Pat (Patricia) Sumlin, LMFT

Pat and I started doing therapy when I was at the darkest period of my life so far. I felt lost, alone and like I was losing my sanity. Her patience, extensive knowledge, kindness, warmth, and expertise have all opened the gateway to a better life for me. Thanks to her guidance I come to a better understanding of my mind, history, and goals every day. I would recommend Pat to anybody who feels like their trauma history is blocking them from getting to where they truly need to be.

Written on Mar 04, 2023 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 7 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, eating disorders, self esteem, bipolar disorder, and adhd

I have only had a few interactions with Pat, but in this short amount of time I already feel like she gets me. She is really good at keeping you engaged and going down the rabbit hole as long as you can emotionally handle it. She has good boundaries and enforces them lovingly. She has a lot of experience with EMDR therapy and she thinks that it will help me immensely. I am looking forward to therapy with her and as anyone knows, if you are really doing the work, it is HARD to look forward to it!! I have already gained insight into my behaviors in just 3 sessions. I really hope that we can achieve many breakthroughs together. Thanks Pat!

Written on Feb 16, 2023 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and

Pat has been able to help me get on the right path of recovery from years of trauma I suppressed. She’s super understanding, patient, and brings to light what was unknowingly affecting me. Which has been a welcoming eye opener for me. 1000% recommend Pat.

Written on Nov 01, 2022 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes

Pat is very knowledgeable and has a great deal of expertise. She listens and understands and makes me think of things in new ways to understand them.

Written on Oct 28, 2022 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, grief, and eating disorders

Pat has given me hope.

Written on Sep 30, 2022 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 month on issues concerning addictions, and bipolar disorder

Pat is endlessly supportive and full of great knowledge! A breath of fresh air.

Written on Aug 01, 2022 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd

I love Pat. She is so helpful, insightful, and experienced.

Written on Jun 07, 2022 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 5 months on issues concerning self esteem, trauma and abuse, adhd, and bipolar disorder

Pat was wonderful in helping me deal with the complicated feelings I had after the loss of my mother. I would highly recommend her to anyone who is a child of abuse, neglect, or addiction

Written on Apr 15, 2022 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 year and 11 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, grief, parenting issues, self esteem, and career difficulties

I started therapy very nervous cause I had never done it before and Pat immediately made me feel very comfortable and never made me feel bad or like I was being judged. She is very straightforward which I like and helped me so much. Could not recommend her enough!!

Written on Apr 14, 2022 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 9 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, and self esteem

I’m truly looking forward to connecting with Pat again. She was so insightful before. She grasps your situation really well and offers such good advice. Ready for some Change here!

Written on Dec 06, 2021 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 6 years and 8 months on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and career difficulties

Pat is phenomenal. It is clear she has a lot of experience with many different personalities and life situations. She listens attentively and without judgement, offering insight and asking the right probing questions to dig deeper. I’ve only had two sessions with her so far and already feel a change happening. I look forward to our sessions and feel that I will continue working with Pat for a long time.

Written on Nov 14, 2021 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning addictions, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and anger management

I appreciate her time and experience

Written on Nov 11, 2021 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and coaching

Pat learned me quickly. This is actually the second time I have been in counseling with her. This time she really has made a difference about how I think and feel about myself. She’s not judgemental about anything I have told her and she tells me about things that will help.

Written on Oct 11, 2021 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 6 years and 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, and adhd

She listens and is compassionate

Written on Oct 08, 2021 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem

Pat is an outstanding counselor who pushes me to do the work. She is straightforward and direct and her style works well for me. She gives me homework, reading and tools. She has helped me a lot.

Written on Jun 20, 2021 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 year and 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, self esteem, and adhd

Pat is a kind and caring human with an adept ear for listening to problems, successes, and everything else you may encounter. I appreciate her ability to pick up on tones and ask more about the things that lead to the main issue especially things we are so conditioned to just accepting. Pat makes for a great sounding board, teacher, friend, and most of all a great therapist. I enjoy each session with her and look forward to the next. She offers self improvement gently and with steady progress which is always appreciated.

