I'm a professional counselor with over 20 years of experience helping individuals with a wide range of issues, including anxiety and depression, relationship and intimacy issues, career concerns, and men's issues. I approach each client in a very casual, warm and accepting manner, and strive to understand their unique personality, and perspective-to really get a "picture" of who they are and what they are needing to improve their lives. I use a variety of approaches, tailored to each client's needs, and I'm comfortable addressing any issue or problem that is presented, no matter how difficult it may seem. We all have positive qualities and strengths along with our challenges and problem-areas. I'm particularly good at helping each individual identify their strengths and utilizing them to their fullest potential. I look forward to helping you to overcome your challenges that get in the way of reaching that potential for a more fulfilling life.
25yrs in practice
Additional areas of focus:Addictions, Family conflicts, Trauma and abuse, Grief, Parenting issues, Anger management, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Coping with life changes, Coaching, Compassion fatigue, ADHD, Avoidant Personality, Codependency, Commitment Issues, Control Issues, Dependent Personality, Divorce and Separation, Emptiness, Family of Origin Issues, Family Problems, Fatherhood Issues, Forgiveness, Guilt and Shame, Infidelity, Isolation/Loneliness, Jealousy, Life Purpose, Men's Issues, Midlife Crisis, Money and Financial Issues, Multicultural Concerns, Narcissism, Personality Disorders, Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling), Self-Love, Sex Addiction, Sexuality, Social Anxiety and Phobia, Somatization, Women's Issues, Workplace Issues, Young Adult Issues
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Written on Sep 10, 2022 after therapy with Tom for 1 year and 5 months on issues concerning addictions, relationship issues, and family conflicts
Tom is hands down the best counselor. He challenges you to be the best version of yourself that you can be. I started counseling with Tom when I was at a very low point in my life and I can't believe how much progress I have made ever since then. Tom has helped me navigate through some very tough moments and insecurities in my life and he has been supportive every step of the way. He also helps you look at things from a new perspective. I can't thank him enough.
Written on Nov 14, 2021 after therapy with Tom for 1 year and 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, intimacy-related issues, and anger management
Tom was insightful, knowledgeable about everything I brought up, gave great advise, understood me, reacted to what I was saying instead of being quiet Thank you Tom
Written on Sep 01, 2021 after therapy with Tom for 5 months on issues concerning relationship issues, grief, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Tom is professional and knowledgeable, his insight is valuable.
Written on Jun 11, 2021 after therapy with Tom for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and compassion fatigue
Two sessions in and I feel so much lighter.
Written on Jun 06, 2021 after therapy with Tom for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, and anger management
I like how Tom has been supportive but also challenges my viewpoint.
Written on Apr 10, 2021 after therapy with Tom for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, grief, and self esteem
Tom changed my life. Two years ago I was about to become a father and knew that I didn’t want my child to be lumbered with the same emotional difficulties and insecurities that have plagued me since childhood. I didn’t really believe counseling would do anything for me but I was willing to give anything a shot for the good of my unborn son.
I immediately found Tom to be a compassionate and active listener. He met me where I was and we found it easy to build rapport. Most importantly, I never felt like I was on a conveyor belt, that Tom didn’t have time for me, or that his insights were generic or impersonal.
Over two years of working with Tom I have come to understand that many of the things which have previously caused me stress or anxiety may never change. There is no quick fix or silver bullet for personal, family, or other decades-old problems. That which I have the power to change, however, is how I think about them.
Tom was able to help me grasp simple ideas which now make a real difference to me every day. I recognize and am proud of the values I was once ashamed of. I am kind to myself where once I was cruel. I can work through bad things at arm’s length where once I would internalize them and let them consume me.
I really can’t thank Tom enough for his help. He has been one of the most influential people in my life.
Written on Jan 21, 2021 after therapy with Tom for 1 year and 8 months on issues concerning self esteem, and coaching
Tom has been very patient with listening to my ‘drama’ and has been good about reinforcing positive behaviors!
Written on Aug 22, 2020 after therapy with Tom for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and relationship issues
Tom is truly knowledgeable in his practice. This is my first experience with counseling and so far it has helped me in many ways and I have him to thank for that. Tom listens and identifies with you. He helps you understand your pathway and where it is you want to go. On this pathway Tom is your guide. Not only does he stop and let you smell the flowers, he helps to reassure you the direction in which you are going is the most beneficial for you.
Written on Aug 08, 2020 after therapy with Tom for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, self esteem, and adhd
Tom is awesome. He is a great listener, and responds very thoughtfully. He responds very quickly and at a wide variety of times. I tend to journal late at night and oftentimes he responds even then. He understands a wide variety of issues, which is great for me. I Highly recommend his services.
