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Dr. Penny Brower, LCPC

Stress, Anxiety Relationships Self esteem, Motivation Depression ADHD
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About me

In this giant Carnival of Life, are you on the Roller Coaster full of ups and downs, on the repetitive slow-motion Carousel, on the Tilt-A-Whirl feeling unbalanced and squashed by outside forces, in the House of Horrors where every view is distorted and you can hardly find the exit, or on the Raging River where everyone else stays dry while you get drenched?
Are you here by choice and enjoying the adventure, hanging on for dear life and fearing disaster ahead, or confused about how someone was able to drag you here against your better judgement?
Though everyone's Carnival visit is unique, if you invite me to join this part of your journey, I can help you explore the decision-making processes and life events that have led you to this place. I will assist you in building skills and finding resources to thrive beyond the dangerous curves, the jarring stops and reverses, and the nauseating spins and loops. You will be empowered to choose and create more positive, adaptive ways forward, to better enjoy the ride and have a more fulfilling adventure.
Because the best outcomes are achieved with a good client/counselor fit, I always welcome feedback regarding what has been helpful, as well as not helpful, so that methods can be adapted to achieve the best results.

I am a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor. I received my doctoral degree from The University of Iowa and I have worked for over 30 years helping individuals and couples become more intentional and response-able in their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
I began my career doing in-home therapy with complex, multi-problem families, and I have worked in Community Mental Health Centers and Private Practice settings. In addition, I worked for 8 years with the Air National Guard, helping to institute a new program that focused on reducing suicide risk and increasing resilience, while reducing the stigma of using mental health services to maximize personal functioning.
When describing people, my least favorite word is NORMAL. I believe that each individual is unique, and deserves to be treated in caring and respectful ways that help them grow, versus being treated like a diagnostic label that needs to be fixed. It is the difference between:
"It sounds like you may be struggling with depressed feelings. Let's explore the conditions that seem connected to when those feelings hit really hard, compared to when they seem to lighten up."
versus
"You are depressed. Here is what you need to do to change."

Professional experience

34 yrs in practice
Stress, Anxiety Relationships Self esteem, Motivation Depression ADHD

Additional areas of focus: Addictions, LGBT, Family conflicts, Trauma and abuse, Grief, Intimacy-related issues, Anger management, Coping with life changes, Abandonment, Aging and geriatric issues, Attachment issues, Autism and Asperger Syndrome, Codependency, Communication problems, Control issues, Divorce and separation, Emptiness, Family of origin issues, Family problems, Forgiveness, Guilt and shame, Infidelity, Isolation / loneliness, Life purpose, Veteran and Armed Forces Issues, Narcissism, Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Phobias, Prejudice and discrimination, Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), Self-love, Sexual assault and abuse, Sexuality, Social anxiety and phobia, Women's issues

Clinical approaches: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Gottman Method, Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Narrative Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems, Systemic Therapy

Services offered

Video
Audio
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Messaging

License information

IL LCPC 180.001847

Reviews

These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Dr. Penny Brower. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.

There is no one better who could have been in this position to help guide me in this roller coaster of a life. When feeling like I had no one, my therapist was everything I needed to keep going and to trust/love myself. Every session for the past couple years has always been so healing. I am SO thankful I made the choice to join BetterHelp.

Written on Aug 03, 2025 after therapy with Penny for 2 years on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, coping with life changes, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd

Dr. Brower is a great listener and always finds relatable information that helps me better understand myself and my experiences. I've been seeing her for over a year now, and in that time, she has created a space where I feel genuinely heard, supported, and empowered. Her thoughtful guidance and compassionate approach have made a real difference in my life. I’m so grateful for the work we’ve done together and would highly recommend her to anyone looking for a skilled and caring therapist.

Written on Jun 18, 2025 after therapy with Penny for 2 years and 9 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, and coping with life changes

Dr Penny has been life changing in the two sessions I have had so far. Looking forward to continued advancement in the process and better coping skills

Written on Jun 18, 2025 after therapy with Penny for 2 weeks on issues concerning trauma and abuse, and grief

Penny Brower. Look for her first

Written on Mar 04, 2025 after therapy with Penny for 2 years on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, sleeping disorders, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd

Very happy

Written on Feb 17, 2025 after therapy with Penny for 1 year and 5 months on issues concerning relationship issues

Wonderful therapist with great strategies for neurodivergent folks. Very good listener, and has great suggestions/advice for almost anything

Written on Jan 09, 2025 after therapy with Penny for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, sleeping disorders, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd