Debra Younger, LPC
About me
Greetings,
I am pleased and excited that you have decided to consider me as a possible partner in your journey of discovery, growth, and healing and I look forward to having the opportunity to work with you.
My name is Debra Younger. I have the claim to fame of being a 4th generation Californian, though I currently live in the mountains of New Mexico.
I have been a professional therapist and Life Coach for 11 years. As a result, I am able to bring a wide breadth of learning and experience to my work. I am also a veteran and have a heart for working with our returning servicemen and women as they struggle to re-integrate back into civilian life from a combat or military environment.
On a personal note, my many life experiences, such as being a single parent for 23 years, allow me to truly understand and emphasize with many of the adverse life events my clients have experienced. I have also been in my own personal therapy for 10 years, so I understand what it takes to admit that you’re human, that you can’t always handle what life throws at you, and be courageous enough to seek help.
My areas of expertise lie in working with individuals who are struggling to deal with the adverse events they have experienced in their lives; including trauma, all forms of abuse, loss, grief, and attachment issues.
My approach to therapy is founded on my belief that my clients are more than the problems that they are experiencing and bring to therapy. It is a holistic approach that sees them as a whole person consisting of mind, body, and spirit intimately intertwined and inseparable. A problem in any one area always affects the others.
My preferred modality for counseling is Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy. This is a therapeutic approach that does not pathologize people, but rather takes a positive attitude toward the client’s issues and sees them as normal reactions to adverse life events, which events can create negative beliefs. These negative beliefs can then interfere with an individual’s ability to form healthy, adult relationships. Learning how to shift these negative beliefs to positive adaptive beliefs can enhance the ability to build healthy relationships.
I am very excited about what IFS can offer you and would welcome the opportunity to introduce you to this powerful therapy and how it can help transform your lives.
Professional experience
Additional areas of focus: LGBT, Relationship issues, Trauma and abuse, Intimacy-related issues, Anger management, Career difficulties, Abandonment, Attachment issues, Caregiver issues and stress, Coping with natural or human-caused disaster, Divorce and separation, Family of origin issues, First responder issues, Forgiveness, Guilt and shame, Hospice and end-of-life counseling, Isolation / loneliness, Life purpose, Veteran and Armed Forces Issues, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Phobias, Sexual assault and abuse, Social anxiety and phobia, Women's issues
Clinical approaches: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Internal Family Systems
License information
MO LPC 2018043925
Reviews
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Debra has a clear grasp of the IFS process which has been a difficult thing to find for me. She is a gem!
Written on Nov 04, 2025 after therapy with Debra for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Debra is compassionate and patient well working with me. She has a lot of experience and it shows in her modality of IFS. Debra helps keep me on tack and focused well dealing with difficult parts and takes time to explain things to me in away I can wrap my mind around when I am struggling.
In a short 6 month window I have been able to work with over a dozen parts to integration. Feeling and seeing the results of our work together in my daily life.
Written on Aug 11, 2025 after therapy with Debra for 8 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Debra is really good and patient when guiding through an experience. She is really wonderful to work with
Written on Jun 01, 2024 after therapy with Debra for 4 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, self esteem, and coping with life changes
She listens and makes me feel positive about relationships! Makes me look forward to therapy
Written on Dec 07, 2022 after therapy with Debra for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, and compassion fatigue
Debra was an excellent therapist who gave me a safe space to talk and she let me know my emotions did not rule or control me but were only parts which could be controlled by self. I enjoyed therapy with her, it was very enlightening and I have had a lot of self discovery. Unfortunately I am unable to continue therapy with her due to some constraints.
Written on Sep 24, 2021 after therapy with Debra for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Debra, is a great therapist she has been very attentive and good at understanding the world from my perspective and she navigated all our cultural differences smoothly, she is also non-judgmental in her approach and offers great approaches that were hard to find in another therapist, she is also very responsive on chat and made me feel supported and cared for. :D
Written on Aug 10, 2021 after therapy with Debra for 1 month on issues concerning trauma and abuse