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I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist. I obtained my doctorate degree (Psy.D.) from Philadelphia College of Osteopathic Medicine in Philadelphia PA. I obtained my undergraduate and master's degree from Millersville University, Millersville, PA. I have over 30 years of experience in the mental health field and during those years I have worked with ages ranging from infants to geriatrics. I owned and operated my own private practice for many years in Lancaster County, PA. My practice provided testing, assessment, diagnostics, and therapy. I specialized in the diagnosing and treatment of Autism and Intellectual Disabilities as well as provided therapy for young adults and adults. With regard to therapy I have extensively treated depression and anxiety, which are the two most common mental health issues that arise. I have also treated those suffering from trauma (PTSD) especially related to physical abuse, verbal abuse, and neglect. I have also worked with persons facing unwanted adjustments in their lives, such as grief, loss, and drastic changes in their lives. I have also worked extensively with persons dealing with personality disorders. In my years of experience I have encountered and treated most of the major mental health issues that people face and have worked with symptoms ranging from mild through the level that hospitalization has been required.
With regard to my treatment modality, I was trained primarily in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. While I still often use this as a basis of treatment quite often, my years of experience have taught me that flexibility in treatment approach is necessary and to "do what works." Each person who comes in for treatment is an individual and the notion that "one size fits all" with regard to treatment approach is simply not true. As individuals, each client requires and deserves an individualized approach fashioned with his/her specific needs, situation, and personality considered. I believe that collaboration in treatment is necessary and therefore the client is included in all aspects of the treatment process and planning. However, I also realize that clients are coming to a professional for guidance and direction and therefore I also provide this guidance and leadership in the therapy process that is needed in order for progress to be made. I also require that clients are actively involved in treatment, which includes working between sessions. I firmly believe that it is not the one hour per week of therapy that makes a difference but rather it is the 167 hours between the sessions where the real work is done. As such, clients are required to complete tasks between sessions that will reinforce and practice the skills that are being worked on in the therapy sessions. As a therapist I do not see my job as "fixing" the client's problems but rather teaching him or her to learn to fix his/her own problems - the current problem as well as those that will arise in the future. I work to train clients in the skills they need to manage their own lives effectively. I do not foster dependence on myself as I see this as a disservice to the client. I do not see therapy as a forever service but rather one that arms clients with knowledge and skills in order to carry on with their own lives effectively.
My goal as a therapist is to work myself out of a job by teaching each client what they need to know it order to feel better and to reach his or her fullest potential. You will find that I am compassionate and empathetic but also direct and no-nonsense in my approach. There are times when clients needs to be comforted and shown compassion, and there are times when they need to be given a good push, and I know when is the time for each approach. You will find my to be open, honest, direct, and trustworthy. If you think that we would be a good match, I look forward to hearing from you.
Professional experience
35yrs in practice
Stress, AnxietyLGBTQ+DepressionCoping with life changes
Additional areas of focus:Relationship issues, Grief, Intimacy-related issues, Parenting issues, Anger management, Self esteem, Career difficulties, Compassion fatigue, ADHD, Aging and Geriatric Issues, Autism and Asperger Syndrome, Body Image, Communication Problems, Dependent Personality, Eating and Food-Related Issues, Forgiveness, Guilt and Shame, Intellectual Disability, Men's Issues, Mood Disorders, Panic Disorder and Panic Attacks, Personality Disorders, Phobias, Post-traumatic Stress, Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), Sex Addiction, Sexuality, Social Anxiety and Phobia, Traumatic Brain Injury
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Dr. Robert Carey. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.
Dr. Carey was extremely knowledgeable & incredibly compassionate in helping me address my problems. I highly recommend him.
Written on Nov 01, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Dr. Carey is a fantastic person! I've only had 3 sessions with him but I feel as though he understands people and he is kind with his words. I would recommend him to anyone!
Written on Oct 28, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, and adhd
Dr. Carey is just absolutely terrific! He’s attentive and listens carefully and communicates with me very well. He understands all my personal concerns and always gives me practical insight on how to address them in the most healthy way. It has truly been a pleasure being his client so far!
Written on Oct 24, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Dr. Carey is compassionate, listens, and cares. He is professional and cares so much about his patients. I am very fortunate and lucky to have him as my therapist!!
Written on Oct 20, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, sleeping disorders, self esteem, bipolar disorder, and adhd
He does a great job! Asks very good questions, allows me to dig deeper into myself.
Written on Sep 25, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 2 weeks on issues concerning addictions, and intimacy-related issues
Dr. Carey really listens to me and asks questions to continue our conversations about what im going through.
Written on Sep 14, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Initially, I was reluctant to start therapy because I have a hard time with being in a vulnerable state and I did not want to end up on a constant search for someone that I would find myself compatible with. I am grateful that I found Dr. Carey. He is very kind and has been making this process much more pleasant than I had anticipated it ever being.
Written on Sep 12, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, eating disorders, self esteem, and adhd
I was very skeptical of the quality of therapy I would receive from Betterhelp but Dr. Cary is excellent. He listens, offers support and understanding. But most importantly gives practical ways to adjust your thinking to improve your overall quality of life. I am stunned at how insightful he is.
