About Me

Welcome to BetterHelp! My name is Matthew Tapia and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in the Bay Area, California. In my life, I’ve seen many people with a broad spectrum of challenges. I’ve also seen that hope and relief are possible. I offer a unique perspective in getting you that help. I enjoy seeing individuals and families solve problems and feel closer together.

My experience comes from providing direct mental health and behavioral counseling for kids, teens, and adults with a variety of presenting issues including anxiety, autism, Asperger's syndrome, depression, stress, relationship and family issues, trauma, life transitions, parenting, and caregiving issues in a variety of settings.

My approach and therapy style draws influence from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Mindfulness, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). It is important that you and I work together as a team using a collaborative approach and that I meet you where you are.

Prior to BetterHelp, I worked in a private practice as a clinician, consultant, and supervisor. I have also worked at a nonprofit mental health clinic as a clinician, supervisor, consultant, and trainer. This background gave me the opportunity to work with individuals, families, and couples with a wide variety of presenting issues. I have supported those dealing with autism, Asperger's syndrome, anger issues, anxiety, depression, PTSD, young adult issues, life transitions, men's issues, parenting, caregiving, substance abuse and at-risk adolescent behavior. I also assist crisis response and first responders through their difficult experiences.

I hold a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from Santa Clara University and an undergraduate degree in Psychology from San Jose State University. I am also certified by the Behavior Analyst Certification Board as a Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA).


  • Stress, Anxiety
  • Relationship issues
  • Parenting issues
  • Depression
  • ADHD
Also experienced in:
Family conflicts , Trauma and abuse , Anger management , Self esteem , Career difficulties , Bipolar disorder , Coping with life changes , Compassion fatigue , Autism and Asperger Syndrome , Blended Family Issues , Read more...

Clinical approaches:
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing

Years of Experience: 10

Services Offered

  • Messaging

  • Live Chat

  • Phone

  • Video


LMFT #131725 (Expires: 2024-03-31)


These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Matthew Tapia. We don’t pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.

Written by T.Y. on Jun 20, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, compassion fatigue, and adhd

Whether it be in session or out of session, his work has helped me during our time together as well as much self realization outside our work. Hes paitent and listens to what you say not just hears you and goes by his own guide or schedule. 100000000/10 therapist. Man does wonders.

Written by E.R. on Jun 01, 2022 after therapy with Matthew for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and coping with life changes

Wonderful experience so far, highly recommended!

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