Aloha and welcome on your journey to wellness. My name is Darryl Khan, and I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in the state of Hawaii. I have been practicing as a mental health counselor for over 19 years. In 2003 I obtained my master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from Gonzaga University and since then I have served local populations experiencing challenges including chronic mental illnesses, romantic relationship and family dysfunction, and substance use disorders. My areas of specialty include treatment of depression, anxiety, life transitions, trauma, and abuse.
During my career, I have worked with and understand the challenges of individuals involved with institutions such as Child Welfare Services, Family Courts, and the Public Safety Department. I have also empowered individuals using cognitive behavior therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, client-centered therapy, and solution-focused therapy to restore mental health, recover from addiction and improve their quality of life.
I am formally trained in cognitive behavioral therapy using the Common Elements Treatment Approach (CETA) and I am also formally trained to provide dialectical behavior therapy. My counseling style is interactive, culturally sensitive, and compassionate. I welcome the opportunity to know, journey and work with you.
Professional experience
20 yrs in practice
Stress, AnxietyRelationshipsTrauma, AbuseDepressionCoping with life changes
Additional areas of focus:Addictions, Family conflicts, Grief, Intimacy-related issues, Parenting issues, Anger management, Self esteem, Career difficulties, Bipolar disorder, Compassion fatigue, ADHD, Abandonment, Adoption and foster care, Aging and geriatric issues, Antisocial personality, Attachment issues, Autism and Asperger Syndrome, Blended family issues, Caregiver issues and stress, Co-morbidity, Codependency, Commitment issues, Communication problems, Control issues, Coping with natural or human-caused disaster, Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD), Dissociation, Divorce and separation, Domestic violence, Drug and alcohol addiction, Emptiness, Family problems, Fatherhood issues, Forgiveness, Guilt and shame, Impulsivity, Infidelity, Jealousy, Life purpose, Men's issues, Midlife crisis, Money and financial issues, Mood disorders, Multicultural concerns, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Paranoia, Phobias, Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships, Post-traumatic stress, Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling), Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), Self-love, Sexual assault and abuse, Sexuality, Social anxiety and phobia, Workplace issues
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Darryl is amazing and I’ve loved getting to know his expertise as he has helped me a lot with behavioral changes and understanding.
Written on Nov 28, 2025 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, self esteem, anger management, and coping with life changes
Darryl is #1.
Written on Nov 21, 2025 after therapy with Darryl for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Very respectful and constructive. I was at my lowest and wanted someone to talk and listen to and Dr Khan was very patient with me. Highly recommend this kind soul
Written on Aug 10, 2025 after therapy with Darryl for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, anger management, bipolar disorder, and coping with life changes
As the individual that I am, opening up to someone about my own personal struggles and experiences, didn’t come across as being easy. After the initial introduction with Darryl Khan, I felt at ease and truly appreciated. The guidance and encouragement was very personable and motivating to continue with therapy. I want to thank the staff and Darryl Khan for welcoming me into a community that I was never optimistic about before. Thank you
Written on Aug 08, 2025 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, anger management, career difficulties, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, and coaching
Darryl is kind, compassionate, knowledgeable and a great listener. He is action oriented and I am too. I want to move the needle on a few things and it’s off to a great start.
Written on Jul 20, 2025 after therapy with Darryl for 1 month on issues concerning relationship issues, coping with life changes, and coaching
Darryl is a great therapist! He is my first one and I can say that he made all of the cliches or negative stereotypes of therapy seem nonexistent when I talk with him.
Written on Jun 16, 2025 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Strategically approaches healing while staying in tune with his heart.
Written on Jun 13, 2025 after therapy with Darryl for 3 weeks on issues concerning addictions, lgbt, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, and eating disorders
I have had many therapists and Daryl is by far the best. We look forward to our sessions and find that we learn something valuable every time.
Written on May 30, 2025 after therapy with Darryl for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and grief
Darryl has been very helpful in helping me move forward during a difficult transition period.
