Short Love Quotes That Capture The Complexities Of Relationships

Medically reviewed by Andrea Brant, LMHC
Updated April 3, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team

Whether you're talking about familial, plutonic, or romantic love, love can be difficult to explain. The following quotes may help you articulate your feelings in just a few words. 

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50 short love quotes to read and share 

Some call love the greatest adventure of all time, while others call it a deeply intimate experience. Throughout history, poets, writers, philosophers, and people from various walks of life have tried to encapsulate the essence of this profound emotion in words.

The following quotes offer diverse perspectives, each shedding light on the different facets of love and how it can be recognized and felt.  

Quotes that explain how you know you're in love

Many people have heard that you'll know you're in love when it happens to you. However, for many people, it's not always obvious. Here are some quotes that shed light on how someone may know. 

  • "You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams." – Dr. Seuss
  • "Love is when the other person's happiness is more important than your own." – H. Jackson Brown, Jr.*             
  • "Eventually soulmates meet, for they have the same hiding place." - Robert Brault
  • "Love is like the wind, you can't see it, but you can feel it." – Nicholas Sparks
  • "Love makes your soul crawl out from its hiding place." – Zora Neale Hurston
  • "You know it's love when all you want is that person to be happy, even if you're not part of their happiness." – Julia Roberts
  • "If I had a flower for every time I thought of you... I could walk through my garden forever." - Alfred Tennyson
  • "When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible." - When Harry Met Sally

* It's important to note that while love may make you want to prioritize another person's happiness, it can be beneficial and healthy's always important to take your own needs into account as well. 

Quotes that describe what love is

Love is a unique experience for every person. However, here are some quotes where people have shared what this feels like for them. 

  • "Love is more than a noun – it is a verb; it is more than a feeling – it is caring, sharing, helping, sacrificing." – William Arthur Ward
  • "Love is the magician that pulls man out of his own hat." – Ben Hecht
  • "True love stories never have endings." – Richard Bach
  • "To love is to burn, to be on fire." – Jane Austen
  • "We love because it's the only true adventure." – Nikki Giovanni
  • "Love is sharing your popcorn." – Charles Schultz
  • "Love is like pi – natural, irrational, and very important." – Lisa Hoffman
  • "Love is when you sit beside someone doing nothing, yet you feel perfectly happy." - Unknown
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More quotes that describe the subtleties and complexities 

Love can be complex and full of mystery. These quotes illustrate the more complicated and philosophical aspects of deep affection. 

  • "Stolen kisses are always sweetest." – Leigh Hunt*
  • "As he read, I fell in love the way you fall asleep: slowly, and then all at once." – John Green
  • "I saw that you were perfect, and so I loved you. Then I saw that you were not perfect, and I loved you even more." – Angelita Lim
  • "I swear I couldn't love you more than I do right now, and yet I know I will tomorrow." – Leo Christopher
  • "Love is not love until love's vulnerable." – Theodore Roethke
  • "You call it madness, but I call it love." – Don Byas
  • "Love is what makes the ride worthwhile." – Franklin P. Jones
  • "Love is the ultimate expression of the will to live." – Tom Wolfe
  • "Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction." – Antoine de Saint-Exupery
  • "The need for love lies at the very foundation of human existence." – Dalai Lama
  • "Falling in love with your best friend is natural, but having your best friend as your partner for life is the real treasure." – Unknown

* It is always important to get consent for physical intimacy of any kind, including kisses. 

Quotes on how to love

Learning to express romantic feelings can be a unique and individual process. There's no right way to do so, but the following quotes can offer some insight. 

  • "Love is shown more in deeds than in words." – Saint Ignatius "
  • "We can only learn to love by loving." – Iris Murdoch
  • "The love we give away is the only love we keep." – Elbert Hubbard
  • "Love is a choice you make from moment to moment." – Barbara De Angelis
  • "Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." – Lao Tzu
  • "You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back." – Barbara De Angelis

Short quotes to share with someone 

Sometimes, it's overwhelming trying to express how you feel to someone. You can share a song or poem or try one of these quotes. 

  • "I would rather spend one lifetime with you, than face all the ages of this world alone." – J.R.R. Tolkien
  • " How do I love thee? Let me count the ways. I love thee to the depth and breadth and height Mmy soul can reach." – Elizabeth Barrett Browning
  • "Loved you yesterday, love you still, always have, always will." – Elaine Davis
  • "Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my favorite." – Unknown 
  • "In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours. In all the world, there is no love for you like mine." – Maya Angelou
  • "Thinking of you keeps me awake. Dreaming of you keeps me asleep. Being with you keeps me alive." – Unknown
  • "If I know what love is, it is because of you." – Hermann Hesse
  • "If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you." – A. A. Milne
  • "You are the finest, loveliest, tenderest, and most beautiful person I have ever known—and even that is an understatement." -  F. Scott Fitzgerald
  • "I would rather spend one lifetime with you then face all the ages of this world alone." - The Lord of the Rings
  • "I am who I am because of you. You are every reason, every hope, and every dream I've ever had." - The Notebook
  • "Take love, multiply it by infinity, and take it to the depths of forever, and you still have only a glimpse of how I feel for you, "– Meet Joe Black 

Quotes about the importance of loving yourself

Many believe that to truly love someone else, you must love yourself first. Here are some quotes about loving yourself. 

  • "We must be our own before we can be another's." – Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • "Self-love, my liege, is not so vile a sin, as self-neglecting." – William Shakespeare
  • "You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." – Buddha
  • "The greatest thing you'll ever learn is to love and be loved in return." – Natalie Cole
  • "We accept the love we think we deserve." – Stephen Chbosky
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Need help navigating the intricacies of love? 

If you're falling in love, aren't sure if the feelings are there, or find it overwhelming, speaking to a therapist might be helpful. Therapy can be an effective great way to navigate complex feelings, learn communication skills, and get the tools you need to become a better partner. Therapy may also help you develop self-esteem and self-love to ensure you're ready when love comes your way. 

If finding a therapist in your area is too difficult or costly, consider online therapy. Online therapy allows you to speak to a therapist no matter where you live, and it's usually more cost-effective than traditional therapy. 

Plus, research shows online therapy is as effective as in-person treatment for treating depression and anxiety disorders, illustrating that it can be an effective medium for getting support for a range of complex emotions and experiences. 

Takeaway

Love can be a beautiful experience full of mystery and wonder, and many notable people have shared their thoughts on the subject over the years.  Love hasIt's also been discussed in literature, music, and film. While love quotes can help put words to the feelings, love can feel differently for different people. If you'd like help learning about love, consider online therapy.
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