Randie Tollefson


About Me

It's so hard to feel stuck and exhausted, like what you are doing isn't working or sustainable, but you can't see any real alternatives. We all struggle in the need to feel safe, seen, and special; sometimes it feels like there is no safe place for us, or just too many obstacles to getting where we want to go. I create a safe and judgment-free space for couples and individuals to stretch, experiment, and try on parts of yourself you lost contact with along the way.

I work with couples, individual adults and adolescents. Because of my own background in the arts, I also particularly love to work with artists/performers. In addition, I welcome those who identify outside of what is considered the norm of gender expression and sexuality. I integrate a lot of different approaches into my work, but my couples work centers mostly around Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and my individual work around Coherence Therapy.

Whether you need a compassionate and understanding ear to serve as a sounding board as you work it all out, or the insight and guidance of an outside perspective, my practice offers a flexible approach that is equal parts heart and mind.


  • Stress, Anxiety
  • Relationship
  • Family
  • Depression

I also have experience in Addictions, LGBT, Trauma and abuse, Grief, Intimacy-related, Eating, Sleeping, Parenting, Anger, Self esteem, Career, Bipolar

Years of Experience: 4

Services Offered

  • Messaging

  • Live Chat

  • Phone

  • Video


LMFT #001248 (Expires: 2021-07-31)


Written by R.I. on May 15, 2018 after counseling with Randie for 11 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, relationship, family, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related, eating, sleeping, self esteem, and anger

Randie has a gift for empathizing and helping me to pinpoint patterns and feel the underlying feelings. She has been crucial in helping me accept my feelings along with their purpose and history, I am learning to express them appropriately and act in my best interest as much as possible. What a gift it’s been to work with her!

Written by K.E. on Jun 23, 2017 after counseling with Randie for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, lgbt, trauma and abuse, and bipolar

Randie is excellent! She really listens to me. I feel not only understood but not judged by her, which is really comforting because of the issues I have to deal with. She gives a lot of positive insight and she helps me become more aware of myself and my actions. I can't really recommend her enough.

Written by N.I. on Jun 02, 2017 after counseling with Randie for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, relationship, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related, sleeping, self esteem, anger, career, and bipolar

I lover her!!! She makes it easy to just open up.

Written by M.A. on Apr 28, 2017 after counseling with Randie for 1 month on issues concerning depression, and stress, anxiety

Randie has been outstanding in helping me through a very difficult time. Her kindness and care is present in all her communication, creating a very safe and open space in which to work though issues. Randie is highly perceptive and her positive approach resonates long after a season is over.