I have been helping people achieve their therapeutic goals for over 18 years. Each person is unique, so a one-size-fits-all approach to therapy just won't do. That's why I use an integrative, therapeutic approach which is tailored to the individual and includes: Problem Solving; Structural Techniques; Inter-relational Techniques; Cognitive Techniques; Family-Of-Origin Issues and Individual Developmental Issues.
I have experience working with a variety of issues and I especially enjoy helping people manage their relationships.
You will find me to be friendly and non-judgmental, but firm in my commitment to help you strive towards your goals. Let's work together to get you on a better path so you can live your life more abundantly.
Professional experience
21 yrs in practice
Relationship issues Family conflicts
Additional areas of focus:Stress and anxiety, Trauma and abuse, Coping with grief and loss, Intimacy related issues, Parenting issues, Anger management, Motivation, self esteem, and confidence, Depression, Coping with life changes, Compassion fatigue, Blended family issues, Codependency, Divorce and separation, Family problems, Infidelity, Life purpose, Men's issues, Midlife crisis
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Thomas is very helpful and insightful. I have never benefited from counseling so much!
Written on May 13, 2026 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and bipolar disorder
Very nice and professional person easy to work with my hectic schedule very reassuring when talking to seems to have an answer to almost every problem actually every problem whether it be the answer that I’ve already known myself or just helping me find the answer helps it easier to break down how I’m feeling in certain things from the past that make me feel or do certain things and how to deal with those things that I’ve said done or I feel like are happening
Written on Mar 26, 2026 after therapy with Thomas for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, and adhd
Experienced in life
Written on Sep 25, 2025 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues
Thomas is great. I’ve been working with him for a year now, and he’s been able to help me in so many different areas. My life is very complicated, but he’s able to create a safe space for me no matter the issue, and then offers powerful insight that has helped me address behaviors that have held me back until I met him.
Written on Sep 22, 2025 after therapy with Thomas for 1 year and 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Thomas is very insightful and responsive. He approaches difficult things with courage, respect, and patience.
Written on Jul 06, 2025 after therapy with Thomas for 11 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and self esteem
A lighthouse in the storm
Written on May 15, 2025 after therapy with Thomas for 1 year and 8 months on issues concerning relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and parenting issues
Thomas is a great listener and has exactly what you need to get better. Even after the first visit I already felt so much tension gone off my shoulders. Highly recommend.
Written on May 13, 2025 after therapy with Thomas for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, grief, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Thomas listens to both sides and objectively leads to peaceful resolutions for us. He seeks the best for everyone involved.
Written on Mar 16, 2025 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, and parenting issues
Thomas Haffner is outstanding in his profession. He listens attentively, converses thoughtfully and is non-judgemental. He has been very insightful and given me sound advice and direction in addition to his listening ear. I would highly recommend him to anyone.
Written on Mar 05, 2025 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and intimacy-related issues
Thomas is thoughtful in his approach and has been very helpful for me during a very difficult time. I couldn't recommend him enough.
Written on Feb 19, 2025 after therapy with Thomas for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and parenting issues
Great listener and adds perspective that keeps me grounded in my over thought.
Written on Jan 27, 2025 after therapy with Thomas for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and coping with life changes
Great listener and advisor. Has been helping me improve the way I handle my stress and moments of anger.
Written on Jan 20, 2025 after therapy with Thomas for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, anger management, and adhd
Thomas has helped me in many ways. He is polite and helps me to work through issues with understanding
Written on Jan 07, 2025 after therapy with Thomas for 6 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and compassion fatigue
I’m grateful for the support!
Written on Jan 03, 2025 after therapy with Thomas for 1 month on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and intimacy-related issues
Very understanding, uplifting, and an expert in his field. Thanks for the support and honesty.
Written on Dec 27, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 3 weeks on issues concerning addictions, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, and coping with life changes
Overall it has been a positive experience
Written on Nov 23, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning family conflicts
Thomas has helped me navigate a wide range of life events and address several emotional and psychological issues.
Written on Oct 25, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 2 years and 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
I love working with Thomas. He is offering a tremendous service to me and my family.
Written on Oct 22, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 1 month on issues concerning trauma and abuse, grief, and coping with life changes
Dr. Thomas still proves to be a great therapist
Written on Sep 09, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 2 years and 6 months on issues concerning relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, anger management, and compassion fatigue
He has been a great help so far and very quick to respond! He is open to do what works for me and helps me! He’s truly a blessing and bring me good applications to the Christian faith!
Written on Aug 15, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Great listener and helpful with perspective
Written on Jul 24, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 9 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and relationship issues
Wise and insightful advice as well as patient with my occasional rambling.
Written on Apr 02, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 2 years and 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, and self esteem
Excellent
Written on Feb 14, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 8 months on issues concerning relationship issues, and intimacy-related issues
Feel comfortable and at ease during visit. Very knowledgeable. Available as needed. Responds promptly.
Written on Jan 26, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, and relationship issues
Thomas Haffner has been extremely easy to talk to, provides expert advice & listings to everything I have to say. So far my experience has been great!