Written on May 20, 2025 after therapy with Darryl for 6 months on issues concerning relationship issues
I honestly can’t say enough good things about my experience with Darryl Khan. From the very first session, I felt heard, understood, and safe. They create a space that’s judgment-free, compassionate, supportive, and completely focused on helping you grow. What really stands out is Darryl’s ability to listen deeply and offer insights that feel both validating and eye-opening.
Darryl’s helped me work through things I didn’t even realize were holding me back, and his guidance has made a real difference in how I handle stress, relationships, and just life in general. It never feels rushed or clinical - it feels human, compassionate, and grounded.
If you’re looking for someone who truly cares and knows how to help you connect the dots and move forward, I couldn’t recommend Darryl Khan more highly. Easily one of the best decisions I’ve made for my mental and emotional health.
Written on May 20, 2025 after therapy with Darryl for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, and adhd
I am just getting started on my journey with Darryl and he has already helped me so much. I am extremely grateful for him! He provides structure and shows up as a professional friend. Comfort and solution. Very intellectual. I am past the elementary state of therapy and he brings new elements to the table! As a female I never thought I’d have a male therapist but I am very comfortable!
Written on May 01, 2025 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and adhd
He’s a fantastic listener and has the right advice for the right moment. Highly recommended for marriage and addiction difficulties.
Written on Apr 24, 2025 after therapy with Darryl for 3 months on issues concerning addictions, sleeping disorders, and anger management
Very easy to talk to
Written on Mar 28, 2025 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and family conflicts
An overall great guy, he listens a lot and doesn’t act like he knows more than you- he actually HELPS you to find the answers you’re looking for instead of just explaining them to you like you can’t understand it. He gives great advice and is a very smart and well-traveled and knowledgeable person. Would recommend him to anyone seeking a therapist
Written on Mar 24, 2025 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, trauma and abuse, anger management, and coping with life changes
Awesome guy!
Written on Feb 22, 2025 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and adhd
Darry is fantastic. Highly recommend. Great advice and suggestions. Really listens.
Written on Feb 15, 2025 after therapy with Darryl for 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and anger management
I am enjoying my sessions with him
Written on Jan 03, 2025 after therapy with Darryl for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and trauma and abuse
Great therapist, kind, listens very well, great soul
Written on Dec 28, 2024 after therapy with Darryl for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and parenting issues
Darryl is great! He gets me! Haha. Overall super healing and great experience!
Written on Dec 23, 2024 after therapy with Darryl for 11 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and bipolar disorder
Darryl is a great therapist! He helps me in many different ways with all aspects of my life.
Written on Dec 15, 2024 after therapy with Darryl for 6 months on issues concerning relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, and career difficulties
I found working with Darryl to be a very constructive experience. He is thoughtful, listens and shows understanding, and offers constructive suggestions. Both when struggling in general with depression, as well as specific challenges, he was a helpful listening ear and guide when I needed it. My sessions with him helped me understand myself better, weather some tough times, and build skills to cope with challenges more successfully going forward.
Written on Nov 27, 2024 after therapy with Darryl for 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, and self esteem
Darryl is the best! He has helped me in so many ways!
Written on Oct 10, 2024 after therapy with Darryl for 4 months on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, and adhd
He is a good guy. I believe that he has my best intentions at heart
Written on Oct 03, 2024 after therapy with Darryl for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, self esteem, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Wonderful therapist! Very understanding, open and flexible to clients needs. I’ve had great discussions and gotten very helpful feedback just in a few sessions. I will definitely continue with Dr. Khan and recommend him to anyone looking for a kind, passionate professional!
Written on Sep 19, 2024 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, and adhd
Wellbeing and sense safety restored, I’m on my path to discover myself. I came with limited beliefs on the process because I never been in a therapy and never knew the benefits that’s stand on the trust and guidance of a great therapist- good listener is an understatement for Darryl
Written on Aug 07, 2024 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and anger management
He helps me get equipped with the tools I need to succeed and be the best version of myself for my family. I couldn’t be more satisfied and grateful
Written on Aug 04, 2024 after therapy with Darryl for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, and coping with life changes
Super guy looking forward to more sessions
Written on Jul 28, 2024 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, coaching, and compassion fatigue
I am very pleasantly surprised by my first BetterHelp experience. I was in a funk with some life situations that were temporary, but having a pretty significant effect on my mood and energy. Darryl was professional and effective in terms of being a listener and showing his expert experience. His presence, support and ideas and the way he treats me with respect and kindness, but still is firmly guiding me when I need it has made an immediate impact even after the first session. I’m loving the way he and I are already partnering for my better health, physically and emotionally! Thank you so much BetterHelp and Darryl for providing the amazing opportunity to meet by video and to have the support of all the app functions. Love it!
