About Me

When you find a therapist you trust, you can change your life. Asking for help is a forgotten life skill. So congratulations for reaching out! My experience has been in hospitals, hospice, universities, community agencies, grief groups, and private practice . In my approach with clients I hope to give you a sense of safety while we walk together on your journey. Knowing you are not alone is the first step in therapy. I work with depression, anxiety, current and past traumas, loss and grief, aging, end of life issues, caregiver stress, family of origin issues and life transitions. I completed my masters education at both Eastern Mennonite University and James Madison University and have a license in professional counseling in Virginia. I have practiced for over 25 years.

I invite you to contact me and see how we can work together.


  • Stress, Anxiety
  • Trauma and abuse
  • Grief
  • Depression
  • Coping with life changes
Also experienced in:
LGBT , Relationship issues , Family conflicts , Intimacy-related issues , Parenting issues , Anger management , Self esteem , Bipolar disorder , Compassion fatigue , ADHD , Abandonment , Aging and Geriatric Issues , Attachment Issues , Read more...

Clinical approaches:
Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Psychodynamic Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy

Years of Experience: 25

Services Offered

  • Messaging

  • Live Chat

  • Phone

  • Video


LPC #0701002625 (Expires: 2023-06-30)


These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Pamela Comer. We don’t pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.

Written by D.E. on May 17, 2022 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, trauma and abuse, and intimacy-related issues

Having just begun our journey, I feel Pamela is actively listening and is allowing an open space enabling my best outcome to learn

Written by M.A. on Apr 25, 2022 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, depression, self esteem, and adhd

She is so sweet and really makes me feel at ease and comfortable. She allows me to discuss pressing concerns in my life while still being able to focus and relate the sessions to overarching issues. She is incredibly helpful in assisting me with skills in navigating building healthy interpersonal relationships while still maintaining my advocacy for self and boundaries.

Written by D.I. on Apr 22, 2022 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, grief, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and coping with life changes

She is a big help to me and I really need our sessions.
I am so grateful to her.

Work with me!