Greetings and thank you for viewing my profile. I'm Njideka (In-jah-day-ka) Wiggins, a licensed mental health counselor (LMHC) located in Wilmington, Delaware
Counseling is my second career, after 26 successful years in corporate America. I have been a practicing therapist, working with children, individuals and families for the past 16 years.
I am a client centered therapist, meaning I believe each client comes to this process with an unique experience and way of being in the world. As such, I have a holistic approach to counseling, pulling from many theories and modalities, but predominately focused on integrating the best of psychodynamic theory (helping my client see and understand their patterns of emotions, thoughts and behaviors) with cognitive behavioral theory (solution-focused methods) and systems theory (how one exists in the larger world) to create lasting, characterlogical change.
I enjoy working with clients that are seeking support to heal from unresolved trauma; mend family and other relational conflicts; manage depression, anxiety and ADHD challenges; navigate life/career cycle issues; overcome caregiver/compassion fatigue and grief. I recognize and respect the courage it takes to embark upon a journey to emotional wellness and I am humbled and honored to bear witness to your walk.
Thank you again, for allowing me the opportunity of your consideration . Should you have any questions about my therapeutic process or how we would work together to achieve your goals, please feel free to ask.
Professional experience
18 yrs in practice
Family conflictsTrauma, AbuseDepressionCoping with life changesADHD
Additional areas of focus:Stress, Anxiety, LGBT, Relationship issues, Grief, Intimacy-related issues, Parenting issues, Self esteem, Career difficulties, Bipolar disorder, Coaching, Compassion fatigue, Adoption and foster care, Aging and geriatric issues, Attachment issues, Avoidant personality, Blended family issues, Caregiver issues and stress, Chronic pain, illness, and disability, Codependency, Communication problems, Dependent personality, Family of origin issues, Family problems, First responder issues, Forgiveness, Life purpose, Midlife crisis, Money and financial issues, Multicultural concerns, Narcissism, Personality disorders, Post-traumatic stress, Prejudice and discrimination, Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), Women's issues, Workplace issues
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Anquinette Wiggins. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.
Njideka (Anquinette) has aways comforted and understood me...from day one, when I had no confidence that BetterHelp could really help me, she made me feel heard, she made me feel less crazy. She knows the why's AND I felt God sent the perfect one. I feel blessed to have her in my life.
Written on Dec 08, 2025 after therapy with Anquinette for 9 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, and self esteem
Easy to talk to. Straight forward little blunt but gets to the point. Which is what I need and like.
Written on Nov 03, 2025 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 weeks on issues concerning trauma and abuse, grief, and eating disorders
My therapist is helping me mend the relationship with myself and my son.
Written on Sep 30, 2025 after therapy with Anquinette for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting issues, anger management, and coping with life changes
She connected with me quickly and is supportive. She also offers small goals for me to work on and is helpful sorting through feelings and thoughts.
Written on Sep 27, 2025 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, grief, and coping with life changes
My therapist is awesome and supportive! She has helped me to process several tough situations in my life by helping me put things in their proper perspectives. I grow and learn something new when I engage with my therapist.
I am grateful for her expertise!
Written on Sep 02, 2025 after therapy with Anquinette for 8 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, career difficulties, and coaching
Njideka is a professional that is friendly and very easy to talk with. She listens and provides great feedback on ways to address issues that are troubling. I especially like the way she affirms me and my qualities. After we speak I always feel so much better. She is a trusted friend and I feel like I can share anything with her that is bothering me. Sometimes that’s all I need but if I need more she gives more! Njideka is awesome and I realized this after our first chat! I can’t thank her enough.
Written on Sep 01, 2025 after therapy with Anquinette for 9 months on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, and adhd
Listens and gives great advise with wisdom and experience
Written on Apr 30, 2025 after therapy with Anquinette for 4 weeks on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and bipolar disorder
She is professional and she has been working with me to help resolve the issues
Written on Apr 07, 2025 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 weeks on issues concerning family conflicts, and intimacy-related issues
Njideka has been a real asset in providing tools and resources to work through and overcome the impacts of trauma in my life. She is an active listener and will structure your visits in way that accommodates your needs and preferences. It is evident she has years of experience and expertise in her field. She provided a safe and supportive atmosphere to talk openly with her. I would highly recommend her as a therapist.