Written on Apr 20, 2021 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and coaching

Pat is a good listener and gives excellent advise. She tells it like it is which is refreshing. We always have good dialog even on days where I think I don't have much to discuss. She has a way of making you think about things differently which really opens you up for conversation. I enjoy and look forward to my sessions with Pat.

Written on Mar 12, 2021 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 months on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, career difficulties, and adhd

Pat has been wonderful to work with. She is emotionally supportive, empathetic, reliable, very knowledgeable, and also gives great practical ideas. I highly recommend working with Pat.

Written on Feb 16, 2021 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, and compassion fatigue

A highly trained professional who doesn’t wander around the subject but gets to the heart of the issue respectfully, supportively, and quickly

Written on Feb 12, 2021 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 7 months on issues concerning relationship issues, and coping with life changes

I could use many words to describe my experience so far with Pat. But instead, I’ll use a few words to describe how in just one week I began to think of myself differently. I came to Pat with a complicated issue with nonsensical variables that persisted through long, sleepless nights. I told Pat “ I just want sleep” She responded quickly with a precise and well-guided analysis that propagated positive thinking. I have slept. I am pursuing myself and re-establishing the bond between mind and body. I still have work to do but I trust Pat to help me get there. Thank you, Pat.

Written on Feb 04, 2021 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, career difficulties, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd

Pat is the therapist I’ve been looking for since I first began therapy 10 years ago. I’ve had several different therapists but it wasn’t until I met Pat that I was truly able to connect with my therapist and receive the help I need. She has a gentleness about her while being very knowledgeable in regards to things I need to work on and she speaks to me in a way that lets me know she understands me.

Written on Jan 09, 2021 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 7 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, and self esteem

Pat is wonderful and provides a non judgemental experience that works well with my personality. She is a wealth of knowledge and provides a perfect balance of compassion with "tell it to me straight"

Written on Dec 04, 2020 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and intimacy-related issues

Pat has helped me more in the months that I have been working with her than other therapists have helped me in years. She is knowledgeable, empathetic, and nonjudgmental. I appreciate everything she is doing to help me!

Written on Nov 12, 2020 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 9 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, sleeping disorders, and self esteem

Pat is amazing, I have been receiving therapy from her for a while now and I must say, she is very respectful, validates me but also helps me take responsibility for my actions and learn from them. I truly trust her as my therapist and the progress I have made is incredible and I am truly becoming my own independent person with her help. I would definitely recommend her to everyone she is great!

Written on Nov 10, 2020 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 year and 11 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and compassion fatigue

Pat is wonderful! She listens and is completely honest with you, but in the best way possible. She has helped me so much in the past few months.

Written on Oct 09, 2020 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, career difficulties, and coping with life changes

Informational and supportive.

Written on Oct 03, 2020 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, eating disorders, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd

Amazingly supportive. I appreciated every word. If I had more money I would keep going

Written on Sep 26, 2020 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, eating disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, and compassion fatigue

I can tell that Pat takes a very personalized approach to each person she meets, and her experience and expertise are evident in the way she communicates. In a few weeks alone, Pat has been able to provide me with thought-provoking tools and exercises that have already proven to be useful in my everyday life. I would, and do, recommend her to anyone in need of some extra support or who possesses the desire to improve their lives.

Written on Jul 26, 2020 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and intimacy-related issues

Pat seems great so far. I look forward to working with her more.

Written on May 07, 2020 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, bipolar disorder, and adhd

She is easy to talk to and is able to offer appropriate recommendations related to therapy and treatment.

Written on Apr 22, 2020 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 5 years

Pat is a professional, who's courteous and direct. That view point is refreshing and reassuring in a world were people are too scared to be upfront with you about what the problems or solutions to the problems might be.

Written on Mar 18, 2020 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, grief, self esteem, career difficulties, and coaching

In the past couple months, Pat has helped me get closer to self-love and acceptance quicker than any other therapist I've had in the past! Her kind but direct approach helped me focus on moving forward and improving....something I had struggled with for years in various parts of my life. I'm so grateful to have her as my therapist.

