I am licensed in both Oklahoma and Kansas and have over 25 years of professional counseling experience. I have worked with individuals facing a wide range of concerns, including stress and anxiety, addictions, relationship challenges, trauma and abuse, and depression.
I believe you are the expert of your own story and that you already possess many strengths and abilities that can help you navigate life’s challenges and move toward healing and growth. My role is to provide support, guidance, and a safe space where you can process your experiences and work toward your goals.
Taking the first step to begin therapy requires courage, and I want to acknowledge the strength it took for you to reach out and get started. I look forward to walking alongside you in this journey.
Professional experience
25 yrs in practice
Stress and anxiety Relationship issues Trauma and abuse Depression Compassion fatigue
Additional areas of focus:Coping with addictions, Family conflicts, Coping with grief and loss, Intimacy related issues, Eating disorders, Sleeping disorders, Parenting issues, Anger management, Motivation, self esteem, and confidence, Career difficulties, Coping with life changes, Executive and professional coaching, Concentration, memory and focus (ADHD), Abandonment, Adoption and foster care, Aging and geriatric issues, Antisocial personality, Attachment issues, Avoidant personality, Blended family issues, Body image, Caregiver issues and stress, Chronic pain, illness, and disability, Co-morbidity, Codependency, Commitment issues, Communication problems, Control issues, Coping with natural or human-caused disaster, Dependent personality, Dissociation, Divorce and separation, Domestic violence, Drug and alcohol addiction, Eating and food-related issues, Emptiness, Family of origin issues, Family problems, Fatherhood issues, First responder issues, Forgiveness, Guilt and shame, Hoarding, Hospice and end-of-life counseling, Impulsivity, Infidelity, Isolation / loneliness, Jealousy, Life purpose, Men's issues, Midlife crisis, Veteran and Armed Forces Issues, Money and financial issues, Mood disorders, Narcissism, Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Paranoia, Personality disorders, Postpartum depression, Post-traumatic stress, Pregnancy and childbirth, Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling), Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), Self-harm, Self-love, Sex addiction, Sexual assault and abuse, Sexuality, Social anxiety and phobia, Women's issues, Workplace issues, Young adult issues
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Rev. Jacklyn McNeil. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.
Working with Rev. McNeil has been one of the best investments I’ve made in my well-being. She is compassionate, attentive, and incredibly skilled at helping me work through difficult situations. I always feel heard and supported, and I’ve experienced significant personal growth because of our work together. I have recommended her to many friends and family looking for a caring and effective therapist.
Written on Jun 01, 2026 after therapy with Jacklyn for 1 year and 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
Rev McNeil is very intuitive about my situation and the feelings surrounding it. Talking to her is like being with a compassionate, thoughtful friend. She gets me.
Written on May 28, 2026 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 years on issues concerning depression, family conflicts, and coping with life changes
Rev McNeil is kind, thorough and easy to talk to and offers great support suggestions
Written on Feb 24, 2026 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Working with Rev. McNeil has been one of the most steadying and transformative experiences of my life. From the very first session, she established a space that felt safe, solid, and genuinely supportive — a place where I could speak honestly and explore difficult truths without hesitation. Her presence is calm, confident, and anchored, and her guidance consistently brings clarity to even the most tangled emotional moments.
She has a rare ability to cut through noise and get to the heart of what’s really going on. Her insight is sharp, her intuition is strong, and she weaves both clinical skill and spiritual grounding into her work in a way that feels both practical and deeply meaningful. She listens fully, responds with precision and compassion, and challenges me in the exact ways I need in order to grow.
Session after session, she shows up with steadiness and sincerity. I leave feeling more centered, more capable, and more confident in my own direction. The progress I’ve made with her support has been real, measurable, and life-changing.
If you’re looking for a therapist who is wise, grounded, spiritually attuned, and genuinely invested in her clients’ growth, I cannot recommend Rev. McNeil highly enough. She is remarkable, and working with her has been one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.
Written on Dec 09, 2025 after therapy with Jacklyn for 1 year on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
Rev. McNeil was very quick to identify areas that I needed to work on and has really helped me address those issues. She listens and understands so well.
Written on Oct 24, 2025 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, sleeping disorders, self esteem, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
She has been so helpful and encouraging. I feel safe talking to her.
Written on Aug 19, 2025 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues
Rev. McNeil has been a great help to me over the past year and a half. She has provided a clearer perspective and several strategies for me to cope with the issues I have had to deal with in that time. She has gotten me above water and is now helping me to rise into a happier, healthier me.
