Hi, I’m Tom, and I’m here to walk alongside you on your journey toward healing and growth. I understand how daunting it can be to reach out for help, especially when life feels overwhelming. My approach to therapy is about creating a safe, welcoming space where you can feel heard and understood—without judgment.
I work with individuals facing a range of challenges, including anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship issues. I have a particular passion for supporting men’s mental health and recognizing the unique pressures and societal expectations that men often face. My goal is to help you navigate these challenges, offering both empathy and active engagement in your therapeutic journey.
My Approach
While I am trained as an integrative therapist and draw from various therapeutic modalities, including person-centred, cognitive-behavioural, and psychodynamic therapies, my practice is highly solution-focused. I incorporate Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) and take a more directive approach in our sessions. This means I work actively with you to identify your goals and the concrete steps we can take to achieve them. My goal is to help you find practical solutions that empower you to move forward and create positive change in your life.
What You Can Expect
In our sessions, we will work together to uncover your strengths, develop new coping strategies, and move towards a life that feels more authentic and fulfilling. I believe therapy is not just about talking—it's about taking action to create positive change in your life. Whether you’re dealing with long-standing issues or recent struggles, I’m here to help you navigate through them. I believe in the inherent worth and potential of every individual and am dedicated to guiding you towards greater self-awareness, resilience, and well-being. My approach is collaborative but directive, ensuring that we stay focused on your goals and the actionable steps needed to reach them.
Specialisations
I’m experienced in helping clients with:
Motivation, self-esteem, and confidence
Coping with life changes
Trauma and deep-seated challenges
Men’s Mental Health
I’m particularly passionate about working with men who might feel isolated or overwhelmed by societal pressures. My tailored men’s therapy addresses these specific needs, providing a supportive environment where you can explore your feelings and experiences openly.
Our Therapeutic Relationship
Building a trusting and collaborative relationship is at the heart of my practice. While I am here to listen and support, I will also gently challenge you to push beyond your comfort zone. Together, we will work towards a more fulfilling, balanced, and meaningful life, focusing on actionable steps to help you achieve your goals.
Professional Commitment
I am committed to ongoing professional development and adhere to the ethical standards of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS). Your mental health and well-being are my top priorities, and I am here to support you every step of the way.
Taking the First Step
I believe that you are the expert of your story and possess many strengths to overcome challenges. Taking the first step towards a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage, and I am here to support you in that process. Let's work together to unlock your potential and achieve your goals.
For more information about me, my experience and my articles, please visit therapywithtom.co.uk
Professional experience
5 yrs in practice
Stress, AnxietyTrauma, AbuseAnger managementDepressionCoping with life changes
Additional areas of focus:Relationship issues, Intimacy-related issues, Self esteem, Career difficulties, Abandonment, Attachment issues, Avoidant personality, BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture, Commitment issues, Communication problems, Coping with natural or human-caused disaster, Divorce and separation, Drug and alcohol addiction, Forgiveness, Guilt and shame, Immigration issues, Impulsivity, Infidelity, Isolation / loneliness, Jealousy, Life purpose, Men's issues, Midlife crisis, Money and financial issues, Mood disorders, Multicultural concerns, Narcissism, Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Phobias, Post-traumatic stress, Prejudice and discrimination, Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling), Self-harm, Self-love, Sexuality, Social anxiety and phobia, Workplace issues
NCPS Therapist - Accredited Professional Member (PNCPS Accred) #NCS23-02971
Reviews
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Tomasz Konieczny. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.
Great therapist - so grateful to have him guide me :)
Written on Aug 12, 2025 after therapy with Tomasz for 4 months on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Tomasz really helped me through some difficult things and I can't thank him enough. I feel so much better about everything, my self, my relationships, my work, and much more
Written on Jul 22, 2025 after therapy with Tomasz for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, career difficulties, and coaching
Tom has been great. It’s a long journey but I feel positive progress already
Written on Jul 11, 2025 after therapy with Tomasz for 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and compassion fatigue
I highly recommend Tom, he listens to what you are saying and responds in a calm and considerate way. Responds to to messages in a timely manner.
Written on Jun 14, 2025 after therapy with Tomasz for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety
Tomasz has been brilliant, and has enabled me to address the roots of my issues in order to help me resolve them. He is direct and understanding, and will sensitively challenge my thinking to help me see how I am framing things in my mind and helps me to consider alternate perspectives. I would highly recommend him to others.