Written on Jul 19, 2020 after therapy with Tom for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, and self esteem
Tom seems to always be working. He sends me helpful messages and videos all the time and is very timely with responding. Great guy who wants to help.
Written on May 19, 2020 after therapy with Tom for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and anger management
Tom is great. He listens well and ensures he fully understands your concerns and goals. Would recommend.
Written on May 13, 2020 after therapy with Tom for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and parenting issues
Tom is very caring! He checked on me every week to see how I was doing! I highly recommend Tom!
Written on Mar 31, 2020 after therapy with Tom for 4 months
Tom was a huge help to me in finding a new career direction. He helped me work through why I have been dissatisfied in past jobs and what would be a good fit in future jobs. He pointed me to several tests and inventories that helped me get a clearer sense of my interests and aptitudes, then we worked together on a plan for the future. I would recommend him to anyone seeking a new direction in life.
Written on Feb 11, 2020 after therapy with Tom for 3 weeks
Been dealing with Tom since July of 2019. He has provided me with great ways to change my approach to conflict, whether it was with marital, PTSD, or just everyday stress. If you're lucky enough to get paired with him be prepared for life changing information. Keep in mind he will offer you the tools, it is up to you to apply them.
Written on Oct 29, 2019 after therapy with Tom for 3 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and intimacy-related issues
Tom is understanding and caring. He meets me where I am with a problem and listens with the intent to help rather than judge. He truly cares about how I’m doing.
Written on Sep 16, 2019 after therapy with Tom for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, parenting issues, and anger management
Tom has a great deal of knowledge, and ways to word things to help me better understand!
Written on Aug 18, 2019 after therapy with Tom for 3 weeks on issues concerning addictions, and intimacy-related issues
Thomas is a great counselor, I myself talk a lot and he was a good listener from the beginning. I was sure at some point he got lost in my stories but he managed to remember the details. I felt comfortable taking him as a friend and sharing what i feel about my surroundings all day long
With the time difference between us, he always manages to respond on time and with questions that made him understand my situation more and more! I will definitely recommend Tom.
Written on May 24, 2019 after therapy with Tom for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, and career difficulties
Tom is an understanding and compassionate professional. He is insightful and open.
Written on May 13, 2019 after therapy with Tom for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and addictions
Thomas has been really great and extremely helpful! He's made me feel so much better and confident - would highly recommend him!
Written on May 13, 2019 after therapy with Tom for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues
Tom was very considerate, understanding and helpful. I felt really understood. So I am thankful that I got matched to him. He would set goals so we could work towards it. So thank you Tom and thank you BetterHelp
Written on Apr 22, 2019 after therapy with Tom for 2 weeks on issues concerning career difficulties
Tom is excellent and very insightful at what he does. I guess it’s from the years of experience he has under his belt. I have seen other Counsellor’s but Tom has been the only one that was so quick at getting me and on a path of healing from the first session on. I am so very thankful to him and strongly recommend him.
Written on Feb 20, 2019 after therapy with Tom for 2 months on issues concerning relationship issues, and self esteem
Tom is an incredibly empathetic, calming presence. He is also very scientifically knowledgeable about the human body and mind. In addition to helpful worksheets, songs, and conversations, his life experience is also used in our sessions, building trust and encouragement. He is a good energy for me in a time of transition and anxiety. I would definitely recommend him for anyone experiencing stuck-ness or overwhelm.
Written on Jan 15, 2019 after therapy with Tom for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and grief
I've had the pleasure of working with Tom over the past few months now. He has always kept contact, has been great council through some tough challenges and honestly feels like both a Councillor and in some ways, a friend. He's helped me to think and work through some of the most difficult challenges I've had, in a way that's felt like talking to an equal. Thank you, Tom.
Written on Jan 14, 2019 after therapy with Tom for 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, anger management, and career difficulties
Thomas has been very supportive, he is obviously trying to understand my outlook/perspective and in doing this has offered some very good advice to assist me in processing where I'm at and more importantly means to take steps forward and strategies to help me find perspective and move through a 'dark' period in my life. I'm very appreciative of Thomas's help.
Written on Dec 17, 2018 after therapy with Tom for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, and career difficulties
Dr. Thomas is a great guy. He's easy to talk to and has provided me a great deal of help in the 3 weeks I've been going to therapy.
Written on Oct 29, 2018 after therapy with Tom for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, and family conflicts
Tom is an amazing counselor and listener. I am so happy I found him.
Written on Jul 15, 2018 after therapy with Tom for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and relationship
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