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Lane Miller, LPC

Stress, Anxiety Trauma and abuse Grief Coaching Compassion fatigue
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About me

Hello! I’m Lanie, a Licensed Professional Counselor in Missouri and Kansas. I believe it is very necessary for you to feel confident and secure with those you trust to connect with on your path in this world. I also believe that it is a more genuine relationship when you have some idea of your provider’s life education vs just formal education. I completed my Master's Degree in Counseling with an emphasis in 
Marriage and Family Counseling in 1999 at the University of Missouri Kansas City. I have been very fortunate to be able to have a career filled with 22 years of work that is incredibly diverse in the cultures, issues, people, settings and approaches involved. I believe this has been partly due to my own history including such diverse influences.

I’ve spent most of my career working with people who have experienced complex trauma including children and adults recovering traumatic loss, abuse, abduction, first responders, military and other healthcare providers who struggle to know where to turn. I have been proud to assist non profit, government and private agencies in resiliency efforts such as active shooter drills and consultation to assist in creating trauma informed care and judicial systems.

I have found mindfulness based therapies such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy to be very effective in combination with an understanding of the neuroscience of habit change. As we work together you will become more present, “make room” for adversity, define your identity and commit to a life filled with rich meaning and a sense of purpose.

Professional experience

22yrs in practice

Additional areas of focus: Addictions, LGBT, Relationship issues, Family conflicts, Intimacy-related issues, Parenting issues, Anger management, Self esteem, Career difficulties, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Coping with life changes, ADHD, Abandonment, Attachment Issues, Autism and Asperger Syndrome, Chronic Pain Illness and Disability, Co-morbidity, Coping with Natural or Human-Caused Disaster, Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD), Dissociation, Drug and Alcohol Addiction, Emptiness, Family of Origin Issues, First Responder Issues, Gender Dysphoria, HIV / AIDS, Hoarding, Hospice and End of Life Counseling, Intellectual Disability, Men's Issues, Midlife Crisis, Military and Veterans Issues, Multicultural Concerns, Narcissism, Obsessions, Compulsions, and OCD, Personality Disorders, Phobias, Prejudice and Discrimination, Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling), Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), Sex Addiction, Sexual Assault and Abuse, Sexuality, Traumatic Brain Injury, Women's Issues

Clinical approaches: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Narrative Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy

License information

MO LPC 2003032247


These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Lane Miller. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.

Lane is an absolute gem. She is always warm and welcoming, and she will mee you where you’re at with relevant information and funny anecdotes. I cannot recommend her enough!

Written on Feb 24, 2023 after therapy with Lane for 1 year and 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and adhd


Written on Dec 13, 2022 after therapy with Lane for 1 year and 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue

She is the best!!!!

Written on Sep 02, 2022 after therapy with Lane for 11 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, and compassion fatigue

Lane is an amazing therapist

Written on Aug 23, 2022 after therapy with Lane for 1 year on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, coaching, and adhd

I've been talking to Lane for a while now, and I feel that she understands me and helps me in a way that works best for me. I couldn't ask for a better match with a therapist.

Written on May 10, 2022 after therapy with Lane for 6 months on issues concerning lgbt, relationship issues, and family conflicts

Lane has a gift for therapy. She listens, helps and makes you feel at ease to share your experience even if it is painful. I trust her because of her acceptance and nonjudgmental attitude. She is bringing healing to my life.

Written on Mar 01, 2022 after therapy with Lane for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, family conflicts, coping with life changes, and trauma and abuse