ADHD And Irritability: Does ADHD Make You Irritable?

Medically reviewed by Julie Dodson, MA
Updated April 23, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team

While commonly recognized for symptoms like forgetfulness and restlessness, attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) can encompass a wide spectrum of challenges for those affected by it, including increased irritability. While irritability and general emotional dysregulation can be challenging to experience, a variety of treatment methods may prove to be helpful, including therapy, mindfulness practices, and regular exercise. 

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What is ADHD?

Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) can be defined as a neurological condition that usually affects the brain and nervous system. While the disorder is often associated with hyperactivity and difficulty concentrating, among other symptoms, ADHD-related difficulties can range from challenging to debilitating for those living with the condition.

According to the American Psychiatric Association, there are generally three types of ADHD: primarily inattentive (formerly referred to as attention deficit disorder or ADD), impulsive/hyperactive, or combined type. 

Common symptoms of ADHD can include the following: 

  • An inability to pay attention 
  • Disorganization
  • Poor time management skills
  • Hyperactivity
  • Impulsive and risky behavior; poor self-control
  • Difficulty initiating and completing tasks 
  • Emotional dysregulation

ADHD can be seen as a multifaceted condition that often exists alongside other disorders that can be associated with chronic irritability. Around half of people with ADHD may live with an additional disorder that may require separate treatment. Common ADHD comorbidities may include those listed below:

  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Autism spectrum disorder (ASD)
  • Bipolar disorder
  • Borderline personality disorder
  • Disruptive mood dysregulation disorder

Additionally, children with ADHD often face behavioral difficulties, such as extreme defiance, sometimes referred to as oppositional defiant disorder (ODD). In adulthood, these behavioral challenges may manifest in the form of mood swings or severe irritability. 

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Understanding irritability and ADHD

Understanding anger and irritability in the context of ADHD may require a certain degree of nuance. While anger can be a natural human emotion that may contribute to survival, ADHD can make it difficult to regulate and manage anger in a healthy way.

ADHD and irritability are often linked. According to research, irritability tends to be common in people with ADHD. Some studies estimate that a range of 25% to 70% of people with ADHD may display irritability, even in the absence of mood disorder. 

Additionally, irritability can arise as a side effect of ADHD medication in some cases, which can further complicate the management of emotions for those with the condition. 

Chronic irritability in individuals with ADHD may also stem from related symptoms that make managing intense emotions exceedingly difficult. This experience may be referred to as emotional dysregulation. Emotional dysregulation is frequently a symptom of both childhood and adult ADHD. 

In fact, research shows that approximately 70% of adults with ADHD are affected by emotional dysregulation. This can manifest in various ways, such as angry outbursts, sudden mood changes, or heightened sensitivity to emotional triggers.

Examining emotional dysregulation

Severe mood dysregulation can be a prominent symptom of ADHD. An individual with ADHD may experience high sensitivity to emotional, physical, or sensory stimuli. 

For those living with ADHD, everyday challenges or inconveniences can trigger intense emotions that may be difficult to manage. For example, a person with ADHD may be more susceptible to experiencing frustration while driving. 

Both adults and children with ADHD may struggle with transitions between tasks or become overwhelmed by sensory input in noisy environments. Additionally, situations like waiting in line, facing rejection, perceiving that one is misunderstood, or experiencing school- or work-related pressure can trigger ADHD-related emotional dysregulation. 

By gaining a deeper understanding of emotional dysregulation, the link between ADHD and irritability may become clearer. For those with ADHD, mood disorders, and other mental health conditions, emotional dysregulation might feel like: 

  • A persistent, low-grade hum of irritability
  • Impatience during moments of stress
  • Sudden surges of anger when faced with frustration in pursuit of goals
  • Becoming overwhelmed or overstimulated by everyday situations
  • Intense emotional experiences that are sometimes disproportionate to triggering situations
  • Episodes of explosive anger
  • Frequent emotional highs and lows
  • Difficulty verbally articulating anger, potentially leading to increased frustration
  • Reduced awareness or misinterpretation of others' emotions
  • Greater ease in feeling and expressing anger or sadness compared to other emotions

Common comorbidities with ADHD, such as depression and anxiety, can also contribute to emotional dysregulation and irritability. When it comes to managing ADHD symptoms, pursuing a formal diagnosis can help you better understand how to manage anger related to the condition.

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Coping with ADHD irritability 

Coping with ADHD-related irritability tends to look different for each individual. However, seeking help from a mental health professional is highly recommended for those living with challenging symptoms. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) techniques can be beneficial in identifying and challenging negative thought patterns associated with irritability, as well as fostering healthier coping mechanisms. 

Many online therapy platforms offer convenient access to professional support and guidance for those seeking assistance with managing ADHD. Online therapy can be a more convenient option for individuals with ADHD who may have trouble keeping appointments that require them to plan and commute to a different location. It can also empower individuals to customize the therapy experience to their comfort level by choosing between video, phone, and online chat sessions.

Research suggests that online therapy can be an effective form of treatment for ADHD, and individuals may see particular improvements in symptoms related to attention deficit and social function. 

Additionally, medication options may be prescribed by qualified medical professionals, such as doctors and psychiatrists, to provide further support in symptom management. Always consult your doctor before starting, stopping, or changing the way you take medication.

Other helpful coping mechanisms may include incorporating mindfulness practices into daily routines, as well as engaging in regular exercise to promote physical health, reduce stress, and improve mood stability. 

Takeaway

Understanding the link between ADHD and irritability can be crucial for effective symptom management and an improved quality of life. By addressing both the core symptoms of ADHD and the emotional dysregulation that can accompany the disorder, individuals can work toward achieving greater stability and well-being in their lives. Through treatment methods like online or in-person therapy, doctor-prescribed medication, mindfulness practices, and exercise, individuals may navigate the challenges associated with ADHD-related irritability more effectively. 

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