Give Romance A Spark With 35 Profound Love Quotes For Her

Medically reviewed by Andrea Brant, LMHC
Updated April 29, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team

You want to tell the woman you love, possibly a soul mate, how you feel, but you can’t seem to capture your emotions in words. Fortunately, you may be able to borrow a phrase or two from someone else. People have been finding creative ways to express longing, affection, and desire as long as they’ve had language. Finding the perfect love quotes for her can be a touching, romantic gift to create a memory you can cherish forever.

The best love quotes may help when you need the right words to tell her how much she means to you, such as for a special occasion or simply a date night. We’ve broken them down into a few categories so you can choose the ones that best convey what you’re trying to say. There are sappy quotes to make her laugh, sultry words to make her blush, and poetic profundities to make her heart melt. 

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Why just a few words can be so powerful

Tender words can be a vital part of romantic love for many people. “Words of affirmation” are among the five core ways of expressing and receiving affection that Gary Chapman outlines in his popular book The Five Love Languages. 

Research has validated Chapman’s theory, and experiments suggest that women may be particularly sensitive to whether or not their partner uses their preferred love language. If your partner responds strongly to words of affirmation, finding ways to tell her how special she is could be crucial for keeping your relationship strong.

You may not always have to use your own words. Taking the time to find a love quote that resonates deeply with you can show her that you care about making her feel adored. And it can let her know that she’s on your mind even when you’re apart.

Brief but profound love quotes for her

Often, the most moving quotes are those that convey oceans of feeling in just a few words. Here are a few short sayings that can sum up your love in a single breath.

  • “I am so in love with you that there isn’t anything else.” — Ernest Hemingway
  • “Your love shines in my heart as the sun that shines upon the earth.” — Eleanor de Guillo
  • “If I know what love is, it’s because of you.” — Herman Hesse
  • “Morning without you is a dwindled dawn.” — Emily Dickinson
  • “Being with you and not being with you is the only way I have to measure time.” — Jorge Luis Borges
  • “All of me loves all of you.” — John Legend
  • "The love we give away is the only love we keep." — Elbert Hubbard
  • "There can be no deep disappointment where there is not deep love.” — Martin Luther King Jr.
  • “The greatest of love letters are always coded for the one and not the many.” — Mark Z. Danielewski
  • “You are imperfect, permanently and inevitably flawed. And you are beautiful.” ― Amy Bloom
  • “If you remember me, then I don’t care if everyone else forgets.” — Haruki Murakami

Love quotes to tell her she’s the one

When taken to extremes, the idea that there’s just one person you’re destined to love can be problematic, setting people up for disillusionment during the less-than-perfect moments. However, finding someone whose quirks, foibles, and values balance beautifully with your own can sometimes feel like fate. Here are a few quotes to get that idea across. 

  • “I would rather spend one lifetime with you than face all the ages of this world alone.” — J.R.R Tolkien
  • “You are my best friend as well as my lover, and I do not know which side of you I enjoy the most. I treasure each side, just as I have treasured our life together.” — Nicholas Sparks.
  • “I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you.” — Paulo Coelho
  • “We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love.” — Robert Fulghum
  • “Yours is the light by which my spirit's born: Yours is the darkness of my soul's return —you  are my sun, my moon, and all my stars.” — e.e. Cummings
  • “I knew the second I met you that there was something about you I needed. Turns out it wasn't something about you at all. It was just you.” — Jamie McGuire
  • “I find the most beautiful moments of life aren't just with you but because of you.” — Leo Christopher
  • “I said I love you — that's forever/And this I promise from the heart/I couldn't love you any better/I love you just the way you are.” — Billy Joel
  • “In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours. In all the world, there is no love for you like mine.” — Maya Angelou
  • “I would like to fall in love again, but my only hope is that love doesn’t happen to me so often after this. I don’t want to get so used to falling in love that I get curious to experience something more extreme – whatever that may be.” — Douglas Coupland
  • “How do I love thee? Let me count the ways. I love thee to the depth and breadth and height My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight; for the ends of being and ideal grace.” ― Elizabeth Barrett Browning
  • “Home is not where you are from, it is where you belong. Some of us travel the whole world to find it. Others find it in a person.” — Beau Taplin
  • “The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was. Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along.” — Rumi
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Sexy love quotes for her

Love quotes can also be a good way to turn up the heat in your relationship. Research indicates that verbal communication can be an important factor in female sexual satisfaction, so finding the right words to spark the thrill could help things go right in the bedroom. 