Written on Nov 13, 2019 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 4 years and 6 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, anger management, and depression

I can't recommend Pat enough. She is extremely intelligent and tells it like it is. If you are looking for someone to be direct and help you with whatever it is you are going through then I would immediately sign up with Pat so that she can assist you in guiding your uncharted waters.

Written on Oct 15, 2019 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, parenting issues, and anger management

Pat is kind, caring, and there for me during tough times. All I could ever ask for!

Written on Oct 09, 2019 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, anger management, and adhd

Pat has been consistently excellent at intuiting the next step to take in my therapeutic journey and has given me much needed perspective and motivation. I look forward to working with her long term.

Written on Sep 17, 2019 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 4 months

Pat is a great, very intuitive LMFT. Very diverse background and is attuned to things I don't even pick up!

Written on Aug 01, 2019 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning addictions, and lgbt

Pat has been instrumental in my journey of self reflection and growth. I can't say with any confidence that I'd be this stable without her input.

Written on May 26, 2019 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 months

Pat is great. Her powerful questions always make me go deeper into what drives me. Thank you.

Written on May 14, 2019 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, and career difficulties

Done therapy in person a half dozen times over the course of my life. Conversations are very here/now based and I felt very limited by how organized I could get my mind. Being heard/understood was an issue and very dependent on the personality of the therapist.
Being able to write out my thoughts, consider them and edit them until they are true has been a shockingly good experience. Pat is sensitive to my anxieties and takes the time to go through my posts line by line sharing her opinions/experiences and offering resources for further reading on the topics.
I have realized things about myself, my habits and my relationships that I would have never even considered as a middle aged father. She made sure I felt accepted and heard, working me through my own thoughts and problems instead of trying to get me to fit some kind of mold.
The platform/accessibility giving constant ability to voice problems and anxieties in conjunction with caring therapists like Pat have opened up legitimate therapy options for me at a price I can actually afford.

Written on Feb 27, 2019 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, coaching, and compassion fatigue

Pat is very compassionate and offers great suggestions for my current issues.

Written on Jan 22, 2019 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, grief, and sleeping disorders

Pat helped me through a very difficult time with the ending of an abusive marriage. She helped me to not only cope with the separation, but also provided the tools and guidance so that I could move on from the situation and avoid a similar one in the future. I am forever grateful for Pat's expert guidance!

Written on Dec 27, 2018 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 11 months on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and intimacy-related issues

I feel very heard by Pat. We talk about a lot and she gives me tools and resources to help me recognize when I am doing something in my own reality. This has helped me significantly by detecting triggers or being self aware of my reoccurring issues. I highly recommend anyone who suffers from binge eating, and low self-esteem to work with Pat. She has a wide array of knowledge and shares her own experience which helps you to not feel alone.

Written on Dec 05, 2018 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, and self esteem

I have been working with Pat for about a month now. I admire her approach on presenting insight into my anxiety and certain behaviors I exhibit. Her forward and understanding approach has helped me to understand the inner workings of my thought process. She has helped me with navigating situations in my everyday life and opened my eyes to new approaches. She is a great match for me.

Written on Nov 30, 2018 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and career difficulties

I love working with Pat! She explains why I do certain things and ways to cope with it! I have finally realized why I struggle with my family so much. This has helped with personal development. Thank you!

Written on Jun 04, 2018 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 8 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, family, self esteem, and depression

I am glad I signed up for this site. I am really happy with my counselor! She is wonderful. She is understanding, patient and has the experience I need to grow though my issues and become a better me. Thanks!

Written on May 31, 2018 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 years and 8 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, self esteem, career, bipolar, and depression

I have been to many counselors over the years. I did not know how effective a counselor can be until I started working with Pat. She helped me immensely beginning with my first session. Working with Pat has been life changing.

Written on Apr 16, 2018 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, grief, self esteem, and career

I have already made so much progress in my life with your help, Pat. Thanks for all the good you do, you are so important to this world I can imagine all the other people you have helped as well. I trust you more than anyone, I aim to be more like you.