Written on Aug 13, 2025 after therapy with Jacklyn for 1 year and 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, grief, sleeping disorders, and career difficulties
I have been working with Rev. McNeil for a little over 3 months now. She has been such a blessing to me. She is kind, gentle, compassionate, and just down to earth. I have learned so much from her and about myself. She has provided me with the tools and confidence I need to find my inner healing. Highly recommend Rev. McNeil.
Written on Jul 20, 2025 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 months on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, grief, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and coping with life changes
The best!
Written on Jul 01, 2025 after therapy with Jacklyn for 1 year and 4 months on issues concerning relationship issues
she is great!
Written on May 05, 2025 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and coping with life changes
Rev MC Neil is a good listener and explains well how to cope naturally my anxiety
Written on Apr 14, 2025 after therapy with Jacklyn for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, and compassion fatigue
She is knowledgeable and attentive. She is kind and understanding. She is a great listener. I highly recommend her as a therapist.
Written on Apr 10, 2025 after therapy with Jacklyn for 3 months on issues concerning self esteem
Rev. McNeil is an amazing person to work with in regards to the issues I have. She makes you feel at easy and knows how to ask things that make it easy for you to respond when it comes to the issues being discussed
Written on Jan 06, 2025 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, coaching, and adhd
Listens and offers insight and encouragement
Written on Dec 30, 2024 after therapy with Jacklyn for 1 month on issues concerning addictions, relationship issues, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, coaching, and adhd
She is the best!
Written on Oct 17, 2024 after therapy with Jacklyn for 1 year and 1 month on issues concerning depression, and stress, anxiety
She’s the best !
Written on Oct 14, 2024 after therapy with Jacklyn for 1 year and 11 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, grief, self esteem, and coping with life changes
I cannot recommend her enough! I have improved in so many ways so quickly. She is the BEST!
Written on Aug 18, 2024 after therapy with Jacklyn for 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, and adhd
I believe she was matched to me perfectly. Her encouragement and insights are very helpful, and I have been able to see some things that I have not considered. This has been a wonderful experience so far.
Written on Jun 13, 2024 after therapy with Jacklyn for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, grief, self esteem, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
She's been such a blessing. From being supportive to just listening and giving helpful guidance. She's truly a great therapist!
Written on Apr 10, 2024 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and adhd
She is absolutely amazing and has helped me so much
Written on Apr 09, 2024 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Jacklyn has was a God send! She helped me through trauma of my past, to overcome those triggers, and helped me cope with major life changing stress that happened after starting my sessions. I would recommend her to anyone! She is so understanding and genuinely cares about you. She would even check on me out side of normal hours to see how I was doing. I have completed my main goal and have learned tools to help me get through situations that normally would overwhelm me and make me spiral. I can’t thank her enough for her guidance and support through everything.
Written on Apr 09, 2024 after therapy with Jacklyn for 1 year on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd
Top Notch!
Written on Mar 18, 2024 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, and family conflicts
As a person whose journey of faith is a bedrock of life and healing, Rev.McNeil is a welcome change from past therapists who never fully understood my faith journey. She is a skilled counselor who listens and prompts shifts in thought. Never pushing but always supporting, she highlights areas that need growth or attention. For me, she has been what I needed in this time of healing.
Written on Mar 01, 2024 after therapy with Jacklyn for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Rev. McNeil is like a warm hug. Everytime I speak to her I feel comfortable to open up and know she will receive me with grace.
Written on Feb 23, 2024 after therapy with Jacklyn for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, and adhd
She has been everything I could have ever hoped for in a therapist. I would recommend her until I’m blue in the face! I have come so far in 6-7 months and she’s given me the tools to be successful.
Written on Jan 19, 2024 after therapy with Jacklyn for 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and intimacy-related issues
Rev McNeil is amazing! She made me feel comfortable sharing my experiences from the very first session. I appreciate the way she empowered me to make some decisions that have improved my life and gave me some control back. She is personable and kind, while also being stern when she needs to be to get a point across. I’m enjoying my therapy so far, and I did not think that would be possible!
Written on Jan 16, 2024 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Being matched with Jacklyn has been a game changer for me. She understands my concerns and hears me out fully. She’s tough on me when I need it but also incredibly kind and compassionate in everything that she does. I’ve improved more with her in the year we’ve been matched than I had seeing a different provider for several years. She is able to provide me with spiritual comfort and advice as well which is a big plus.
Written on Jan 03, 2024 after therapy with Jacklyn for 1 year on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd
Just a wonderful help.
