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As a therapist, I stress the importance of holistic wellness. I see each person as a whole and strive to assist my clients in setting goals to gain not only mental and emotional well being, but also to feel good physically and build a healthy lifestyle that will continue to support their whole health. I also feel that therapy should be inviting, productive and even fun! My greatest pleasure is watching my clients grow by building coping skills, self-esteem, and self-love. I have an extensive background in Addictions and Trauma; and also in Depression, Anxiety and Panic Disorders, and Adjustment Disorders.
Professional experience
5yrs in practice
Stress, AnxietyAddictionsTrauma, AbuseSelf esteem, MotivationCoping with life changes
Additional areas of focus:Relationship issues, Family conflicts, Grief, Intimacy-related issues, Eating disorders, Sleeping disorders, Parenting issues, Anger management, Career difficulties, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Compassion fatigue, ADHD, Abandonment, Adoption and Foster Care, Attachment Issues, Body Image, Caregiver Issues and Stress, Co-morbidity, Codependency, Commitment Issues, Control Issues, Coping with Natural or Human-Caused Disaster, Dependent Personality, Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD), Divorce and Separation, Drug and Alcohol Addiction, Eating and Food-Related Issues, Emptiness, Family of Origin Issues, First Responder Issues, Forgiveness, Guilt and Shame, Impulsivity, Jealousy, Midlife Crisis, Military and Veterans Issues, Mood Disorders, Multicultural Concerns, Panic Disorder and Panic Attacks, Personality Disorders, Phobias, Postpartum Depression, Post-traumatic Stress, Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling), Self-Love, Social Anxiety and Phobia, Women's Issues, Young Adult Issues
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Monica Hoyer. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.
Monica is an incredible therapist. From the first moment I met her I could tell she had a since of warmth and understanding. She knows how to dial me back in and keep my focus on the issues at hand. I would recommend her to anyone!
Written on Nov 27, 2023 after therapy with Monica for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, bipolar disorder, and adhd
10/10!! Very open, understanding & supportive! :)
Written on Nov 14, 2023 after therapy with Monica for 2 years on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, and adhd
Monica is a great listener and gives me good advice and strategies.
Written on Aug 30, 2023 after therapy with Monica for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and adhd
Monica has been so helpful to me! In only a few sessions, she offered me excellent advice about how best to handle a wide range of personal and professional situations. She is the best therapist I have ever worked with - just so skilled, very nice, and fun to chat with.
Written on Aug 04, 2023 after therapy with Monica for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, parenting issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and coaching
Monica Hoyer is hands down the best therapist I’ve actually ever had. I’ve had many therapists & she really commits each session to listen and help me. She checks in and treats you like you’re a priority and it makes me feel like I actually matter instead of just venting to a friend and then going however long with whatever I’m feeling. I feel like there’s a sense of control with my issues and I’m finally becoming who I want to be.
Written on Jul 25, 2023 after therapy with Monica for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, eating disorders, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Such a fun and lively person. She always reaches out to me if it's been a few days to make sure everything is good. I know I have really found a friend in her.
Written on Jul 19, 2023 after therapy with Monica for 7 months on issues concerning trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, and adhd
Monica is the best I am so thankful to have her help me grow as a person as I move through seasons of life she is there every step of the way to help me process everything
Written on Jul 18, 2023 after therapy with Monica for 1 year and 10 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, parenting issues, anger management, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Monica is the best. She's attentive, varied in her ability to make you build self-awareness through exercises, conversations and make progress towards a more clear and healthy mindset. Outside of being great at what she does she is a great listener and has the ability to meet you where you are. I highly recommend her to anyone
Written on Apr 14, 2023 after therapy with Monica for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, and family conflicts
Talking with Monica has been a huge help in all areas of my life. Managing a busy life with kids, loss of a parent and sibling, marriage, stress, depression! She aways responds to messages in a timely manner. Her sense of humor brings a lightness to heavy conversations, she’s remembers your conversations and doesn’t just read notes. I highly recommend her if you’re looking for a great person to work with.
Written on Jan 05, 2023 after therapy with Monica for 1 year and 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, grief, parenting issues, and coping with life changes
I m glad i met Monica,We need people like you in this world. So your saving many lives. thank you for betterhelp.com the work that your doing to help people.
Written on Jan 01, 2023 after therapy with Monica for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Monica is a kind, empathetic, and knowledgeable therapist. I have always appreciated her perspective and she is very helpful with suggestions about how to change my behaviors.
Written on Dec 14, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 1 year and 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and self esteem
Patient, non-judgmental, funny but appropriate and professional. Good energy and very transparent and reassuring. I don’t know where I’d be without her guidance this past year. We have a lot of work left to do but she’s never rushed me or made comments about my mental health that weren’t true. The world needs more therapists like Monica.
Written on Nov 24, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, bipolar disorder, compassion fatigu
monica is awesome!
Written on Nov 23, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 10 months on issues concerning depression, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, anger management, and coping with life changes
Monica has been a great resource for me as I transition through some life challenges. She approaches things holistically and has really helped me build stronger and healthy habits. I would highly recommend working with her!
Written on Nov 23, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Excellent.
Written on Oct 18, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, bipolar disorder, and adhd
Monica's skills have been a very good asset to me.
Written on Sep 27, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, and coping with life changes
I feel so lucky that I got matched with Monica as my therapist. She's so kind and thoughtful. She always validates my feelings and gives me tools to manage anxiety and helps me grow as a person. She's honestly my biggest cheerleader and I'm always excited to share my breakthroughs with her. Therapy with her is easy and rewarding and so much more fun than I could ever imagine.
Written on Sep 16, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Monica is the best! She’s genuine, compassionate, and great at what she does. I feel empowered after I have a session with her and always look forward to the next.