Written on Feb 25, 2018 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 9 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship, family, and self esteem

Pat seems to have ability to know just when to contact me, and she is very insightful in assisting me towards a better happier me. She is amazing.

Written on Jan 30, 2018 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 year and 7 months on issues concerning relationship, family, trauma and abuse, grief, and anger

Wow! I was nervous going into this, but not only is BetterHelp’s asynchronous therapy a game changer, but if you can get matched with Pat Sumlin, you have won the lottery. Her responses are so thoughtful, so astute, and so empathetic. She pours herself into every message so you feel heard, challenged, and strengthened in turns. She’s much more than I had hoped for. I’m so grateful to have found her.

Written on Jan 30, 2018 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning addictions, relationship, family, intimacy-related, self esteem, career, and bipolar

Pat has been wonderful. I feel like she really listens to what I’m saying and is able to truly understand where I’m coming from. She has offered great insight on some very difficult situations in my life and has provided me with tools to face them. She always responds thoroughly and timely as well! I would highly recommend her!

Written on Jan 23, 2018 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 years on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, family, intimacy-related, eating, self esteem, and depression

Pat has been wonderful in helping me to get to the next step in life. She has helped me to understand how my past has affected me and how to overcome it. She has given me tools to guide my inner dialogue to a more positive speech. I am grateful for all her help.

Written on Jan 20, 2018 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 years and 4 months

Pat is wonderful! I have been working with her for only a couple of weeks but she is amazing.

Written on Nov 16, 2017 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, and self esteem

Pat is wonderful. She is proactive immediately. She got me busy right from the start. She is very knowledgeable and explained me better than I could. I trust her and I believe in her. I've never had this good of a counselor from the moment we were connected. Thank you!!

Written on Oct 23, 2017 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship, family, grief, self esteem, and anger

I've been working with Pat for a while now, and she has helped me so much with all my anxiety and depression issues. She is really caring and I would recommend her to anyone seeking help.

Written on Sep 14, 2017 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship, sleeping, and self esteem

Pat is absolutely amazing! I have tried a lot of different counseling and talking and working through things with Pat, by far, has been most successful for me. I feel as though she definitely cares about me and my mental health struggles and that is exactly what I need right now. I cannot recommend her enough! Thank you for everything, Pat.

Written on Jul 31, 2017 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, trauma and abuse, self esteem, anger, career, and bipolar

Pat has helped me over an emotional hurdle that I never thought I could conquer. She listens to me, and she understands what works for me and what doesn't, and she respects that. I feel validated, and respected for the first time in pretty much a lifetime, and it is an incredible feeling. I would wholeheartedly recommend Pat to ANYONE who is struggling as her empathy and sympathy seems to know no bounds.

Written on Jun 22, 2017 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 years and 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, family, grief, intimacy-related, self esteem, and depression

Pat gives me what I need to understand myself and what is going on with me and a lot more. Healing started when I felt deeply touched by her care and understanding. Thank you, Pat!

Written on May 04, 2017 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 weeks

Pat has been wonderful!! She responds very quickly usually, and her insight has been priceless.

Written on Apr 12, 2017 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 10 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, grief, intimacy-related, sleeping, self esteem, career, bipolar, and depression

Pat is always there for me, full of support and kind, encouraging words. I have learned so much about myself, my marriage and my relationships with others. This site and Pat have been a huge positive addition to my life!

Written on Mar 25, 2017 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 year and 6 months on issues concerning relationship, family, intimacy-related, and parenting

I like Pat alot. She is direct and to the point yet compassionate and caring at the same time. I like her approach and how responsive she is to my concerns and needs.I appreciate the time she dedicates to my mental health and well being. I look forward to continuing therapy with her.

Written on Mar 03, 2017 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, family, trauma and abuse, self esteem, anger, bipolar, and depression

Pat was WONDERFUL when I needed help a couple of years ago. She helped me deal with emotional abuse and find ways to protect myself and move on with my life. I am so happy to be back in touch with her now that I need help again.

