I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Hawaii with 14 years of professional experience. Throughout my career, I have worked with individuals of all ages, from young children as young as five years old to middle school-aged children (i.e., 11 - 14 years old), adolescents (i.e., 14 - 19 years old), and adults of various ages. I have worked in the helping profession, in one capacity or another, since 1996. I have worked in both private (non-profit) and public settings.
“The Conversation” in Sessions
I firmly believe in " the conversation" and, in my way, demystifying the counseling/therapy session while acknowledging the client's individual experience. The hope is to provide a non-judgmental, honest, virtual environment for the client to share their story. Here in Hawaii, we refer to the "conversation" as a "talking story." YOU (the client) are the expert on your life story, and whether you know it or not, YOU (the client) possess the strengths that will assist you in overcoming your present challenges--I am here to help.
My "Systemic Perspective”
My specific license (i.e., Marriage and Family Therapist) may suggest I exclusively work with marital couples and families. Most of my experience is with providing counseling/therapy to individuals. I review an individual's case and what brought them to counseling/therapy through a "systemic" perspective. A "systemic" perspective refers to the individual's relationship with others in different aspects of their life, i.e., work, family, social, and personal life, and the possible influence it may have on that individual's current attitudes, habits, and behaviors. The "systemic" perspective may appear broad on the surface; however, it is just the starting point or what I refer to as a "blank canvas” for an individual to fill with their personal experiences during sessions.
The Approach and Process in Sessions
During my counseling/therapy sessions, I aim to create a dynamic process of sharing, exploration, and learning. I adopt a strength-based and pragmatic approach that focuses on identifying general themes and specific details behind the client's current situation that initially brought them to counseling/therapy. This initial process of sharing includes the client telling their story relative to their "presenting concern(s) and possibly conveying their ideal and realistic outcomes. The primary goal is to develop relative goals and direction for future sessions by identifying "exceptions" or instances within the client's life where their "presenting concern(s)" did or did not occur. Clients may need to recall specific details of these occurrences, such as the people involved, location, time of day, and period in their lives (past, present, or future), which can sometimes be a challenging and emotional experience. If a specific memory becomes especially difficult, the client may want to take a break, stop altogether, or shift the conversation to another topic--the client decides when they are ready to talk about a particular situation.
Assignments and Resources
The BetterHelp platform provides resources such as worksheets, access to and use of an online journal, and, in some cases, informational videos. I understand that people have their daily lives and that their time is at a premium; therefore, rest assured, I am judicious regarding worksheet assignments, whether they are requested to be completed or just reviewed. If clients feel comfortable doing so, I recommend using the journal function if they are inclined to do so.
The first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage, a level of commitment, and a willingness to explore the unfamiliar. I and other therapists on this platform are here to support you in this process.
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Professional experience
16 yrs in practice
Career difficultiesCoping with life changesADHD
Additional areas of focus:Stress, Anxiety, Relationship issues, Family conflicts, Trauma and abuse, Grief, Parenting issues, Anger management, Self esteem, Compassion fatigue, Communication problems, Multicultural concerns, Workplace issues
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Joachin Kaaihue. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.
Kind insightful man with experience and sensitivity
Written on Jan 17, 2026 after therapy with Joachin for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, and anger management
Great therapist and very helpful in stressful situations.
Written on Dec 09, 2025 after therapy with Joachin for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, and coping with life changes
Very insightful. Gentle
Guidance
Written on Nov 30, 2025 after therapy with Joachin for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and coping with life changes
Joachin has successfully helped me on multiple problems I have sought help for. I quit therapy once and went back because of my confidence in his work.
Written on Oct 03, 2025 after therapy with Joachin for 1 year and 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, and self esteem
Joachin Kaaihue is a very experienced and insightful counselor. Each time I speak with him, he asks thoughtful questions that guide me to reflect more deeply and understand myself better, including why I feel the way I do in certain situations. His approach makes me feel heard and supported, and I always leave our sessions with more clarity. I find talking to him very helpful.
Written on Sep 09, 2025 after therapy with Joachin for 1 year and 4 months on issues concerning relationship issues, and intimacy-related issues
I really appreciated Joachin’s personable and relaxed style. We quickly and easily developed a therapeutic relationship, and I felt very supported by him and our sessions. Definitely especially highly recommend to people who live in Hawaii.?
