Boredom And Depression: Is There A Correlation With Mental Health?

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Our approach to free time has changed over the years. With modern technology, we’ve become accustomed to having something to entertain us at all hours of the day and night. Still, there may be times when there isn’t anything to distract you or when you don’t have a source of stimulation. Some people may worry that this lack of interest or the tendency to seek out isolation may be a sign of a mental health condition like depression. Below, we’ll explore the relationship between boredom and depression and ways to address these challenges in a meaningful way.

Understanding boredom as an emotional experience

People may be more likely to feel boredom than understand it. For example, you may find yourself bored while sitting in a waiting room or waiting in line at the store, but not know where these feelings are coming from. Many times, boredom may seem like something we try to escape, but there may be more to it than that. 

Why boredom is not just a dull moment

It can be easy to see boredom as nothing more than a dull moment. Some research has defined it as an “aversive state of wanting, but being unable, to engage in satisfying activity,” a distinct emotional experience that may be a way for the brain to prepare for something else.

What boredom can signal in our daily lives

When we experience boredom, it may be a sign that something isn’t working. For example, if you’re bored at work, your tasks may be too simple for what you’re capable of. If you’re bored in conversation with someone, it may indicate that your relationship is only surface-level. Chronic boredom can be your brain giving you feedback, encouraging you to make a change.

Can boredom lead to depression?

Occasional boredom is something most people experience, but other forms of boredom can significantly affect overall well-being in various ways. For example, chronic or persistent boredom can be a symptom of a deeper psychological issue. This type of unresolved boredom may result from a need to disconnect from one’s emotions or serve as a way to protect oneself from the pain of unmet needs. 

When boredom may negatively affect mental health

While some children and adults living with depression may experience boredom, it doesn’t necessarily lead to depression. In certain cases, there is a bright side to boredom, with some individuals using it as motivation to rediscover a hobby, explore a new interest, reconnect with friends or family, put more effort into school, or even pursue a new career path. However, for those who experience clinical depression, feeling constantly bored can be a slippery slope that eventually leads the brain to drift toward negative thoughts, potentially making the depression worse.

Boredom is usually temporary, but when it lingers, it can begin to have a significant effect on mental health.

Hopelessness and reduced interest

Boredom that goes unaddressed can linger and may eventually lead to a sense of hopelessness, not just about a temporary situation but about life in general. Research suggests that chronic boredom and depressioncan be strongly correlated, so persistent boredom may be a sign that something deeper is developing.

Losing motivation in leisure time

One sign that boredom may have become something more is when it follows you into your leisure time. For example, if hobbies or other interests you once found enjoyable or looked forward to are no longer bringing you the same happiness, it can be a sign that your overall ability to feel joy is being impacted. Losing interest in things you do in your leisure time can be worth taking seriously, as this is generally when we recharge and recover from the stress that may be present in other aspects of life.

Chronic boredom can become destructive over time if it’s not proactively addressed. It may even lead a person to rely on high-risk behaviors to occupy themselves. One common example of this behavior would be alcohol or drug misuse. Chronic boredom can also lead to risky sexual activity or addictive behaviors like gambling, shopping, or eating. In some cases, it can even lead to self-harm.* 

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How boredom and depression overlap but differ

Boredom and depression share various features, like a lack of interest or loss of pleasure, but they also have many differences between them.

Shared features and what makes them distinct

Boredom is a psychological state experienced when an individual lacks motivation to engage in their usual hobbies or activities. Some signs of boredom may include:

  • A lack of interest in anything, either regularly or during brief intermittent periods
  • Being unable to rest or relax, even when tired
  • Feeling little to no excitement
  • A lack of concern or interest in things that would normally be important
  • Finding it difficult to stay motivated

Depression, on the other hand, is a diagnosable mental health condition that can cause a wide range of cognitive, behavioral, and physical symptoms, including physical pain. Many people who have depression may feel sad, but everyone experiences depression differently. Boredom can be a symptom. Some other common signs of depression can include:

  • Low or depressed mood and/or noticeable mood swings
  • Loss of interest or pleasure in doing once fulfilling things
  • Significant change or fluctuation in weight (excessive weight loss or gain)
  • Decreased ability to focus or difficulty concentrating, especially for longer periods
  • Increased feelings of fatigue, more days than not
  • Decreased energy levels or lethargy
  • Sleeping difficulties (not enough, too much, or interrupted sleep pattern)
  • The thought that you “feel worthless” and other negative emotions
  • Recurring thoughts of death
  • Social isolation
  • Frequently experiencing hopelessness

Practical strategies to alleviate boredom

Alleviating boredom can be challenging, but there are some practical ways to address it. If you are having difficulty overcoming boredom, consider the following tips.

Finding things that feel doable

It may seem that pursuing a life where there is never a dull moment might be the way to overcome boredom, but things that require too much effort may be overwhelming. Instead, it may be better to start with simpler things that may feel more doable, such as: 

  • Rewatching an episode of your favorite TV show
  • Taking a walk
  • Listening to a podcast
  • Sending a text to your best friend

New ideas to try in small steps

If you are interested in trying something new, start with a small step and focus on things that bring you joy. For example:

  • Watching a new TV with your favorite actor
  • Trying a new route on your walk
  • Trying a new podcast genre
  • Messaging a close friend whom you haven’t seen in a while

Rebuilding other interests over time

When boredom is persistent, it can cast a shadow over former interests, and getting back to them may feel overwhelming. Rebuilding these interests can take time. It can be a good idea to introduce old interests slowly by revisiting something you once enjoyed without any expectations. It may not feel like it used to right away. Over time, though, repeated short, low-level exposures can gradually restore your interest.

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The importance of social support: Addressing boredom and depressed feelings

You may find that you can reduce feelings of boredom and depression by interacting with others. It may be helpful to have a positive social support system in your life because seclusion may make depression worse. You can seek social support from family, friends, colleagues, or a community group.

Reducing boredom and enhancing mental health

There may be numerous benefits to social support. Not only can it help to eliminate feelings of boredom, but it may also improve overall physical health and create feelings of stability and safety. People with strong social support may recover from stressful situations more quickly, enjoy improved feelings of self-esteem and self-confidence, maintain a healthier level of mental health and wellness, and find more joy and less boredom in everyday life. 

Therapy for boredom and depression

According to the National Institute of Mental Health, depression is one of the most common mental health challenges, and it’s treatable. When you understand the cause of any depression or boredom you’re experiencing,  and when you know your treatment options, you may find that you can learn to overcome it.

If you’re experiencing boredom and/or symptoms of depression, you can speak with a licensed therapist about what you’re feeling. A licensed therapist may help you reframe your perspective and successfully navigate feelings of boredom.

Benefits of online therapy

However, if you’re experiencing boredom or depression, reaching out for help may seem like more trouble than it is worth. You may feel fatigued or lack the motivation to go out to in-person therapy appointments. If this is the case, online therapy may offer a feasible alternative. You can access online therapy via audio or video chat. You may also find that appointments can be more flexible with an online therapy platform. 

The effectiveness of online therapy

The effectiveness of online therapy has been confirmed by numerous scholarly studies. One meta-analysis from 2022 found that internet-based cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) can reduce depression. Similar results have been observed for individuals with symptoms of anxiety.

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Takeaway

Boredom and depression can present significant challenges, but there is help available for both. With a combination of a support system and the guidance of a licensed therapist, you may find that you experience relief from boredom, depression, or any other mental health challenges you’re experiencing. With BetterHelp, you can be matched with a licensed therapist who has experience helping people navigate boredom, lack of motivation, and symptoms of depression. Take the first step and reach out to BetterHelp today.
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