Jullie "R Jay" Weiland


About Me

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor. I have worked with clients with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, incarceration, dissociation, psychosis, sexual behavior issues, trauma and abuse, PTSD depression, coping skills, career challenges, OCD, and eating issues. I have a special interest in working with LGBTQIA+ clients with specialized training for supporting transgender clients.

My therapy style is warm, interactive and person centered. I believe everyone has the ability to find healing and you are the expert on you! My role is to support you and provide resources as you find your way to healing. It might be cliché, but life truly is a journey. My approach combines cognitive-behavioral, humanistic, as well as narrative and solution focused therapy. I will tailor our work together to meet your specific needs based on my training in Polyvagal Theory, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Ego States, Internal Family Systems, Attachment Based, Strength Based, Trauma and Abandonment, Eye Movement and Desensitization (EMDR), and Gottman's Couples Therapy.

It takes courage to reach out and ask for support towards a happier and more fulfilling life. That courage will serve you well.
I look forward to working with you!


  • LGBT
  • Trauma and abuse
Also experienced in:
Stress, Anxiety , Addictions , Relationship issues , Family conflicts , Grief , Intimacy-related issues , Eating disorders , Sleeping disorders , Parenting issues , Anger management , Self esteem , Career difficulties , Bipolar disorder , Read more...

Clinical approaches:
Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Existential Therapy, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Gottman Method, Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Narrative Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Somatic Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems

Years of Experience: 3

Services Offered

  • Messaging

  • Live Chat

  • Phone

  • Video


LPC #20624 (Expires: 2022-11-30)


These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Jullie "R Jay" Weiland. We don’t pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.

Written by K.A. on Aug 04, 2022 after therapy with Jullie "R Jay" for 6 months on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, and adhd

R Jay is excellent. They are compassionate, knowledgeable, patient, and provide actionable tools. I highly recommend them.

Written by B.O. on Feb 23, 2022 after therapy with Jullie "R Jay" for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and eating disorders

In the short time I have been working with R Jay I have seen my confidence improve, my relationships both private and professional have improved and I have found hope for my future. She is extremely knowledgeable and professional. I really look forward to our sessions!

Written by L.A. on Nov 23, 2021 after therapy with Jullie "R Jay" for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, and adhd

They’re a great listener and offers techniques that i can do by myself when I get overwhelmed which i like a lot. They also let me just rant if i need to which is really nice. They’re super sweet and empathetic and im really glad i got matched with them.

Written by C.H. on Nov 14, 2021 after therapy with Jullie "R Jay" for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, self esteem, and compassion fatigue

R Jay is responsive, supporting, and challenging in all the right ways, helping me to see myself and my goals with honesty and gentleness.

Work with me!