging parts of my life.
So far, I like working with Neil.
Neil as a patient and attentive listener, even through my rambling, trying to get my story out and express the way I feel about my situation. Giving me some good feedback and some mindfulness worksheets to get into. I trust through this process I'll gain more clarity, so I can feel confident in my choices moving forward.
I put off finding a therapist for a long time. I dreaded my first conversation with Neil and all the awkward, clunky explanations I'd have to give about my depression and anxiety. All of the things that felt like dirty little secrets that caused me so much pain. But I was so pleasantly surprised by the way Neil accurately picked up on what I was saying and gave me more insight into how my brain was working. It made my issue feel so much less of a personal problem and more of a universal problem we could examine together. He always gives me a thoughtful response within a day or two any time I send a message. I actually think we've made more progress in between sessions just by being able to communicate things that are coming up in real time. Neil is intelligent and kind. I really appreciate his communication style and highly recommend him.
Neil is great - really wants to get to the heart of the issues and improve quality of life. Highly recommend!
I’ve only had 2 sessions with Neil so far. I’m really enjoying his perspective on things, he’s enlightening. Speaking with him gives me a sense of calm. Keeping in touch with Neil is easy and he is quick to respond. I look forward to future sessions with Neil.
I really appreciate how even-keeled Neil is. He gives me productive solutions to problems I'm facing and tells me find the root of the problem.
I was very apprehensive and almost didn’t keep my appointment. Neil Babins was very easy to talk to and I felt much more comfortable after only a few minutes. I look forward to more sessions.
Neil is great, he's a good listener and adresses everything in way that makes it easy for me to visualize the emotional barriers i have to break down. His level of interaction guides me step by step through the maze of the past, helping me understand my emotinal self on a whole new level.