Written on Feb 12, 2025 after therapy with Anquinette for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, self esteem, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Good communication, very understanding and provides helpful suggestions.
Written on Dec 19, 2024 after therapy with Anquinette for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and career difficulties
1st session was amazing. She understood me and immediately got to the heart of why I was there and helped me better navigate issue at hand. I'm hooked!
Written on Nov 30, 2024 after therapy with Anquinette for 4 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, self esteem, and adhd
She Listens and also understands
Written on Nov 18, 2024 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, coaching, compassion
Njideka is a total pro - extremely smart, a great listener, and very kind. I'm grateful to have found her on Better Help.
Written on Sep 03, 2024 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 years on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and family conflicts
She has been extremely helpful and supportive. Making me really look into things I didn't even think about. Very kind lady
Written on Jul 26, 2024 after therapy with Anquinette for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and grief
I was very impressed with Njideka and she answered all my questions with a different perspective for me to look at and that was very helpful for me. I'm looking forward to more sessions.
Written on Jun 04, 2024 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, and trauma and abuse
I really like her approach I know she is listening to me and verifies my emotions. I really click with her .
Written on May 01, 2024 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, and coping with life changes
Njideka causes me to examine myself without being pushy. She is easy to talk to and I feel able to discuss anything without embarrassment. She also has a good sense of humor whch makes the sessions comfortable. Njideka has made it clear that it is my time and I need to take control to set agendas - this has helped me focus the sessions.
Written on Mar 02, 2024 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, and relationship issues
I respect her ability to appropriately analyze and provide feedback unique to my issues.
Written on Jan 22, 2024 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
She brings to this very personal experience a wealth of professional and life applicable wisdom with a very intentional effort to help. Very happy I was paired to Dr. Wiggins for my emotional care needs.
Written on Jan 03, 2024 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 years and 9 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and relationship issues
Njideka is wonderful and I am so happy to have her as my therapist. She is kind, understanding, and truly listens ands helps you to get to the root of the issues at hand.
Written on Jul 14, 2023 after therapy with Anquinette for 7 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and family conflicts
My therapist Njideka Wiggins and I have been working together for about two months now. I have found my experience with her to be extremely helpful. She understands and comprehends my feelings, concerns, past trauma and current issues. I am a difficult patient as I am a talk therapist as well, she works with me in a way that I understand and don’t feel talked down too. It’s difficult for a therapist to treat another therapist, she is excellent. I am very grateful for her and her expertise.
Written on May 03, 2023 after therapy with Anquinette for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Njideka has been excellent about working with me on my ADHD, and she has been very insightful about her experiences and has offered me ways to work on my communication and to help organize my thoughts.
Written on Mar 23, 2023 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, career difficulties, and adhd
Njideka Wiggins listens to my concerns and offers me guidance in our sessions. She is thoughtful with the way that she presents me with information and sources for my own research purpose. She is a great therapist.
Written on Mar 16, 2023 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, and intimacy-related issues
Njideka Wiggins is a wonderful therapist. She doesn't just hears you she can relate to what I am going through and has given me advice that is/has helped me navigate through some very difficult times. I would describe her as a good friend that gives sound professional advice.
Written on Feb 14, 2023 after therapy with Anquinette for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, compassion fatigue, and
Like everyone before me has written, Ms. Wiggins is helpful, wise, caring and personable. Her insight has helped me through a difficult transition and I would recommend her to friends and family.
Written on Jan 28, 2023 after therapy with Anquinette for 3 months on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and career difficulties
To be able to sit down with a therapist and connect for the first time made me very comfortable. Njideka gives tips and different perspectives that allows me to go about everyday life differently. Very personable and she listens!! I thoroughly enjoy my sessions.
Written on Jan 21, 2023 after therapy with Anquinette for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and parenting issues
Njideka has been the missing piece of guidance i’ve been needing for a long time. No matter how much work I do on my own, she provides the remaining guidance that lifts me up every session. Her insight provides different perspectives that allow me to understand myself on deeper levels. The more I understand myself, the healthier my mind becomes. Njideka has been a wonderful, insightful, structured, and empathetic guide on my journey.
