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Hello! My name is Pam Goucher. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in both Arkansas and Tennessee with over 30 years of experience working as a clinical therapist. I have experience in behavioral health and medical social work, so I have an understanding of the impact medical issues can have on someone's life. I have worked with clients with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, bipolar, trauma, parenting and relationship issues. I have also worked with individuals who have experienced alcoholism/addictions. I am familiar with the 12-steps of Alcoholics Anonymous. I am most comfortable with a Christian approach, but I am accepting of and have worked with various religious beliefs and lifestyles including LGBTQ. I come from a military background as my father was a Vietnam vet and my son has completed 5 tours of duty in Iraq/Afghanistan. I am also a grandparent raising a grandchild. So as you can see, I am a fairly experienced, well- rounded person. I understand that sometimes life just happens and we need help making sense of it all!
My counseling style is warm and interactive. I believe in treating everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. I am open minded and accepting of others. I will not judge you or present as biased. My therapy style is eclectic, as I use whatever your unique and specific needs call for. I do tend to lean more towards cognitive-behavioral therapy though as I believe every situation provokes a thought--a thought a feeling-- which in turn produces an attitude or behavior. I also like to explore your family of origin issues as those early family dynamics do tend to influence who we are today.
I always start by reassuring my clients that they aren't crazy or weird...what you're feeling is normal for what you are experiencing right now. Anyone in your shoes would most likely be feeling the same way. It's okay and you're okay! We can figure it out together:)
I look forward to working with you!
Professional experience
37yrs in practice
Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefDepression
Additional areas of focus:Addictions, LGBT, Family conflicts, Intimacy-related issues, Parenting issues, Anger management, Self esteem, Career difficulties, Bipolar disorder, Coping with life changes, Compassion fatigue, ADHD, Abandonment, Aging and Geriatric Issues, Attachment Issues, Blended Family Issues, Body Image, Cancer, Caregiver Issues and Stress, Chronic Pain Illness and Disability, Co-morbidity, Codependency, Communication Problems, Control Issues, Divorce and Separation, Emptiness, Family of Origin Issues, Family Problems, Fatherhood Issues, Forgiveness, Guilt and Shame, Hospice and End of Life Counseling, Infidelity, Isolation / Loneliness, Jealousy, Life Purpose, Men's Issues, Midlife Crisis, Military and Veterans Issues, Mood Disorders, Narcissism, Panic Disorder and Panic Attacks, Post-traumatic Stress, Pregnancy and Childbirth, Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), Self-Harm, Self-Love, Social Anxiety and Phobia, Women's Issues, Workplace Issues, Young Adult Issues
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Pamela Goucher. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.
If it wasn't for you I wouldn't be here right now. Thank you for understanding me & working so well with me!!
Written on Aug 04, 2023 after therapy with Pamela for 2 years and 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Pamela is an awesome listener, calm and really helps me a great deal. Yes, I would recommend her to my friends.
Written on Apr 30, 2023 after therapy with Pamela for 3 years and 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, and self esteem
Excellent therapist!!
Written on Dec 14, 2022 after therapy with Pamela for 9 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
I have been able to be with this therapist for almost 2 years. She has helped me tremendously understand my situation and giving me the tools to be able to deal with my current relationships.
Written on Dec 06, 2022 after therapy with Pamela for 2 years and 7 months on issues concerning relationship issues, and family conflicts
I always feel great after talking to Pamela. She has helped me in so many ways, more than I knew I needed. Absolutely recommend.
Written on Nov 10, 2022 after therapy with Pamela for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, bipolar disorder, and adhd
I love having her as my therapist! She listens, offers advice and perspective and has been a godsend throughout this rough period. She's great!
Written on Oct 26, 2022 after therapy with Pamela for 4 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, parenting issues, anger management, and coping with life changes
I'm getting great support and advice from Pamela. We work very well together.
Written on Oct 24, 2022 after therapy with Pamela for 2 years and 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and coping with life changes
LOVE Pamela! Can not say enough good things about her!