Written on Sep 08, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, and trauma and abuse
Dr. Carey is a great resource if you’re ready to learn more about mental health disorders. He shares great information on how to improve self-care and advocates the importance of self-care. He’s always been prompt with responses and professional in his deliverance. I would recommend him 10/10.
Written on Sep 06, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 6 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, and anger management
He gives perspective and great recommendations
Written on Aug 15, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 1 year on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and grief
So far so good. Ready to tap into myself more
Written on Jun 22, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 2 weeks on issues concerning lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, anger management, and career difficulties
So far I have found my work with Dr. Carey to be empowering and helpful in straightening through may of my concerns and issues as well as helping me remain grounded and rational when I need to. The sessions are a bit short but nonetheless helpful.
Written on Jun 07, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Dr. Carey has been an integral part of my healing journey this year. He has helped me navigate not only my emotions but also stressors in my life with practical skills and tools. When I look at my journal afterwards, it’s clear that our sessions have been more productive than some in-person therapists I’ve seen in the past. I am very grateful for Dr. Carey’s time, wisdom and expertise.
Written on Jun 07, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coaching, and adhd
In a very short period of time, Dr Carey was able to help me get back on the right path. I realize that I have a lot of work ahead of me and look forward to working with Dr Carey through the ups and down ahead!
Written on Jun 01, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 4 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, self esteem, and anger management
Dr. Carey has been incredibly compassionate and insightful. He has helped me grow significantly in 6 months working together. Highly recommend.
Written on May 24, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 6 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
He's super kind and knowledgeable. Doesn't make me feel stupid or guilty for having the thoughts/ feelings that I have. Has been super helpful in helping me feel like myself again
Written on May 16, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, and adhd
Dr. Carey has helped me identify the area that I struggle most with which is lack of confidence in communication with people closest to me. He has given me the tools and knowledge I need to practice working through these struggles when the arise. I appreciate him and what he has taught me. I feel much better now and when needed will come back to therapy with Dr. Carey!
Written on May 03, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and coping with life changes
Dr. Carey is extremely professional and caring. He strives to help you be your best version. He is very tactful and respectful and you can genuinely tell he cares about your well being.
Written on May 03, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, bipolar disorder, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
He's been a great help thus far. Breaks down things for me to manage my issues easier.
Written on Apr 18, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, and intimacy-related issues
He's kind and compassionate. He's also logical and my depressed brain hates that his methods work so well. Highly recommend.
Written on Apr 14, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and career difficulties
Very understanding and easy to talk too
Written on Apr 07, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and parenting issues
He recognized immediately what I was going through and offered the best ways to go about helping me. I’m learning a lot about myself and simple ways to handle what I go through. I appreciate this so much
Written on Mar 21, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
For someone who was going to cancel last minute I’m really glad I didn’t. Dr. Carey made me feel at ease and took time in understanding my goals and behavior
Written on Feb 01, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and compassion fatigue
Over the last few months Dr. Carey has helped me address my mental wellness in a positive light -- which I never thought would be possible. Dr. Carey allowed me explain, process, workout, and find everyday solutions to ensure that I am also capable of helping myself too. It took me awhile to find the strength and courage to start therapy, but Dr. Carey made the first few strides and the continuation of putting myself first worth it.
Written on Jan 11, 2022 after therapy with Robert for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Dr. Carey is a wonderful therapist and human, and one I have come to trust dearly. He's extremely knowledgeable, empathetic, witty, and provides the tools needed towards a path of healing & growth, and all with such a humanistic approach. So much gratitude for you, Dr. C!
Written on Dec 08, 2021 after therapy with Robert for 9 months on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, and anger management
Very helpful. I've seen about 5-6 psychologists in my life time for very high anxiety and Robert was the only one who could help me properly.
Written on Oct 27, 2021 after therapy with Robert for 4 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety
Dr. Carey was helpful. He provided good advice. He is a popular doc on this app, and so will work best for people that have lots of flexibility for their appointment times. I recommend him if this is the case for you!
Written on Sep 14, 2021 after therapy with Robert for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, career difficulties, and coaching
i have already recommended this service to my coworkers
Written on Aug 09, 2021 after therapy with Robert for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and family conflicts
Dr Carey is an excellent psychologist and he is very supportive.
Written on Aug 04, 2021 after therapy with Robert for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety
Dr. Carey is an excellent therapist. His advice leads to results that are life changing. You would be lucky to have him as a therapist. I’ve talked to many specialists and Dr. Carey is quick at identifying the real problem or issue so you can start working on ways to improve your life in a way that is healing rather than just a temporary patch or band aid.
Written on May 24, 2021 after therapy with Robert for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and bipolar disorder
Dr. Carey spends a few minutes with you and manages to pinpoint what the problem is. He really takes his jobs seriously and finds ways to help the core issues. Highly recommend.
Written on Apr 15, 2021 after therapy with Robert for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and self esteem
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