Written on Sep 15, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 4 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Monica has been amazing for me! She has really made a difference in how I feel, and has helped me so much with all the changes in my life. By far, best therapist I have ever had.
Written on Sep 08, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 4 months on issues concerning depression, family conflicts, grief, and self esteem
Monica has been such a blessing in my life. I've been in therapy for awile now and she's been my therapist the whole time and I regret none of the time I've spent working with her. She's caring, understanding, thoughtful, goes above and beyond. She a great person all around and definitely deserves recognition for her hard work and dedication. If you get the chance to work with her, definitly do it. She'll help you get on the right track and support you fully the entire way.
Written on Aug 15, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 11 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
She is truly compassionate and amazing
Written on Jul 27, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 9 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety
You can’t beat perfection and that’s what she is . You are lucky to have her working for you and I am truly bless to have her .
Written on Jul 19, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 9 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, and adhd
I've only been talking to Monica for a short time now but I'm extremely happy with the help I've received from her so far. She's wonderful
Written on Jul 12, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
Monica has been instrumental in my mental healing. She made sure she understood my concerns and feelings by actively listening to provide constructive feedback and lead me to better mental health. I look forward to each weekly visit because I know that it is a time where I can be open and honest with my therapist in a none judgmental space.
Written on May 24, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, grief, eating disorders, anger management, and compassion fatigue
Excellent.
Written on Apr 25, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 6 months on issues concerning adhd
She's excellent, offers multiple viewpoints on a situation and ultimately let's me decide my path forward. I can 100% say that she helped me get myself together through one of the hardest times in my life, and I would recommend her to my own family, or anyone else for that matter
Written on Mar 26, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, grief, self esteem, career difficulties, and adhd
Thank you for your selflessness, passion and your patience . what you do for me (and I'm sure many others) is a huge gift! Thank you for being a soft cushion to lean on when times are so so tough and painful. Thank you for your teachings, tools and coping skills you have given me. Each session I learn something new and it helps me level up in emotional security and happiness. :)
Written on Mar 18, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, and self esteem
Monica is incredibly patient and seems to know exactly how to move me through trauma therapy in a way that makes me feel comfortable at the end of a session. I’m very grateful for the work she does.
Written on Mar 15, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, and eating disorders
Monica is incredible. I came to her at a very low point in my life, feeling like I was in a hole I would never climb out of. Through many months and phone calls, messages, and voice sessions, I can tell you that I'm on the other end of this, having learned coping skills and ways to manage my anxiety. I can see the world as beautiful again, and I did so without the need for medication. She has helped me grow so much as a person and has made SUCH a positive impact in my life. I give my absolute highest regards to her.
Written on Feb 17, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and compassion fatigue
Monica really gets both psychology and spirituality and integrates them well into her unbiased but realistic approach.
Written on Feb 12, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, anger management, and career difficulties
Only beginning with Monica. But I immediately liked her and she responded to my messages between appointments in a timely manner. She comes through as caring and intelligent
Written on Feb 10, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, eating disorders, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Monica is awesome. She is a great listener and very neutral in giving fair and honest advice. Would gladly recommend her as a therapist
Written on Jan 31, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and coaching
Monica is an amazing therapist. She is truly professional but knows how to make me feel completely comfortable in each session. By listening attentively and offering valuable feedback, I've been able to make a lot of positive changes to my life.
10/10
Written on Jan 20, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and coping with life changes
Monica has been wonderful in helping me through a difficult time in my life and has a great way of changing my perspective. She is very thoughtful and professional with her approach. I would highly recommend her!
Written on Jan 17, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Monica has been fantastic, she has a keen sense for how I process thoughts and emotions and is able go challenge my perspective in a gentle way.
Written on Jan 09, 2022 after therapy with Monica for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, eating disorders, and career difficulties
Monica is compassionate and kind. She offers realistic and easy strategies to manage anxiety and depression. She helps me rephrase the stressors in my life to make mountains seem conquerable.
Written on Dec 29, 2021 after therapy with Monica for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, and parenting issues
I feeling better, my therapist is the best
Written on Dec 02, 2021 after therapy with Monica for 2 months on issues concerning depression, and stress, anxiety
She is very understanding and thorough I've completely enjoyed her being my counselor!
Written on Oct 22, 2021 after therapy with Monica for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, and parenting issues
Monica made a joke about something I’d already told her was painful. She does not do her homework. She does her own formula no matter what you tell her you need work on and it’s really disappointing.
Written on Oct 08, 2021 after therapy with Monica for 5 days on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Great to work with understands what I'm trying to do and supporting methods in dealing with the issues I bring up
Written on Oct 04, 2021 after therapy with Monica for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, and intimacy-related issues
Monica really understands my needs and has helped tremendously in our few short sessions. She frequently checks in which I really appreciate. You can tell she cares about my well-being which is really refreshing!
Written on Oct 04, 2021 after therapy with Monica for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, and career difficulties
Monica seems to always be steering me into the right direction when it comes to my mental health. She helps me work through the really tough problems I’m facing right now and helps me to find how to deal with my stress and anxiety. I always feel much better after a session like I have guidance and strategies of how to deal with what’s happening.
Written on Sep 22, 2021 after therapy with Monica for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, bipolar disorder, and coping with life changes
Although it’s been but one in-person meeting, Monica is a great listener and counselor. I highly recommend.
Written on Sep 21, 2021 after therapy with Monica for 2 weeks on issues concerning addictions, relationship issues, parenting issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
She is amazing even though I had one session with her. I believe she can get me to where I need to be in life
Written on Jul 14, 2021 after therapy with Monica for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, and adhd
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