Written on Dec 21, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, and adhd
I feel safe and listened to!!
Written on Nov 27, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, coachi
Awesome help and very insightful.
Written on Nov 24, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, and anger management
Rev. McNeil is amazing and I have only spoke to this woman two times and trust her more then I trust most people
Written on Nov 20, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, anger management, bipolar disorder, and adhd
She is very patient and calm and she seems genuinely concerned with my current health concerns.
Written on Nov 20, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
She is very trauma informed and is very helpful and willing to go above and beyond adapting to what is needed.
Written on Sep 18, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 10 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, parenting issues, and self esteem
The best there is, she has helped me through one of the most difficult chapters of my life.
Written on Aug 28, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 9 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, and coping with life changes
I have affectionally come to call Rev. McNeil “The Rev” when I speak about her with my wife and friends. I came in to therapy extremely close minded and defensive. The Rev has been able to help me break through my own internal walls and to start discovering who I am. The understanding, the guidance and overall support I have received has been a Godsend. I would highly recommend The Rev to anyone but especially those who have years and years of layers and walls of protection. It has been beyond liberating to have The Rev in my life. 100/10!
Written on Aug 24, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 3 weeks on issues concerning family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, anger management, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
The skills and knowledge she has shared with me have been invaluable to my healing journey. I have achieved more with her in 3 months than I did in a year with other therapists. Very sweet & kind woman.
Written on Jun 08, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and adhd
Jacklyn is a Godsend for me. She makes me feel heard every session and provides guidance and tools for me to use in my personal and professional life. Since meeting Jacklyn, my overall mental health has improved and I am very grateful for her expertise and support.
Written on May 31, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 6 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
She is a awesome person and such great help to me!
Written on May 22, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and anger management
Helped me complete overcome my lowest low to get back to normal and feeling much better and learning out to never go back there again.
Written on May 21, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
I could write an entire book about how much I believe in Jacklyn and her expertise. I always had my doubts with therapy and I thought that every therapist was the same, but I was wrong. I have been in therapy for about 4 months but the way Jacklyn helps you heal feels like you have been in therapy for years. It amazes me with what she is able to help me accomplish with my healing journey. If you are ready to heal for yourself and put in the work that is needed to heal, Jacklyn is the only person I would recommend to anyone, including my friends and family.
Written on May 15, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 4 months on issues concerning family conflicts, eating disorders, parenting issues, coaching, and adhd
McNeil is a lovable person. I've had several sessions with her and she is kind, down to earth, and she digs in to issues effectively. Highly recommend her!
Written on Apr 17, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, self esteem, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Jacklyn has been a lifesaver, literally! Before seeing her, I didn’t know where my life was headed and felt buried in my problems with no way out but she has helped me to sort through the things that kept me pulled under and has helped me to forgive and to put those traumas away and deal with current stressors and anxiety. I can’t thank her enough for what she has done for me so far.
Written on Mar 28, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, anger management, and coping with life changes
So grateful for our interaction. Wonderful advice!
Written on Feb 18, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
When Jacklyn and I have more time to know each other, I’m certain I’ll give her even a better review!
Written on Feb 16, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and self esteem
Extremely attentive, and responds in timely manner. Will reach out occasionally just to check in on me. Her Biblical knowledge is very helpful.
Written on Feb 03, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, self esteem, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Lovely, supportive, informative, and kind.
Written on Feb 01, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, anger management, and career difficulties
I have been doing my weekly sessions little over a month now with Jacklyn. She has definitely made a good first impression. I was nervous starting out but She makes it easy. She is very understanding, patient, reassuring, and gives you hope for better days. At least for me she makes my life easier to handle. My only regret is to not have signed up sooner for therapy. Thank you!
Written on Feb 01, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and bipolar disorder
Jacklyn is a very good listener. She seems truly genuine about wanting to helping.
Written on Jan 05, 2023 after therapy with Jacklyn for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and grief
Jacklyn has become my safe place, there is never any judgement, just guidance and all of her guidance comes from a genuine place of love. She is the best at what she does because she genuinely cares for people.
1 session with her is like 5 with another therapist, we dig deep fast and it is extremely helpful in my recovery. Her communication is clear, to the point and easily understood. I am grateful for what she is teaching me, it is actually saving my life.
Written on Dec 26, 2022 after therapy with Jacklyn for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and self esteem
She really talks me through things, and is always great at comforting me!
Written on Dec 02, 2022 after therapy with Jacklyn for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and self esteem
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