  • “I can't forget the taste of your mouth. From your lips, all the heavens pour out. I can't forget when we are one. With you alone, I am free.” — Carlos Santana and Dave Matthews
  • “We lie in each other’s arms, eyes shut and fingers open, and all the colors of the world pass through our bodies like strings of fire.” — Marge Piercy
  • “Only the united beat of sex and the heart can create ecstasy.” — Anaïs Nin
  • “So join me in this bed that I'm in/Push up on me and sweat, darling/So I'm gonna put my time in/I won't stop until the angels sing.” — Ed Sheeran
  • “I think of you as an equal. I respect your brains, and all those big words you like to use. But I also want to rip your clothes off and have sex with you until you scream and cry and see God.” — Lisa Kleypas
  • “If one day the moon calls you by your name, don't be surprised, because every night I tell her about you.” — Shahrazad al-Khalij

Quotes for her about the power of love

Not all individuals are oriented toward romance or sex, and it’s perfectly possible to find an immense sense of purpose in life even if you don’t pursue this type of love. However, for those who do value romantic relationships, they can be a deep source of meaning and identity.

The following quotes speak to that feeling. 

  • “One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: That word is love.” — Sophocles
  • “You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” — Theodor Geisel (Dr. Seuss)
  • “For small creatures such as we, the vastness is bearable only through love.” — Carl Sagan
  • “Your wide eyes are the only light I know from extinguished constellations.” — Pablo Neruda
  • “It is unfortunately for us both also the truth that I love you and only you utterly and permanently and to distraction.” — Iris Murdoch
  • “Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” — Lao Tzu
  • "My bounty is as boundless as the sea, my love as deep; the more I give to thee, the more I have, for both are infinite." — William Shakespeare
  • “All my life, I thought of love as some kind of voluntary enslavement. Well, that's a lie: freedom only exists when love is present. The person who gives him or herself wholly, the person who feels freest, is the person who loves most wholeheartedly.” — Paulo Coelho
  • “You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end.” — Bob Marley
  • "You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear." — Oscar Wilde
  • “True love will triumph in the end—which may or may not be a lie, but if it is a lie, it's the most beautiful lie we have.” — John Green
  • “Loving someone is taking a constant risk with your emotions. When you find the right person, the one you know you want to be with, that person becomes worth the risk.” — Monica Murphy
  • “Unable are the loved to die, for love is immortality.” — Emily Dickinson
  • “You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that's so real it scares you.” — Bob Marley
  • “I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.” — Daphne Rae 

Cute love quotes for her

There can be times when passion doesn’t require poetry. If you just want something sweet, heartfelt, and maybe a little silly to remind her of your feelings, one of these cute or funny love quotes may help.

  • “I hope you don't mind/I hope you don’t mind/That I put down in words/How wonderful life is while you're in the world.” — Bernie Taupin (performed by Elton John)
  • “I am yours. No refunds.” — Anita Bath
  • “She is the only evidence of God I have seen with the exception of the mysterious force that removes one sock from the dryer every time I do my laundry.” — St. Elmo’s Fire
  • “I love you more than coffee, but please don’t make me prove it.” — Elizabeth Evans
  • “Remember, we're madly in love, so it's alright to kiss me anytime you feel like it.” — The Hunger Games
  • "You're amazing, just the way you are." — Bruno Mars
  • “I love you and it's getting worse.” — Joseph E. Morris
  • “I don’t think I could possibly love you anymore, not even if you cleaned your hair out of the shower drain.” — Unknown
  • “A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman, but a beautiful woman with a brain is an absolutely lethal combination." — Prabal Gurung
  • “If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.” — A. A. Milne
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Learn better relationship skills with online counseling

While choosing meaningful quotations can be a beautiful way to express your love, it may not be enough to sustain a healthy partnership. Many people find that their bonds with loved ones improve most when they work on themselves through therapy. A professional counselor may be able to help you spot and unlearn patterns that are sabotaging your connection or help you develop better ways of communicating love to your partner.

If you’re feeling hesitant about diving into therapy, online counseling can be a great way to explore and see if it’s right for you. Online platforms like BetterHelp can let you specify the expertise and therapeutic approach you’re looking for in a licensed counselor or therapist. There’s no need to see your doctor for a referral or spend weeks on a waiting list until someone is available. And you can attend sessions from the comfort of your home.

Research suggests that Internet-based counseling can be every bit as effective as face-to-face programs at addressing relationship issues. A 2022 study reported that couples who received therapy through videoconferencing showed similar improvements in relationship satisfaction to those who were counseled in person. Many also demonstrated improvements in mental health and reported finding the online sessions helpful.

Takeaway

Whether you want to express profound, soul-searching romantic feelings or simply offer a sweet reminder that you care, romantic quotes can help. You can try crafting something for her that displays one of the phrases above or simply whisper one in her ear as you’re holding her close. However you use these love quotes, it should send a clear signal that she’s been in your thoughts.

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