Written on Oct 12, 2022 after therapy with Pamela for 2 years and 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, coping with life changes, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
This amazing woman has helped me so much. I’ve only gotten started to see the amazing person I have the potential to be. She listens and she calms me down. She understands me and explains things to me. All in all she is a good woman and I made the right choice with picking her. I look forward to all the future sessions.
Written on Aug 10, 2022 after therapy with Pamela for 2 months on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Pamela is so great! She helped me catch onto things by my second session that no one else had mentioned for years and it was SO helpful! I am very grateful for her and her expertise!
Written on Jul 19, 2022 after therapy with Pamela for 2 months on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting issues, and adhd
Been seeing Pam for two years now. It's been quite the healing journey. Grateful.
Written on May 16, 2022 after therapy with Pamela for 2 years on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd
Pamela is a great listener. She is very understanding and professional. She supports and encourages. Highly recommended.
Written on May 12, 2022 after therapy with Pamela for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, and adhd
I've only had two sessions, but my mind is always at ease whenever I finish talking to my counselor. She has been amazing. It feels like I'm talking to one of my friends every time we talk! I couldn't have asked for a better woman to counsel me.
Written on Apr 27, 2022 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd
She is an amazing therapist.she cares and really listens to what I am saying.
Written on Apr 27, 2022 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and bipolar disorder
She has a way of re-grounding me when I get a little too lost in my thoughts and emotions. I really appreciate the effort she puts into me as a patient.
Written on Apr 03, 2022 after therapy with Pamela for 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and adhd
I feel very comfortable working with Pamela Goucher!
Written on Dec 27, 2021 after therapy with Pamela for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and self esteem
Pamela Goucher has been extremely supportive and patient. She's given me extra momentum to schedule further appointments despite my resistance. 5 stars all the way
Written on Nov 29, 2021 after therapy with Pamela for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, depression, and self esteem
I really appreciate how easy it is to speak to her about what is on my mind and she is a great listener. Also she has lots of insight on what I am experiencing and feeling.
Written on Nov 23, 2021 after therapy with Pamela for 9 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and family conflicts
She is truly a Godsend. Pam has a great memory and really cares because she is able to follow very complicated situations and discussions. She can weed through all of the conversations and really understand what’s going on. She’s so empathetic and is able to clearly communicate what’s going on and what to do. I am so thankful I got matched with Pam! She’s doing Heaven’s work.
Written on Nov 08, 2021 after therapy with Pamela for 7 months on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, and anger management
Pamela is absolutely amazing, she has sincerely helped me and is always supportive. One of the best decisions I’ve made was to join Better Help, and I’m so happy and blessed Pamela is my counselor.
Written on Sep 05, 2021 after therapy with Pamela for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, self esteem, and anger management
I feel like I’m taken care of in the best way possible! Pam listens to my concerns and helps me work through things.
Written on Aug 12, 2021 after therapy with Pamela for 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Pamela is great! I am back after not having seen her and I definitely missed having our sessions! She is a great listener and will give you advice that I'd pertinent to your situation, not just generalized information.
Written on Aug 05, 2021 after therapy with Pamela for 1 year and 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, self esteem, and coping with life changes
A mental health Ninja. End of. BPD, PTSD, and a number of you there issues I'm trying to work through. Pam listens, and when she is ASKED (I wish I could underline that!!!) Gives solid advice. Incredible lady. Eve no better Therapist.
Written on Jul 27, 2021 after therapy with Pamela for 1 year on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, self esteem, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
She really cares about her clients.
Written on Jun 23, 2021 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, anger management, and compassion fatigue
She was so patient with me until I was ready to really work on my issues. She never pressured me in any way.
Written on Apr 20, 2021 after therapy with Pamela for 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Pamela has saved me in more ways than I can describe & grateful doesn’t even begin to explain how I feel about her counseling, she’s changed my life.