Written on Feb 14, 2017 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 year and 11 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, family, grief, intimacy-related, self esteem, and depression

Pat is truly amazing. Her straightforward approach has really helped break down the complex things that I feel and issues that I have. She puts things in terms I can understand and research to gain a better understanding of the what and why I am thinking and feeling certain things. Thank you Pat!

Written on Jan 31, 2017 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship, family, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related, and self esteem

Wonderful counselor - - unique approach which helps you uncover the reasons that are holding you back and provides the tools needed to move forward in a positive direction.

Written on Sep 03, 2016 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 10 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, family, parenting, self esteem, and depression

I feel like Pat is really good fit for me personally. Her background is with a lot of the issues I struggle with, so I felt that someone really took time to match me with the right therapist.
I really feel heard, and her input has been very insightful and wise.
Although we are really just barely starting out, I feel as if her support is allowing me to understand myself a bit better. I'm very optimistic about this approach.

Written on Jun 20, 2016 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 week on issues concerning stress, anxiety, lgbt, family, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related, sleeping, self esteem, and depression

Pat has been very helpful and encouraging.

Written on Jun 12, 2016 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 year on issues concerning stress, anxiety, lgbt, family, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related, self esteem, anger, and depression

Pat has been an amazing support and wealth of knowledge. I look forward to continuing to work with her.

Written on Jun 09, 2016 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 6 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship, family, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related, parenting, self esteem, and depression

Pat has been great! She's supportive but not pushy or impatient like some other office visits seem and has great resources to share and helped me dig deeper to see things even I hadn't noticed about myself.

Written on Jun 03, 2016 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 4 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and depression

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Written on Jun 01, 2016 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, relationship, family, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related, self esteem, bipolar, and depression

Pat has lots of good resources and information. She's been a good resource in my opinion.

Written on May 03, 2016 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 weeks

Pat is great. She is caring, concerned, helps you look at the situation objectively, and is a great listener.

Written on Apr 03, 2016 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship, family, self esteem, career, and depression

Pat has a great way of drilling down to the issue at hand, which I very much appreciate.

Written on Feb 20, 2016 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 months on issues concerning relationship, family, grief, and parenting

Easy to talk to. Great follow up questions. Clearly engaged with me and my issues.

Written on Feb 12, 2016 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 4 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, lgbt, family, parenting, and depression

I was honestly scared of the thought of therapy. I just decided one day to take the leap and that is how I met Pat.
She listens, provides helpful feedback. She make me feel comfortable
She has made this a positive experience and I have not had a lot of them lately. She had made me glad I took this leap.
Thank you.

Written on Feb 01, 2016 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 month

Very interactive, which I need. I need my questions answered, not pandered to, and she does that. I get proactive coping tips from her, and genuine concern. Also great if you have a family history of hoarding and/or abuse, or if you are dealing with being a caregiver of someone with special needs, because she is knowledgeable about all of those topics.

Written on Dec 02, 2015 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 7 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, family, trauma and abuse, and self esteem

Pat does a great job reading between the lines to understanding my issues. She gives me good suggestions and honest feedback that is making it easier for me to deal with the issues I am facing. She is easy to write to and her responses are thoughtful, warm and caring.

Written on Oct 18, 2015 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 year and 8 months

Pat is a very kind, helpful individual with a lot of insight into what is going on in my life. Thanks Pat.

Written on Oct 17, 2015 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 weeks

Pat is spot on. She knows EXACTLY what you mean, she can give definition to all of your "I don't understand at all" or "I don't understand WHY". There is apparently a reason and an explanation for everything! My life just makes so much more sense (I am liberated on many levels!) once she starts breaking down into my "issues". I learnt a great deal about myself, how my past affects me and my actions, behaviour, and how I can deal with myself in just few months. I will never quit talking to Pat.

Written on Sep 04, 2015 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 6 months on issues concerning relationship, trauma and abuse, sleeping, and anger

Pat Sumlin is a wonderful and knowledgeable counselor. I love her direct style of communication. I have learned a lot about myself in a short period of time.