Written on Jan 19, 2023 after therapy with Anquinette for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Very kind and patient!
Written on Jan 18, 2023 after therapy with Anquinette for 1 year and 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd
I am happy with my therapist. She’s helping me a lot
Written on Jan 09, 2023 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 months on issues concerning addictions, relationship issues, and anger management
amazing therapist!
Written on Nov 30, 2022 after therapy with Anquinette for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and coping with life changes
In the past, I've had very bad experiences with therapists. In one session I felt Njideka Wiggins truly understood my struggles with trauma and gave me the deeply needed validation and compassion I was seeking. I feel more empowered and hopeful as we go through each session. I'm not looking for someone to dump my issues on. She helps me develop and keep a plan of action for my path of healing. Navigating my emotional journey is so much better when I have someone who understands me instead of judging me. Trust is priceless.
Written on Oct 19, 2022 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, and adhd
My therapist has been very beneficial for my needs thus far.
Written on Aug 19, 2022 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues
She has been a tremendous help to the healing of myself and my marriage. She's the best
Written on Jul 15, 2022 after therapy with Anquinette for 1 year and 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and anger management
Dr. Wiggins is a great therapist. She’s a great listener and offers practical advice that makes sense and which I find very helpful when I apply it. I highly recommend Dr. Wiggins to anyone dealing with depression or emotional trauma. She really helps to get to the root of our subconscious behaviors and toxic decisions in life and offers strategies for improvement.
Written on Jul 08, 2022 after therapy with Anquinette for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, depression, self esteem, relationship issues, family conflicts, coping with life changes, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, and grief
I have found Njideka to be sensitive and caring! She really listens and helps you find ways to address your problems.
Written on Jun 23, 2022 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 weeks
Njideka Wiggins has been an amazing help! She give clear and concise therapy that allows me to clear my head and see things correctly. She helps with my anxiety as I navigate various issues. She is easy to talk to and listens to what I have to say.
Written on May 03, 2022 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and parenting issues
Patient, insightful, experienced
Written on Apr 18, 2022 after therapy with Anquinette for 4 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, depression, self esteem, relationship issues, family conflicts, and coping with life changes
The one things I enjoy about my Therapist she is a wonderful listener and offers me so much good advice and always sharing great advice She is excellent
Written on Apr 12, 2022 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 weeks on issues concerning grief
Njideka has been so understanding and supportive on helping me to understand the way I think and act. I look forward to each session and she has helped me learn so much about myself in a short amount of time! I am so blessed to have her as my therapist.
Written on Mar 16, 2022 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 weeks
Happy that I was matched with Njideka Wiggins as my therapist. She’s very personable and easy to talk to, actively listens and is already helping me find ways to work through some of the issues that have been bothering me.
Written on Feb 17, 2022 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, and adhd
I appreciate the time spent with Ms. Wiggins she has greatly help my marriage to survive critical times. I look forward to our one one sessions.
Written on Dec 14, 2021 after therapy with Anquinette for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
She’s awesome! It’s so easy to speak to her about my concerns. It’s feels like I’m speaking with a best friend, you’ll love her
Written on Nov 14, 2021 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, depression, self esteem, relationship issues, family conflicts, and coping with life changes
I am enjoying my sessions with Njideka and look forward to our ongoing sessions.
Written on Jun 29, 2021 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 months on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, and anger management
Ms. Wiggins is very proffessional. She offers to much support, and is very patient.
Written on May 04, 2021 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
She’s a very good listener and she’s communicates effectively,listens to you and tries to understand your situation.
Written on Apr 11, 2021 after therapy with Anquinette for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem
I am super happy with the counselor I was matched with, Njideka Wiggins. She is so easy to talk to and offers amazing advice as well as pointing out things I didn’t quite see in a new way. I enjoy my sessions with her and have found her extremely helpful. Her approach is perfect for me and she is very knowledgeable in her field.
Written on Apr 01, 2021 after therapy with Anquinette for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and grief
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