About Me

Hi and welcome! I've been successfully providing therapy for over a decade. I specialize in therapy covering issues such as:

polyamory/non-monogamy/open marriages
gender-related issues
anger management and more.

The therapy models I use, which you may have heard of, are cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), attachment styles, and positive psychology. I also use principles from solutions-focused therapy, motivational interviewing, and mindfulness. I advocate for and work with the LGBTQ+ community. I am also an advocate of properly used plant medicines such as MDMA, cannabis, and psilocybin.

You can expect that we will work together to address the concerns that bring you to therapy. We will look at your innate strengths (because everyone has them) as well as other tools you may want to add.

On a personal note, I was born and raised in Utah. I made my way out to New Jersey in 1999, where I received my university education, started a family and have been living ever since. I've been through a divorce as well. My personal interests include vegetarianism, rock climbing, backpacking, yoga, and exploring the good eats of the area!

Looking forward to meeting you and working together!

Regarding my AVAILABILITY posted on this site, I have more availability than what is posted. If you would like to schedule a session, please contact me so that I can make sure we get you scheduled appropriately into a time that works best for both of us. Once enrolled in this website's services, you'll be able to message me. I will respond to you within 24 hours. Thanks again!!


  • Stress, Anxiety
  • Relationship issues
  • Self esteem
  • Career difficulties
  • Depression
Also experienced in:
LGBT , Family conflicts , Trauma and abuse , Grief , Intimacy-related issues , Parenting issues , Anger management , Coping with life changes , Coaching , ADHD , Attachment Issues , Blended Family Issues , Body Image , Cancer , Read more...

Clinical approaches:
Attachment-Based Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Solution-Focused Therapy

Years of Experience: 13

Services Offered

  • Messaging

  • Live Chat

  • Phone

  • Video


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These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Neil Steinert. We don’t pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.

Written by D.I. on May 25, 2022 after therapy with Neil for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, and adhd

Neil is an incredible therapist who does an amazing job in identifying your specific needs and helping guide you through methods to help improve yourself!

Written by F.E. on Jan 12, 2019 after therapy with Neil for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and sleeping disorders

Excellent experience.

Work with me!