Written on Jun 02, 2025 after therapy with Tomasz for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, and trauma and abuse
Thomas is a great and a professional therapist, he listens very carefully, is very non judgmental and takes steps to actually solve your problems. I highly recommend him.
Written on May 25, 2025 after therapy with Tomasz for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, self esteem, and anger management
Tom is an incredible therapist who has truly made a difference in my life. He is highly professional, compassionate, and approachable, creating a safe and supportive environment for healing. He listens attentively, offering thoughtful insights and guidance that make a real impact. His expertise and genuine care have helped me navigate one of the most challenging times in my life, and thanks to his support, I am feeling significantly better. I highly recommend Tom to anyone seeking a therapist who is not only skilled but also deeply invested in their well-being.
Written on Mar 25, 2025 after therapy with Tomasz for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, and adhd
Tom was a very good listener. He has helped me
Written on Mar 23, 2025 after therapy with Tomasz for 1 month on issues concerning relationship issues
I feel comfortable sharing my thoughts and feelings with Tom. He helps me to look at things from a different perspective. He gets me out of my comfort zone, which is a difficult thing to do but it’s very necessary. He is a good listener and picks up on things as you speak.
Written on Feb 03, 2025 after therapy with Tomasz for 4 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, coping with life changes, coaching, and adhd
So far we’ve had only one conversation. Tomasz seems to be a competent therapist. We have a good contact, and I trust him.
I’m very optimistic about our cooperation.
Written on Jan 24, 2025 after therapy with Tomasz for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, coaching, and adhd
He listens, understands and provides straight forward instructions. I appreciate his approach.
Written on Jan 22, 2025 after therapy with Tomasz for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, and anger management
I've only just started therapy with Tomasz, but I know he has peoples bedtime interests at heart. I know this will help a great deal.
Written on Jan 10, 2025 after therapy with Tomasz for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, and adhd
Tom has been an amazing help and honestly couldn’t go a week without him. He is always on time and offers strategies and homework in order to discover deeper. It was my first time coming to therapy but Tom has been and continues to be completely understanding and very helpful. Would highly recommend and will continue to stick with him.
Written on Jan 08, 2025 after therapy with Tomasz for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Tom is a pleasant and thoughtful therapist and his sessions have been helpful for me.
Written on Jan 08, 2025 after therapy with Tomasz for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, and sleeping disorders
I’ve been chatting to Tomasz for the last few weeks and really love his approach. He responds really quickly to messages which has been amazing for me. I’m excited to continue my therapy journey with him.
Written on Jan 04, 2025 after therapy with Tomasz for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, coping with life changes, coaching, and adhd
Thank you Tom, for listening to my concerns and helping me through everything that is going on in my life. I only had two therapy sessions so far, but they have helped me to reflect on the past and what I want from my future.
Tom is also really good to read through any of my journal entries and I feel supported and heard there as well.
Written on Jan 02, 2025 after therapy with Tomasz for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, and coping with life changes
I've been working with Tom for last two months and it has been really insightful experience. He carefully listens to me and knows exactly what's going on in my head. I am looking forward to any session because I always get out lighter and more positive.
Written on Dec 08, 2024 after therapy with Tomasz for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, anger management, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
Tom appears to understand me better than I do. For me that means that he has knowledge and experience and I am confident that he is able to help me.
He shows compassion while remaining professional which (for me) also means that he is well aware of what is happening to me and respectively comes to show his preparedness - knowledge and experience.
I can feel his passion to help me by asking the right questions. And during our sessions I can feel him there with me - listening to what I am saying and making the effort to un me. I feel the session like an active conversation and not just me pouring my thoughts out.
Written on Oct 21, 2024 after therapy with Tomasz for 2 weeks on issues concerning trauma and abuse, and parenting issues
Tomasz is very understanding and is helping me overcome my mental obstacles. He is a great listener and knows when to offer advice which has been great so far. I always recommend Betterhelp to my friends and how its helping me on my journey.
Written on Oct 07, 2024 after therapy with Tomasz for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Tom is exceptional. I have been in the washing machine of therapy for over two decades. But with his constant support, availability and guidance, I believe I will make it.
Written on Oct 05, 2024 after therapy with Tomasz for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Very helpful and great communication
Written on Aug 28, 2024 after therapy with Tomasz for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, and anger management
Tomasz has been a great listening ear and challenges me to strive and do my best as I navigate different experiences in my life. He’s been an understanding and supportive influence in my life!
Written on Aug 10, 2024 after therapy with Tomasz for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, anger management, and adhd
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