Written on Aug 27, 2015 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 8 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, self esteem, and depression

I have only had a few sessions with Pat Sumlin and she has done more for me, in this short amount time, then any therapist has even done. Honestly, I think she is brilliant as a counselor.

Written on Aug 21, 2015 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, relationship, grief, and depression

Amazing!!!!! Simple as that.

Written on Aug 19, 2015 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 4 months

Pat Sumlin is insightful, perceptive, and direct. She has given me much to consider in a supportive and relatable context. I'm thankful to have been matched up with such a professional and experienced counselor.

Written on Aug 05, 2015 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 4 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, family, trauma and abuse, eating, parenting, self esteem, bipolar, and depression

Pat has really been there for me when I am not sure how to process what I'm feeling.

Written on Jun 21, 2015 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, family, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related, parenting, self esteem, anger, and depression

Pat has given me many ideas of why I'm in a difficult time of my life. I like her nonsense and straight to the point help.

Written on Jun 19, 2015 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 year

This past 6 months Pat Sumlin has helped me get through some of the most difficult times in my life. I'm talking not only with a very professional therapist but a friend. It is very easy speaking with her and I anticipate her response. It is always helpful and soothing. She is the best.

Written on Jun 11, 2015 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 6 months on issues concerning relationship

Beautiful person, warm, insightful professional. She helped me get through a very difficult place, like an anchor to where I could function better and get back out there. I have a ways to go but its a good start. I like her approach and in many ways shes spot on and understanding, even with some of the deeper topics. I felt supported and validated. Sometimes like having things repeated back for reflection, snd proffessional advice..but also like that she will also open up with you. That sense of humanity is there, which is sometimes better than any advice and Im glad to have found a counselor like that. Love that its online. Highly recommended

Written on May 24, 2015 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, family, parenting, self esteem, and depression

Pat is awesome. She makes you feel comfortable to share with her. No pushy approach. Allows you to work through things at your pace with just enough words help. She does not allow you to be unkind to yourself and realize that you need to love yourself and be kind to yourself because you are worth it. I would highly recommend Pat 100%.

Written on May 13, 2015 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship, and family

Pat is compassionate, kind, and incredibly honest. I appreciate her taking the time to help me. She is quick and thorough with her responses, and she has been a huge help to me.

Written on May 07, 2015 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, family, self esteem, career, and depression

Pat has only been working with me a short time, but is already starting to point out better coping methods. She has been brutally honest which is sometimes hard to hear but lots of hand-holding never helped me much.

Written on Mar 18, 2015 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 year and 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family, trauma and abuse, eating, sleeping, parenting, self esteem, and anger

Pat Sumlin and BetterHelp came into my life when I was at my lowest, at a time when I needed them most. At first I was skeptical, who wouldn't be? After the second session I felt as if my new counselor had known me for years. She made it so easy to talk to her and spill my heart out, never once did she make me feel like just another client. I continue to feel cared about, concerned for, and I know she looks out for what is best for me, but with honesty. Not only does she talk with me, but she has helped me over some rough bridges by recommending books, online articles and much more! Getting help through BetterHelp was the best choice I made for myself. BetterHelp choosing Pat Sumlin for me was a blessing.

Written on Mar 06, 2015 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 weeks

Very insightful, to the point counseling. In a very short amount of time so much progress was made, I was stunned. Absolutely love Pat and I would highly recommend her.

Written on Dec 14, 2014 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 month on issues concerning relationship, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and depression

Pat is a great therapist and has made an impact at a crucial time in my life. She's no nonsense, direct, very knowledgeable, understanding, and will lead you in the right direction.

Written on Dec 10, 2014 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related, sleeping, self esteem, and depression

I was connected with Pat within maybe 1 hour of signing on to BetterHelp. From the beginning she has been so responsive and insightful and to the point. I love that. This is my first time trying online therapy and so far I'm really enjoying it. I can write when something is on my mind and I don't have to hold on to it for a week. I love that Pat will get back to me every other day or so and sometimes she will get back to me a few times within the same day. She really takes the time to read through my lengthy emails and she addresses everything I say. Can't do that in face to face therapy! People just talk and major points are addresses but with Pat, she thoroughly addressees everything. I've never felt more challenged and motivated to work on myself - as painful as it can be at times.