Written on Jan 17, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and anger management
Thomas has been amazing at helping my husband and I work through our marriage struggles and teaching us life lessons to grow stronger in who we are meant to be I would highly recommend Thomas!
Written on Jan 06, 2024 after therapy with Thomas for 1 year and 10 months on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, and anger management
Thomas has been an excellent therapist for going on a year now. I find the sessions helpful and the BetterHelp app has been a great interface to use.
Written on Nov 17, 2023 after therapy with Thomas for 11 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, anger management, and career difficulties
He’s amazing and I’m making huge strides in my life!
Written on Jul 11, 2023 after therapy with Thomas for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and trauma and abuse
Thomas has been amazing! Helped me with so much already
Written on Jun 13, 2023 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and intimacy-related issues
Had a great experience with Thomas. Very professional, listened well, offered helpful advice and would frequently reach out through messages as well which meant a lot! Thanks Thomas!
- Clay U.
Written on Feb 23, 2023 after therapy with Thomas for 8 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Thomas is insightful. His analysis and advise are very useful. He is very easy to talk to. He made me feel uncomfortable and understood.
Written on Jan 21, 2023 after therapy with Thomas for 4 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, and coping with life changes
Thomas has been extremely helpful, insightful, and has an excellent approach. He quickly addresses concerns and his feedback is very concise and thoughtful. Highly recommended!
Written on Dec 27, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 7 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Thomas Haffner is an excellent therapist, especially if you come to him for any problems or decisions related to relationships. I had a lot to unpack within each session and he actively listens while making you feel heard by offering very insightful advice and other things to consider when it comes to faith and communication with your partner. I would strongly recommend him and hope everyone has as great of an experience as I have had with Thomas.
Written on Dec 20, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues
I could not recommend Thomas Haffner enough and some of the things we’ve worked through. Great therapist!!
Written on Nov 30, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 6 months on issues concerning family conflicts, and parenting issues
Thomas listens very well and provides deep, insightful advice.
Written on Nov 27, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and relationship issues
Thomas was great! He was very insightful and always responded promptly and effectively. Thank you, Thomas!
Written on Nov 11, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, and coaching
Thomas is a very good listener. He always gives great advice, and he has a very even manner when he conducts a session that is very comforting.
Written on Sep 16, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, and adhd
Thomas is amazing. Great listener, wise advise. Thankful he is my Therapist!
Written on Sep 13, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, and family conflicts
Thomas is a good listener and has thoughtful responses that help with self reflection.
Written on Sep 08, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem
My therapist has really helped me! After the first call I felt better.
Written on Aug 29, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, eating disorders, and self esteem
Thomas is very caring and has a way of conveying sentiments that put my mind at ease. He’s easy to talk to, never interrupting, and a very good listener. He’s able to give great feedback because he actively listens to my words.
Written on May 02, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, depression, self esteem, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and anger management
Thomas has been very helpful in therapy. His advice is very practical, and he is very quick to help you identify your own strengths.
Written on Apr 22, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Thomas is a very helpful therapist, and always has something helpful to offer, even when you've gone out of his areas of expertise!
Written on Apr 20, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, bipolar disorder, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Excellent care from this professional man.
Written on Apr 11, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, self esteem, anger management, and adhd
Thomas is a wonderful therapist and has helped me through some tough situations. He makes each session feel like a safe space to express whatever is on your mind without judgement. He has definitely helped me grow in many ways. I would recommend him and BetterHelp to my friends and family members.
Written on Mar 17, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, and coping with life changes
He is fantastic. He really helped me understand things about myself that I’ve been doing to sabotage my happiness. He also helped me find tools to learn how to fix that sabotage.
Written on Mar 14, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 3 weeks
Thomas is caring and can suggest things to help or just listen. He is a smart, kind and caring man. I would recommend him to anyone
Written on Feb 22, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and self esteem
Listens and responds with sound advice.
Written on Jan 13, 2022 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, parenting issues, and coping with life changes
I am new to therapy through text. Honestly Thomas has made it an easy experience while still providing quality care.
Written on Dec 29, 2021 after therapy with Thomas for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, and self esteem
I find his insights very helpful.
Written on Dec 15, 2021 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, eating disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, and compassion fatigue
Thomas is almost indescribable. I gave up on therapy and any faith that was left in me. Thomas lead me back into the world of counseling and the possibility that I could find faith again. And he did this by showing a way - not pulling me into a place that fits the counselor’s agenda. It’s as if he gave me a bunch of crayons but I must draw and color the picture. My las therapist died suddenly so I was a bit closed off from therapy. Thomas helped me ease into a place that I was terrified of. I will miss him tremendously.
Written on Aug 31, 2021 after therapy with Thomas for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, family conflicts, and grief
Thomas Haffner's experience as counsellor is evident in his ability to listen to what is said and help develop an understanding of the issues at play.
Written on Aug 20, 2021 after therapy with Thomas for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and self esteem
Thomas is kind and considerate and offers reasonable ways to approach difficult situations with loved ones
Written on Jun 10, 2021 after therapy with Thomas for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, and self esteem
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