Written on Jun 11, 2024 after therapy with Darryl for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and coaching
I feel so blessed to be working with Darryl. He is very knowledgeable, patient, and considerate. I’m learning so much from him and growing with each session. He is helping me through the most challenging season of my life, including the loss of my father, a divorce, custody dispute, and legal battles. I would certainly recommend him to those seeking good council and thoughtful treatment. He is also well-equipped to provide spiritual guidance.
Written on Jun 05, 2024 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Darryl is insightful and his approach helps me build skills that I can apply as needed. He is very personable and professional.
Written on Mar 16, 2024 after therapy with Darryl for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and self esteem
Dr. Khan was a perfect match for me. I am learning a lot.
Written on Mar 09, 2024 after therapy with Darryl for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, coaching, and adhd
Dr. Khan is excellent.
Written on Feb 14, 2024 after therapy with Darryl for 1 year and 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, and self esteem
Darryl is very supportive,kind and empathetic! Highly recommended!
Written on Jan 11, 2024 after therapy with Darryl for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, and compassion fatigue
Very open kind and caring
Written on Nov 29, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 4 weeks on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, family conflicts, and career difficulties
Very kind and engaging. He helps me with real actions that can improve my mental health. He's very likable too.
Written on Nov 07, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and anger management
I was incredibly against the idea of therapy and drug my feet on starting it for so long. I finally got myself to try it out because I was looking for help working through something that came up in life and I also just always strive to be a better person and Daryl has given me multiple ways to think about things and work through life and problems that have been so incredibly useful. His calm demeanor and friendly way of communicating really makes me feel comfortable talking about life.
Written on Oct 06, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, and coaching
Darryl has the ability to discern my conflicts in terms of relationships, personal development, and career goals ; he's able to break things down in a sense where I can understand and approach my struggles: differently, efficiently, and effectively. I am very privileged to have him as my therapist.
Written on Sep 09, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and adhd
Sessions with Darryl are a gift. He is wise, thoughtful and present - without ever feeling cold or clinical. Very grateful!
Written on Aug 22, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 4 months on issues concerning relationship issues, self esteem, and coaching
Nice friendly and clear.. just started couple weeks ago but it's been good
Written on Aug 16, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, anger management, bipolar disorder, and coaching
Darryl has become a friend to me rather than just a therapist because I can directly relate to him and we can exchange knowledge and thoughts freely without any doubt of feeling unsafe. He is respectful, and most importantly he is there to listen and sometimes that’s just what we all need
Written on Jun 09, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, anger management, and coaching
Darryl is a blessing to me and my family. He has listened to me and allowed me to be able to communicate better with my family about myself. He has given me solid skills for the future. Thank you Darryl!
Written on Jun 01, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, and self esteem
Darryl is kind,thoughtful yet practical and professional . Also a great sense of humor, I'd highly recommend him. Aloha Pia Abraham
Written on May 29, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and addictions
Meeting Darryl has been such a good experience for me. He has really helped get me on a healthy routine to better my life.
Written on May 19, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, anger management, bipolar disorder, and adhd
I have done therapy for many years and been through many therapists. Doctor Khan has far exceeded all expectations and really transformed my life for the better. I honestly will not be able to see any other therapist now after my visits with Doctor Khan because he is that amazing. Hands down 10/10 recommend!
Written on May 17, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and anger management
Darryl is a wonderful man and I appreciate all of his time and efforts. He lends a kind ear and has great philosophy on self improvement.
