I am licensed in Delaware with 7 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with relationship issues, intimacy related issues, anger management, & depression. I work with my clients to create an open and safe environment where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgment. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process.
Professional experience
9 yrs in practice
RelationshipsIntimacyAnger managementDepressionCoping with life changes
Additional areas of focus:Stress, Anxiety, Addictions, Family conflicts, Trauma and abuse, Grief, Parenting issues, Self esteem, Compassion fatigue, ADHD, Abandonment, Adoption and foster care, Aging and geriatric issues, Attachment issues, Autism and Asperger Syndrome, Blended family issues, Caregiver issues and stress, Codependency, Commitment issues, Communication problems, Control issues, Coping with natural or human-caused disaster, Dependent personality, Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD), Divorce and separation, Domestic violence, Emptiness, Family of origin issues, Family problems, Fatherhood issues, Fertility issues, First responder issues, Forgiveness, Guilt and shame, HIV / AIDS, Hoarding, Hospice and end-of-life counseling, Immigration issues, Impulsivity, Infidelity, Intellectual disability, Isolation / loneliness, Jealousy, Life purpose, Men's issues, Midlife crisis, Veteran and Armed Forces Issues, Money and financial issues, Mood disorders, Multicultural concerns, Narcissism, Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Paranoia, Postpartum depression, Post-traumatic stress, Pregnancy and childbirth, Prejudice and discrimination, Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), Self-harm, Self-love, Sexual assault and abuse, Sexual dysfunction, Sexuality, Social anxiety and phobia, Somatization, Workplace issues, Young adult issues
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Written on May 03, 2025 after therapy with Thomas for 2 years and 10 months on issues concerning relationship issues, trauma and abuse, and intimacy-related issues
Thomas is the first therapist I’ve ever worked with, and I couldn’t have asked for a better guide through some tough life challenges and changes. He’s honest, direct, and doesn’t sugarcoat things—but that’s exactly what I needed. He helped me create a solid plan to move forward, and his support has made a real difference in my life. If you’re looking for someone who truly helps you grow, Thomas is the one.
Written on Mar 13, 2025 after therapy with Thomas for 9 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, self esteem, bipolar disorder, and coping with life changes
Awesome therapist. Will get to source of the issue and guide you through it
Written on Jan 28, 2025 after therapy with Thomas for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, anger management, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, and adhd
I’m very very happy with Thomas. He listens to me and tries to see my point of view. Makes me feel like someone actually cares.
Written on Oct 24, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, anger management, coping with life changes, and adhd
He’s very knowledgeable and understanding. He adds some humour and it helps to relax me. Shares personal stories that relate.
Written on Oct 02, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem
Thomas is a great communicator! He listens and asks me questions which helps me think deeper! I feel like I have his full attention and like some one is on my side helping me get better as a person!
Written on Jun 08, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, and anger management
Thomas is always positive and supportive of my needs. I look forward to our sessions and very much value our friendship. He offers perspective and helps me to consider things I hadn't considered before. I would recommend Thomas to anyone seeking psychological support.
Written on May 13, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 1 year and 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Thomas calls it like he sees it. He consistently provides unbiased feedback and will not hesitate to tell you what you need to hear even if it isn’t what you want to hear. Thomas is a kind and supportive therapist and creates an excellent environment for fostering personal growth allowing the client to find their own way through things simply guiding and advising that journey along the way. I cannot recommend him highly enough.
Written on Apr 06, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Thomas is an incredible therapist and helped me work through a number of significant issues in my life. I always appreciate the perspective that Thomas provides and he listens so well. I would not hesitate recomneding Thomas to anyone looking for a therapist and look forward to working with Thomas in the future.
Written on Mar 25, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 7 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, anger management, and coping with life changes
He is amazing at his job!
Written on Jan 25, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 1 year and 8 months on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, and grief
Thomas is experienced, helpful, and kind. I greatly appreciate his ability to help me look at situations from different perspectives. He has helped me transition through multiple challenging moments in my life and has always respected my challenges, no matter how small or large. I hope others have a chance to work with Thomas!
Written on Dec 29, 2023 after therapy with Thomas for 1 year and 5 months on issues concerning relationship issues, and career difficulties
Thomas is fantastic. Hes easy to talk to and a good listener.
Written on Oct 29, 2023 after therapy with Thomas for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, self esteem, and adhd
Thomas is the best therapist I've come across.