Written on Feb 25, 2021 after therapy with Pamela for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, and adhd
She’s been a great deal of help with helping me cope from stress management, to children and many aspects of life.
Written on Jan 12, 2021 after therapy with Pamela for 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
She is amazing, helpful, and insightful.
Written on Nov 30, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Although I’ve only had a few short sessions with Pamela, she has really taught me a lot about my own mindfulness. She is encouraging, helpful, a good listener, and supportive. She makes you feel understood even if you don’t understand yourself.
I am definitely continuing with Pamela for many more sessions.
Written on Nov 29, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Pamela is by far the best therapist i’ve had, she’s sweet and makes me feel like she really is listening to what i have to say. My mental health has gotten better since signing up for betterhelp and i owe it to Pamela!!
Written on Nov 23, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, and self esteem
She’s very professional but she helps me in a way that’s designed for me. Not like a standard counselor who just says things without reading into you. I’m glad I’ve met her.
Written on Sep 27, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 6 months on issues concerning depression, and stress, anxiety
Pam helped me and my wife strengthen our relationship, both in terms of romance & communication. She listens and understands without laying judgement.
Written on Sep 09, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 5 months on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem
Pamela is amazing. She has helped me discover so much about myself and my family and friends that I was unable to uncover on my own. I would recommend her to anyone, and I've recommended betterhelp to a handful of people based on my experiences so far with Pamela.
Written on Jul 24, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, family conflicts, self esteem, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
I would recommend Ms. Goucher to anyone in need of a compassionate/friendly ear. I have every confidence she’s has the expertise and empathy needed in order to help me succeed in my mental health journey.
Written on Jul 19, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and coping with life changes
I was nervous about finding a new person to talk to, as I have had therapists I did not mesh well with in the past. I am very thankful I was matched with Mrs Pam. She is kind, easy to talk to, and I look forward to our future sessions!
Written on Jul 09, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, grief, anger management, and coping with life changes
She's great!
Written on Jun 29, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 3 months on issues concerning relationship issues, trauma and abuse, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, and adhd
Pamela is very caring, understanding, patient and helpful. Thank you for all you do.
Written on Jun 23, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and compassion fatigue
Pamela has been very good in our session. I truly appreciate her voice in my situations.
Written on Jun 02, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, grief, and self esteem
She has helped me think more positively and keep me focused!
Written on Jun 02, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem
Ms Pam has been incredible for my family! She is helping us navigate through some very difficult waters. I trust her expertise and appreciate her empathy for our situation and how well she juggles all of it at one time.
Written on May 26, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and adhd
Pamela is extremely insightful and really makes me feel seen and heard. Thank you Pamela!
Written on May 21, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and career difficulties
I absolutely adore Pamela! We just had our second session. She is easy to talk to, very nonjudgmental, and it helps to have someone other than my friends or family to speak to!!
Written on Apr 08, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 1 week on issues concerning relationship issues, and adhd
Pamela has been extremely insightful to my needs and situation. She’s also very kind and courteous. She’s available anytime I need.
Written on Apr 08, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and anger management
Best choice I’ve made.
Written on Apr 03, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, and coping with life changes
Through the two sessions I have had with Ms. Goucher, I have come to find that I am supported in the fight of my depression. It has helped me considerably as we all enter this time of crisis in the United States. I have been known to absorb tension in my family and a lot of this problem has increased my anxiety and my depression. Ms. Goucher has listened to me through all of it and I am in a much better place because of it.
Written on Apr 02, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and compassion fatigue
I have been working with her for a few weeks now and I always feel validated and supported. She’s calm and understanding. I don’t feel like a client when I’m talking to her. She makes me feel like a human being. She is incredible and I highly recommend her for anyone looking for support and guidance.
Written on Mar 31, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd
Pamela has been wonderful! She is repspobsicw and knowledgeable about my situation and provides helpful tips, worksheets and processes. I have felt extremely comfortable speaking with her about all aspects of life. I am extremely grateful for her at this time in my life!
Written on Mar 29, 2020 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, and anger management
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