Understanding Projection Psychology

Do You Experience A Lot Of Projection In Your Relationships

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How Freud Explains Psychological Projection

Freud believed that individuals used psychological informed projection to help protect themselves from a perceived threat. He thought an individual might also use psychological projection to reduce anxiety and avoid conflict if possible. Freud thought an individual might also use projection as a defense to reduce the impact of a threatening experience (whether internal or external) by moving it from the conscious to the unconscious realm.

Freud also applied this concept to situations involving paranoia and phobias. He thought that a phobia might then be projected onto something external that is real. Once this psychological informed projection has occurred, the threat might be more easily managed. He thought that projection influenced the way everybody constructs their inner and outer world. In therapy today, projection is used as a general term to describe any externalized feelings placed upon another individual. 

Projection in Relationships and Between Couples

A couple might have issues from psychological projection that result in one or both partners projecting certain aspects of themselves onto the other partner. Because of this common situation, couple's therapy often includes helping partners learn to withdraw their projections. One partner can project their aggression, or lack of control, onto the other partner. For example, someone may project their dependency and needs onto their partner, who they then criticize for being needy or too dependent. This projection then allows the individual to distance themselves from their neediness and dependency on their partner.

Authoritative Projection

In Daily Life

Projection In Cyberspace

Projection on social media allows for greater exploration and expression than individuals can show in person. The freedom of the internet allows an individual to externalize feelings in a safer setting. For example, a person who identified as LGBT living in a place where LGBT must be hidden may be able to express their internal identity on the internet.

Projective Identification

Another form of projection is projective identification. This refers to the unconscious idea of different parts of the self, including experiences, feelings, and functions, into and onto another person. The individual experiences projection by viewing another person in distorted ways. Furthermore, the individual also exerts pressure so that the subject begins to experience and view themselves under the client's unconscious expectations. This projection is very harmful to the individual and the person that is being projected upon.

There are three phases to projective identification:

1. Phase one is so intense that the individual blurs the boundaries between themselves and their subject. The individual wishes subconsciously to get rid of their negative parts by placing them onto the subject. The individual creates a fantasy of the subject.
2. Phase two begins when the individual interacts with the subject. The interaction is done in a way that exerts pressure on the recipient to feel and behave by the fantasy of the projector. This occurs through different interactions between the two.
3. Phase three is when the projection becomes intense enough or lasts long enough that the subject experiences themselves in ways that are similar to the fantasy.

Like projection, projective identification is also an unconscious process. Ideally, it can be handled in a healthy way in which the individual realizes their projection, and the subject can reject the fantasy.

In the case of therapy, the unconscious wish is that the therapist will be able to deal with the projection better than the individual and that a new coping skill can then be used by the individual.

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Conclusion

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