Written on Oct 24, 2023 after therapy with Thomas for 1 year and 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and trauma and abuse
Knows how to listen well and he tells me what I need to hear and not what I want to hear, I may not be happy at first when he calls it out but the realization after really helped me out with my life, he tells me things I need to hear and that’s what I need
Written on Oct 07, 2023 after therapy with Thomas for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Thomas is very attentive and professional
Written on Sep 03, 2023 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and adhd
Thomas is Great ! We matched up and I couldn’t be happier .. he listens to me, remembers things from previous sessions and doesn’t talk to my like a robot.. he’s cool down to earth and understands how to talk to me … everyone takes therapy differently and the connection I made with Thomas has helped me and my self care issues immensely! 10/10
Written on Sep 02, 2023 after therapy with Thomas for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Thomas has been quite meticulous in his approach to my counseling. He is attentive and provides pragmatic and readily implementable advice and techniques to my concerns. I am excited to continue working with him to see where I may end up.
Written on Aug 27, 2023 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
I finally found someone who listens and has helped me through some trying times! Very grateful!
Written on Jun 26, 2023 after therapy with Thomas for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, self esteem, anger management, and coping with life changes
Thomas is a great. Guy and is great at both listening and speaking to you and makes a great effort to create an safe environment for you
Written on Jun 25, 2023 after therapy with Thomas for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and compassion fatigue
He is very good at understanding different perspectives and offering great advices
Written on May 16, 2023 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, and self esteem
Great therapist. Very kind and supportive. Very experienced. He makes me feel safe and heard.
Written on May 10, 2023 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, compassion fatigu
Thomas is by far the best therapist I've ever had. He's very understanding, but also saw through the things I would tell myself to convince myself that I was "fine" or that I really wasn't good enough. I am very grateful to have met him and can say that for the first time in years, I am excited about the future.
Written on Mar 02, 2023 after therapy with Thomas for 8 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Thomas Barlee is fantastic at what he does. I wouldn't be where I am without him.
Written on Nov 24, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 4 months on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
A skilled listener in a judgment free zone. He helped me on session one.
Written on Nov 14, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, grief, and adhd
Fantastic therapist, helped me alot and is so caring to my needs!
Written on Oct 26, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and adhd
Thomas is very wise and offers excellent advice. Glad to have him in my corner!
Written on Sep 22, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 3 months on issues concerning self esteem, and adhd
Thomas is getting more and more important for my mental health …
Written on Sep 19, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 3 months on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, and adhd
Thomas Barlee is a dream deliverer. He took my hand through the sorrow and the laughter of life and when the tears had dried, I had beautiful visions I could not have imagined before. He is down to earth and humble. He is warm and willing to get in the trenches with his patients. He helped reveal a side to me that I didn't know existed and he did it from the other side of the planet (I live in Australia). I highly recommend this man for whom I am very grateful.
Written on Sep 08, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 2 months on issues concerning bipolar disorder
I teamed up with Thomas a few months ago, after a breakup completely destroyed my heart. Thomas has been extremely supportive, and helped me get it back together piece by piece.
Thomas also asks me the right questions, so that I come to conclusions I otherwise wouldn't have. Every session with him has been a delight, and I feel like I develop further each and every time.
Written on Sep 06, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 2 months on issues concerning relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, anger management, and compassion fatigue
I think I accidentally pressed strongly disagree on one of the option. Mr. Barely gets 10 out of 10 on all aspects of my meeting.
Written on Aug 16, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, and compassion fatigue
Thomas has been amazing, good at listening, but also knows when to interject questions to lead me exactly where I need to go.
Written on Jul 05, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, and adhd
Thomas Barlee easily and completely understands what I try to explain. He offers realistic and applicable analysis and advice that are consistent with my needs. He uses humor to make our sessions enjoyable as well as helpful. Thomas has been an invaluable and sensitive mirror to reflect back my positive and negative qualities. I feel very optimistic about the progress I will make with Thomas Barlee.
Written on Jun 23, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, and self esteem
Thomas is a gem. He is a balance between grounded logical thinking, understanding, and getting to the source of what the root cause is of what's going on. I personally get caught up so far in my emotions I lose balance and can't see the bigger picture of how or why I'm overwhelmed or stressed. He is able to directly teach me to see the areas in my own life where I'm contradicting my own core values and so naturally a stress response would occur . It's really quite simple when broken down so easily. Lots of aha moments. He has great questions that stop me in my tracks and I have to look deeply within to find the answer of such a introspective question
Written on Jun 12, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, and eating disorders
Very understanding and attentive
Written on May 21, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, and adhd
My first sessions with Thomas have been amazing so far, can’t wait for the rest of my journey with him.
Written on May 16, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
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