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Goldie Oakes, LPC

Stress, Anxiety Grief Anger management Self esteem, Motivation Depression
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About me

Hello. My name is Goldie Marker Oakes, Licensed Professional Counselor, and I look forward to working with you. My professional clinical career began in 2006 providing treatment in the mental health field. My primary therapeutic modality includes a strong but eclectic therapeutic modality that incorporates a strong clinical perspective using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Motivational Enhancement Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy. If you are comfortable with this approach, I also use a holistic and Christian perspective using Mindfulness and Relaxation Therapy, prayer and scripture. My goal as your therapist is too help you find peace, joy, and happiness in life. My job is to help you learn how to overcome your life events, emotions and experiences that have caused you problems functioning normally, relating to others, or even finding motivation to continue on your life's path. My professional experience with both includes clinical approach with a Christian mindset that includes:
• treating clinical concerns such as anxiety, social anxiety, depression, trauma, grief and loss, and other clinical concerns.
• relationships
• self-image, self-esteem, and efficacy
• anger management and self-harm behaviors and impulse control

My therapeutic approach often incorporates homework such as reading Christian literature or specific scripture, journal and self-reflective writing and practice of specific CBT and DBT strategies outside the clinical setting, at home, and in the community, all of which supports your growth and progress. My goal is for your growth to be internal as you move towards defining or redefining your relationship with Christ. This means a great deal of your progress requires your need to periodically evaluate your own progress through self-evaluation and self-reflection, in addition to my own clinical assessments with your progress.

My goal as a counselor is to help you find peace, joy, and happiness in life as you learn to overcome those things in your life that have caused a loss of functioning individually or within the family dynamic. This path is not always an easy one; however, God promises us that we Never have to travel that path alone.

Professional experience

19 yrs in practice
Stress, Anxiety Grief Anger management Self esteem, Motivation Depression

Additional areas of focus: Addictions, Relationship issues, Family conflicts, Trauma and abuse, Parenting issues, Career difficulties, Coping with life changes, Compassion fatigue, Abandonment, Adoption and foster care, Antisocial personality, Avoidant personality, Cancer, Caregiver issues and stress, Codependency, Commitment issues, Communication problems, Control issues, Coping with natural or human-caused disaster, Domestic violence, Drug and alcohol addiction, Emptiness, Family of origin issues, Family problems, Fatherhood issues, Forgiveness, Guilt and shame, Hospice and end-of-life counseling, Impulsivity, Infidelity, Isolation / loneliness, Jealousy, Life purpose, Mood disorders, Multicultural concerns, Paranoia, Phobias, Prejudice and discrimination, Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), Self-harm, Self-love, Sexual assault and abuse, Social anxiety and phobia, Women's issues, Workplace issues

Clinical approaches: Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Narrative Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy

Services offered

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License information

VA LPC 0701008911

Reviews

These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Goldie Oakes. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.

Goldie is a strong confident therapist who knows how to weave her years of wisdom and experience around practical training methods associated with her field to help make the therapy sessions productive. She is patient and insightful, not afraid to tell you of her limitations, and is very easy to talk to.

Written on Nov 29, 2025 after therapy with Goldie for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, coaching, and compassion fatigue

Goldie has been extremely helpful throughout my therapy process. Extremely insightful, kind and offers excellent perspectives through different lenses.

Written on Nov 23, 2025 after therapy with Goldie for 4 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, family conflicts, and compassion fatigue

Goldie is great. She shoots it to you straight but is very nice.

Written on Sep 03, 2025 after therapy with Goldie for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, grief, and coping with life changes

As a hesitant participant, Goldie made therapy comforting and was able to get me to look at life in a different way.

I highly recommend her.

Written on Aug 02, 2025 after therapy with Goldie for 3 weeks on issues concerning grief, and self esteem

Goldie Oakes has been a competent , helpful therapist in through out some difficult situations in my life this year. I am grateful to have found her for Telehealth care.

Written on Jul 28, 2025 after therapy with Goldie for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, parenting issues, anger management, and compassion fatigue

She is an excellent listener, has a strong knowledge base, really helped me to understand pattern of behavior and modify my expectations. In a past session, she was incredibly helpful educating me( I’m medical) on childhood brain development and how environment can truly alter the brain to cope, deal with the situations at hand. Made me suddenly understand the adult behaviors I would see as a result of this. This made me more tolerant, understanding that it’s not me.

Written on Jul 23, 2025 after therapy with Goldie for 1 year on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, family conflicts, and compassion fatigue