I am a licensed therapist in the UK associated with the BACP 00930305 with four years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients cope with a wide range of challenges & issues. I believe that you are the expert on yourself and have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming your challenge.
I have a decade's worth of experience working within mental health services, from autism/additional needs, addictions, and youth work to social care, most recently, within the NHS, based within a community mental health service, and running my private practice here in the UK.
My therapy style is warm and interactive. I believe in treating anyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. My approach combines cognitive-behavioural, humanistic, psychodynamic and person-centred therapy. I will tailor our sessions and treatment plan to meet your unique and specific needs.
It takes courage to seek a more fulfilling and happier life and to bring the first steps towards change. I am here to support and empower you if you are ready to take that step.
Additional areas of focus:Family conflicts, Grief, Intimacy-related issues, Eating disorders, Parenting issues, Anger management, Self esteem, Career difficulties, Bipolar disorder, Coping with life changes, Coaching, Abandonment, Adoption and foster care, Aging and geriatric issues, Antisocial personality, Attachment issues, Autism and Asperger Syndrome, Avoidant personality, BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture, Blended family issues, Body image, Cancer, Caregiver issues and stress, Chronic pain, illness, and disability, Co-morbidity, Codependency, Commitment issues, Communication problems, Control issues, Coping with natural or human-caused disaster, Dependent personality, Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD), Dissociation, Divorce and separation, Domestic violence, Drug and alcohol addiction, Eating and food-related issues, Emptiness, Family of origin issues, Family problems, Fatherhood issues, Fertility issues, First responder issues, Forgiveness, Gender dysphoria, Guilt and shame, Hoarding, Hospice and end-of-life counseling, Immigration issues, Impulsivity, Infidelity, Isolation / loneliness, Jealousy, Life purpose, Men's issues, Midlife crisis, Veteran and Armed Forces Issues, Money and financial issues, Mood disorders, Narcissism, Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Paranoia, Personality disorders, Phobias, Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships, Post-traumatic stress, Pregnancy and childbirth, Prejudice and discrimination, Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling), Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), Self-harm, Self-love, Sex addiction, Sexual assault and abuse, Sexual dysfunction, Sexuality, Smoking / vaping cessation, Social anxiety and phobia, Women's issues, Workplace issues, Young adult issues
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Paul Linger. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.
Ive had a lot of therapists and Paul is the best for me!
Written on Jul 11, 2025 after therapy with Paul for 1 year and 9 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, and bipolar disorder
Very considerate. Although I am quite a bit older than him I thoroughly appreciate his poimt of view of life. I look forward each week to talk to him.
Written on Jun 27, 2025 after therapy with Paul for 1 year and 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, eating disorders, self esteem, and career difficulties
He’s been fantastic. Great listener. Always wanting to help
Written on Jun 25, 2025 after therapy with Paul for 4 weeks on issues concerning addictions, and relationship issues
Paul is just so down to earth and gentle in the way he helps me, to the point he’s literally like a mirror to see things for myself in my own time and the best part is he does it naturally, could literally not have a better therapist, he’s one of a kind in the way he conducts himself
Written on Jun 17, 2025 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, and self esteem
I was very anxious about therapy but Paul made me feel calm and safe within the first session. I couldn't recommend him any higher, he has help me understand myself more than I thought possible and because of him I am still in employment.
Written on Jun 13, 2025 after therapy with Paul for 10 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and self esteem
Paul is great!
Written on Apr 15, 2025 after therapy with Paul for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues
I am So grateful I have Paul as my therapist. It is very easy to talk to Paul, about very difficult issues. He is like a professional friend. He gets it! He knows when to listen, and when to talk. He understands. He is empathetic, practical, intuitive and real. He gets the balance right. Thankyou Paul. You are doing a great job to help me.
Written on Apr 08, 2025 after therapy with Paul for 1 month on issues concerning addictions
Great listener. Has great questions. Offers great directions.
Written on Nov 11, 2024 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, and anger management
Paul has been fantastic. He really listens, highlights areas to reflect on and explains things in a very professional yet friendly manner. He’s been the best therapist I’ve had and would highly recommend him.
Written on Nov 08, 2024 after therapy with Paul for 4 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues
He's a great listener, has good insights and really makes you reflect in ways you didn't do yourself yet. You can tell you're making progress with every session.
Written on Oct 14, 2024 after therapy with Paul for 5 months on issues concerning addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, and self esteem
Like talking to a good friend
Written on Sep 20, 2024 after therapy with Paul for 9 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and grief
Paul has spoken to me both over text and love video chatting. He’s great at listening and understanding all perspectives. On top of that, he gives you the best advice possible - if you get Paul you’re insanely lucky !
Written on Apr 29, 2024 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and self esteem
Paul is a great listener and has helped me with some underlying issues he also helps with alternatives to dealing with issues
Written on Mar 04, 2024 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and addictions
Paul has been very understanding and encouraging, with the right blend of listening and advising. Very impressed so far!
Written on Jul 26, 2023 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, and coping with life changes
I have been seeing Paul for a bit now and I gotta say, that after talking to him I usually feel a lot better, he helps me manage my anxiety very well and in general it is just lovely to talk to him! Would rate him higher if I could :)
Written on Jun 08, 2023 after therapy with Paul for 6 months on issues concerning trauma and abuse
Paul is easy to talk to and makes me feel very comfortable in an uncomfortable environment of sharing things you don’t find easy. Cant be better than that really
Written on May 16, 2023 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd
Very profesional and knowledgeable.
Recommending Paul as a great therapist!
Written on Apr 07, 2023 after therapy with Paul for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, and career difficulties
Working with Paul was great. I would really recommend him to everyone.
Written on Jan 30, 2023 after therapy with Paul for 4 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues
10/10 would recommend, thanks Paul!
Written on Jan 25, 2023 after therapy with Paul for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Good listener and easy to talk to. Light-hearted and down to earth person that is able to guide you through thoughts and ideas in a supportive way without letting you stray from the progress/trajectory you're on.
Written on Nov 21, 2022 after therapy with Paul for 4 weeks on issues concerning depression, self esteem, career difficulties, and coaching
He makes me feel understood. I don't have to worry about being judged when sharing with him. I enjoy our sessions and always feel better after. I am very confident in his experience.
Written on Oct 19, 2022 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and adhd
Paul made me feel at ease straight away and was great with this being my first time having therapy! Knows his stuff and I look forward to more sessions with him to help work through my concerns.
Written on Sep 29, 2022 after therapy with Paul for 1 month on issues concerning depression, and anger management
Paul is an attentive person who listens well and draws out a different frame of mind when needed. He is always on time and puts you at ease from the start of a conversation and always leaves you feeling better than when you entered the room.
Written on Sep 19, 2022 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, and sleeping disorders
Extremely lovely and understanding. Funny as hell and always helps me though my problems with solid questions ^-^
Written on Sep 15, 2022 after therapy with Paul for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, and adhd
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