Written on Aug 07, 2025 after therapy with Joachin for 2 months on issues concerning relationship issues, trauma and abuse, and adhd
So far I’ve been talking with my therapist for just about 5 months. It’s been helpful to me and I have someone who can hear me out with what’s going on in my life. I think it helps to keep me on track and it gives me a sense of peace. He gives me helpful information when needed. I would recommend for anyone who needs the extra professional support to seek help and possibly connect with Joachin Kaaihue.
Written on Aug 02, 2025 after therapy with Joachin for 4 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, anger management, and coping with life changes
He's the best
Written on Jul 31, 2025 after therapy with Joachin for 1 month on issues concerning adhd
I feel comfortable opening up and speaking to him with out any judgment, and I trust any advice he gives me.
Written on Jul 25, 2025 after therapy with Joachin for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, sleeping disorders, and adhd
Joachin not only listens and responds, he’s able to give me an outside professional perspective. I myself value one’s perspective especially in a professional manner he helps me look at my problems from more than one view and calms me and eases me into a way of not only bettering and understanding my situations I bring up with him but also understanding and bettering myself.
Written on Jun 06, 2025 after therapy with Joachin for 1 year and 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and anger management
He is a very good listener. He helps me see both sides of a statement without invalidating my feelings. He is thoughtful when he says something.
Written on Jun 02, 2025 after therapy with Joachin for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, anger management, career difficulties, and adhd
A kind man, with a very level head, very helpful & offered insight in a wide range of life issues. He’s definitely the right fit for me! Better he’ll did a great job with placement. And an even better job putting him on staff. Aloha.
Written on May 16, 2025 after therapy with Joachin for 9 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, anger management, career difficulties, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Experienced and insightful
Written on May 14, 2025 after therapy with Joachin for 7 months on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, family conflicts, parenting issues, and self esteem
Joachin is a very good listener, I feel heard and supported. He shares good insight and helps me to understand what I am going through. After each session I am confident and encouraged to keep working through the issues that I need to overcome.
Written on May 02, 2025 after therapy with Joachin for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, and self esteem
Awesome comforting genuine down to earth person, always checks in on me and listens to me and helps me with my issues
Written on Apr 17, 2025 after therapy with Joachin for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and anger management
Amazing work and truly understanding of my background history and place based learning. Culturally connected. Mahalo nui.
Written on Apr 11, 2025 after therapy with Joachin for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, compa
Excellent listener and very insightful. Would definitely recommend Joachin!
Written on Jan 13, 2025 after therapy with Joachin for 3 months on issues concerning relationship issues
I have excellent session's with Joachin. He’s emotionally intelligent and very engaged. The best therapist I’ve had by far.
Written on Nov 27, 2024 after therapy with Joachin for 7 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and relationship issues
I have recieved more insight than I set out for. In a short time he has help me navigate my initial issue and then he allowed me to talk through and give me tips on how to deal with the brought up issue at hand.
I am looking forward to exploring the rabbit hole in a light we are both fluid in.
Written on Aug 16, 2024 after therapy with Joachin for 2 weeks on issues concerning parenting issues, coping with life changes, and coaching
Amazing !
Written on Jul 29, 2024 after therapy with Joachin for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and grief
J. Kaaihue is an extremely talented and professional therapist. I highly recommend.
Written on Jul 20, 2024 after therapy with Joachin for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, and adhd
Fantastic to talk to about different aspects of difficulties and troubles. Offers good feedback and talks through issues with you. Excellent therapist.
Written on May 31, 2024 after therapy with Joachin for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, and career difficulties
At this time, I have only had one session with Joachim, however so far so good. I found him to very helpful and insightful and I am looking forward to our next session. This is coming from a guy who did not want to go into therapy.
Written on May 17, 2024 after therapy with Joachin for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and anger management
I sincerely appreciate his focus and opportunity to let the conversation turn into more
Written on Apr 11, 2024 after therapy with Joachin for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and coaching
Professional and approachable, listens and offers solutions and exercises to implement after each session.
Written on Apr 08, 2024 after therapy with Joachin for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and self esteem
Joachin is very kind and listens intently. I’m very grateful to have him as a therapist. He seems to really want to help in solving problems by coming up with solutions. Highly recommend!
Written on Mar 02, 2024 after therapy with Joachin for 2 weeks
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