Written on Nov 30, 2014 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 year and 11 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, family, and self esteem

I've got a long way to go in my recovery, but in just a few weeks I have more insight into my own mind than I've had in my entire life, despite being in and out of therapy since I was young. Not only is Pat knowledgable, encouraging, and easy to talk to, she has already given me many tools and terms to research and study so I can finally start to understand and manage effectively. I'm hopeful and optimistic that with her help I am on the right track.

Written on Nov 24, 2014 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, trauma and abuse, self esteem, anger, bipolar, and depression

Pat is somehow always on the same level I am. She was able to make me feel assured in myself and how I feel. The information and support she has given me in our short time together has been priceless.

Written on Nov 12, 2014 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 year and 8 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and depression

I absolutely love Pat Sumlin! She has helped me learn so much about myself. I was in a terrible place, and she has helped pull me out of the dark and back into the light. I will forever be grateful!

Written on Nov 12, 2014 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, family, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, career, bipolar, and depression

Pat is a great counselor, she really helped point out the isssues I wanted to work on, and how to better manage my problems in a way that I understood and could easily apply without having to change who I am. She is patient, understanding, and open, making her very easy to talk to. She has a lot of very useful knowledge and tips for self awareness and improvement. I would highly recommend her.

Written on Nov 02, 2014 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 4 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship, intimacy-related, eating, self esteem, anger, and depression

Pat was a lifeline when I desperately needed one. She has guided me with sensitivity and wisdom, and helped me to learn things about myself, so that I can begin to heal and live positively again. I came to her with no hope and I am now certain that I can move forward into a happier and healthier life.

Written on Oct 28, 2014 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, self esteem, anger, career, and depression

Pat is extremely helpful, caring and insightful, yet she won't let you get away with things.
I am finding out things about myself that I need to know and how to fix them in a positive way, with excellent guidance. She recommends books and websites to assist you in your journey to happiness!

Written on Oct 21, 2014 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 year and 8 months on issues concerning relationship, family, trauma and abuse, grief, and anger

Pat Sumlin has been extremely helpful, and has provided me not only with tons of information that I can look into on my own time, but also unbiased wisdom. Her responses are quick and her advice is really good. I feel very comfortable telling her anything, and I always feel better after reading her responses. I am so glad that I signed up and was assigned such an amazing counselor. I am very pleased, and hope to continue working with her and bettering myself as a person.

Written on Oct 20, 2014 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 months on issues concerning relationship, family, parenting, and self esteem

Pat Sumlin creates a very safe environment for me to express what I need to express so that she is better able to offer help or guidance. She seems to really be able to get to the core of what I need to focus on when I seem to go all over the place with my thoughts. I am so grateful for this online service as it fits perfectly with my active lifestyle and meets a need that I have had for quite some time now. I feel that Pat Sumlin is the perfect counselor for me and I look forward to continued progress towards my goals of personal growth and healing with her guidance!

Written on Oct 10, 2014 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and depression

Miss Sumlin is so helpful and willing to share her knowledge while letting you explore yourself at your own pace.

Written on Sep 23, 2014 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and depression

Mrs. Pat is amazing. Her advice is spot on, and is very helpful. I always enjoy reading her messages, as she is easy to understand, and very knowledgeable.

Thank you!!!

Written on Mar 21, 2014 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 month

Pat Sumlin (LMFT) is honest, understanding, and always professional. I am grateful for the opportunity I have had to work with her on varying issues. I would highly recommend her.

Written on Feb 21, 2014 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 3 months

Pat's calmness, warmth and humor are a tremendous help when problems seem about to overwhelm me. I think she would be a wonderful therapist for clients of any age, and for me a 52 year old trying online therapy for the first time, she was just the person I needed to talk to.

Written on Dec 15, 2013 after therapy with Pat (Patricia) for 1 month