Written on Apr 21, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Darryl is caring and sincere man of faith. He is encouraging and hopeful. Very satisfied with the experience overall.
Written on Apr 05, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, and coaching
Easy to talk with and appreciated his assistance with helping me regain direction in life.
Written on Mar 19, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 1 month
Darryl Khan, is a great listener and also gives sincere feedback on suggestions on ways matters might be resolved. I would recommend him to my colleagues in hopes they become a better version of themselves.
Written on Mar 16, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, anger management, and coping with life changes
Darryl is a fantastic counselor and I would recommend him to anyone in need of some help
Written on Mar 02, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 3 months
Darryl was very attentive and approachable as a therapist. He was able to be flexible and adjust to what I wanted to address during each session, and empowered me to take the lead about what I wanted to talk about. He gave very grounded advice and perspectives regarding the issues I was facing. Would definitely recommend Darryl to others.
Written on Feb 13, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Darryl Khan was a pleasure to work with. I only had two sessions with him and had to change because I was moving but I would have stayed with him if I could. Very good at communicating, giving you actionable advice, and giving you perspectives that you will ponder through the week.
Written on Jan 20, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, eating disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, and adhd
Darryl is a great therapist. He is patient and supportive, as well as a great listener. His counsel has truly been transformative for me.
Written on Jan 08, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and relationship issues
A being of light who allows himself to receive as well as gives.
Written on Jan 06, 2023 after therapy with Darryl for 4 months on issues concerning depression, trauma and abuse, grief, sleeping disorders, and coping with life changes
Darryl has been an upwelling source of encouragement, deep connectedness to the Oneness, an encourager and witness to the transformation of my inner and outer world. I can not recommend him enough to my fellow life travelers. Thank you Darryl.
Written on Dec 29, 2022 after therapy with Darryl for 4 months on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, and adhd
Darryl’s awesome and very helpful
Written on Dec 02, 2022 after therapy with Darryl for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and anger management
Really enjoy talking with Darryl. I think of him as a friend who I can confide in.
Written on Nov 29, 2022 after therapy with Darryl for 3 months on issues concerning depression, family conflicts, and self esteem
Excellent therapist. Very Understanding and enlightening. A spiritual mind but a very practical one.
Written on Nov 25, 2022 after therapy with Darryl for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, self esteem, and anger management
Insightful and genuine, truly and great therapist
Written on Nov 19, 2022 after therapy with Darryl for 2 months on issues concerning family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and self esteem
Daryl is the best!!
Written on Oct 16, 2022 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Darryl is an excellent therapist. He assisted me in a very hard time in my life and even now, I will continue to use his advice and teachings in the future.
Written on Oct 07, 2022 after therapy with Darryl for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem
Darryl has been helping me to navigate through the toughest situation in my adult life. He’s pivotal in my decision making process and remaining level headed throughout. BetterHelp has been one of the best investments I’ve made for my mental health. Thank you Darryl!
Written on Sep 30, 2022 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, and bipolar disorder
Darryl Khan made my first session feel very welcoming and comforting. He's someone you can connect with easy and really open up to. His methods and guidance are super helpful. I am very satisfied with the progress made so far and Darryl's way of counseling.
Written on Sep 29, 2022 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, and career difficulties
Working with Darryl has helped me to move through some difficult emotions with compassion and grace. I am so grateful to have his support on my healing journey. He is always professional, helpful and an excellent listener. I always look forward to my next session.
Written on Sep 13, 2022 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, and coaching
Finding the sessions helpful.
Thank-you
Written on Sep 02, 2022 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd
Darryl is an amazing therapist. He really listens and understands and really helps. His style of therapy is really good and he helps me see things from many different perspectives. He also replies when he can. And gives really good worksheets and goals to work on. All in all darryl is an amazing therapist.
Written on Aug 31, 2022 after therapy with Darryl for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Darryl is easy to speak with. He is clear and articulate.
Written on Aug 27, 2022 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning family conflicts, and self esteem
Darryl is a very good counselor. I enjoy our sessions.
Written on Aug 09, 2022 after therapy with Darryl for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, and coping with life changes
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