Boredom & Sadness Correlation

Updated October 4, 2022 by BetterHelp Editorial Team

Our approach to free time has changed over the years. With modern technology, we’re used to always having something to entertain us. But what happens when there isn’t anything to distract you? What happens when you feel like you have nothing to do? Many people are starting to think that they’re experiencing mental illness because of their lack of interest or motivation. Understanding the connection between feeling sad or empty, and feeling uninterested in things around you is crucial to better understanding your well-being.

Feeling Bored? Learn When Boredom Could Be a Warning Sign of Depression
Can Boredom Cause Depression?

There isnt an easy, straightforward answer. Boredom motivates some individuals to rediscover a hobby, explore a new interest, reconnect with friends or family, meet new people, promote self-reflection, or even pursue a new career path. But for those who are clinically depressed, feeling bored can be a pit of despair because it gives the brain an excuse to drift toward negative thoughts, making the depression worse.

Chronic boredom and depression are linked, and boredom can become destructive over time if it’s not proactively addressed. It may even lead to high-risk behaviors like increased alcohol or drug use, increased sexual activity and/or sexual partners, addictive behaviors such as gambling, shopping, or eating, and even self-harming thoughts and behaviors. Throughout this article, we’ll discuss the connection between feeling bored and depression, and what you can do to overcome it.

Experiencing Boredom

You can experience boredom while you’re waiting for someone to pick you up from work, at night when you’re supposed to be sleeping, and in between commercials while you’re watching television. None of these instances are enough to ignite feelings of sadness, but they can be troubling to those who are already diagnosed with it.

The type of boredom that can cause depression is called existential or apathetic boredom; in Alex Lickerman’s medically reviewed article “Boredom,” he defined it as the inability to find anything interesting in life. In this case, having depression can cause an existential feeling of being bored just as existential boredom can cause depression. People who can’t find anything interesting generally conclude that life is meaningless, and then they become depressed.

While depression is one of the most common mental health challenges, it’s very treatable. Medically reviewed studies have found that web-based Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) can reduce depression in patients. When you understand the cause of your depression, your boredom, and your treatment options, you can learn to overcome it.

What is Boredom?

Feeling boredom is a psychological state experienced when an individual:

  • Lacks interest in anything during brief intermittent periods or more steady periods
  • Finds him or herself unable to rest or relax
  • Feels little to no excitement
  • Displays apathy, lack of concern, or little interest in something that would normally be important
  • Finds it difficult to get or stay motivated

Those who already have anxiety are more prone to developing depression when they experience long shifts of boredom.

They’re likely suppressing negative thoughts already, so when the free time arises, they sometimes let their mind wander and the negative thoughts take over as they may be unable to control them. Online therapy can help reduce symptoms of depression, such as feeling bored.

Types of Boredom

Many individuals have experienced feeling bored at some point in their lives, but what type of boredom? Knowing the type of boredom you’re experiencing may help you to effectively counter it. A medically reviewed follow-up study published in the journal Motivation and Emotion in 2006 identified five different types of boredom and how it can manifest in many ways:

  1. In some cases, an individual will feel calm and cut off from the distant world; this can be described as “relaxation” or being “in their bubble.”
  2. Another type is often described as an unpleasant state of feeling bored with “wandering thoughts or not knowing what to do.” The individual may display an openness to unrelated activities, but not presenting activities as they may have a difficult time putting their focus on present tasks.
  3. Described as a more agitated negative feeling, it prompts the person to actively search and look for relief by thinking about activities or tasks to engage in or reaching out to another person.
  4. Some individuals experience elevated negative feelings of uneasiness and/or aggression. They may have a strong desire to escape feeling bored and are more likely to engage in fulfilling alternative activities or reach out to another person to talk to or spend time with.
  5. Finally, others may be detached, experiencing low arousal or unpleasant feelings of helplessness and depression.

Some types of feeling bored may be temporary, and they may even feel restful, but the last type can be particularly concerning, especially for individuals who are already prone to anxiety and depression.

Am I Experiencing Signs and Symptoms of Depression?

Depression can cause a wide range of cognitive, behavioral, and physical symptoms, including physical pain. It is important to note that individuals may experience different or varying symptoms compared to others who are diagnosed with depression, and boredom can contribute.

Also, all of the symptoms need not be present to warrant a diagnosis of clinical depression. Here are some common signs and symptoms:

  • Low or depressed mood and/or noticeable mood swings
  • Loss of interest or pleasure in doing things that were once fulfilling
  • Significant change or fluctuation in weight (excessive weight loss or gain)
  • Decreased ability to focus or concentrate, especially for longer periods
  • Increased feelings of fatigue, more days than not
  • Decreased energy levels
  • Sleeping difficulties (not enough, too much, or interrupted sleep pattern)
  • Feelings of worthlessness and other negative emotions
  • Recurring thoughts of death or others dying
  • Depressive symptoms that appear to be causing significant stress
  • Depressive symptoms that last longer than two weeks

While taking into consideration the signs and symptoms above, only licensed medical providers and mental health providers such as Psychiatrists, Psychologists, Professional Counselors, or Clinical Social Workers can diagnose clinical depression. If you’re experiencing any of these symptoms, take care of yourself by reaching out to a medical professional.

Refuting Existential Boredom

Saying that life is meaningless is a serious statement; if not addressed early on, this belief could lead to suicidal thoughts. It can also result in self-harming or suicidal behaviors, but it doesn’t have to. With the help of a good therapist, it’s possible to change your outlook.


If you decide to pursue therapy, you’ll be paired with a qualified mental health provider like a Psychologist, a Professional Counselor, or a Clinical Social Worker, all of whom are generally called “therapists” in the world of psychology. A therapist can provide medical advice diagnosis and treatment for your mental health concerns. A therapist may help you see that everything does have a point, and therefore, life can be interesting. Even if you don’t find something meaningful, someone somewhere does.

With your therapist, you’ll begin to understand how each object, activity, or person holds meaning or value to others, and then you can slowly find value in these concepts. This shift in perspective helps to counter depressive symptoms and deter suicidal thoughts.

In addition to therapy, you can reduce feelings of boredom and depression by interacting with others. It’s particularly important to have a positive social support system in your life because seclusion can make depression worse. You can receive social support from family, friends, colleagues, a community group, or communities.

The benefits of good social support are that it helps to eliminate feeling bored, improves overall physical health, and creates feelings of stability and security. People with strong social support can also recover from stressful situations more quickly, enjoy improved feelings of self-esteem and self-confidence, maintain a healthier level of mental health and wellness, and find more fulfillment in daily life overall. Connecting with others helps us develop different perspectives as well, which helps us all see the different ways that life can be meaningful and valuable.

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Boredom And Depression
Don’t let your boredom turn into something more. Take the steps you need to learn how to overcome depression and boredom. With greater social support and the right therapist, you can enjoy a more meaningful and fulfilling life. Take the first step.

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