The Unique Role Of Episodic Memory In Our Lives

Medically reviewed by Laura Angers Maddox, NCC, LPC
Updated February 21, 2024by BetterHelp Editorial Team
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Experiencing challenges with memory?

Episodic memory generally refers to your personal recollections of events, situations, and experiences in your life. It tends to be subjective and can involve memories of personal facts, events, general impressions, and snapshots. Episodic memory can be negatively impacted by trauma, vitamin deficiencies, Alzheimer’s disease, and other conditions. Therapy can often be helpful for those experiencing challenges related to memory and mental health.

An overview of memory

We may constantly use our memory, and remembering can be almost as automatic as breathing. We often don't realize when our memory is at work, instead focusing on the few critical things we forget rather than recognizing the many things we remember. Memory often allows us to recognize people we know and can enhance connections and histories with friends and loved ones. It may solidify the experiences that have shaped us and made us who we are. Memory can also help us navigate important information like names, numbers, and directions.

Memory usually encompasses such a range of abilities that researchers have created various categories of memory. For example, remembering your wedding anniversary typically utilizes a different memory function from remembering your multiplication tables, and remembering your anniversary can be a distinct form of memory from remembering your impressions of your wedding day. There is generally also the kind of memory that enables you to hop on a bicycle and still know how to ride it, even if you last did so years ago.

In general, there are two basic types of long-term memory: implicit and explicit. Implicit memory can be defined as something you remember without being consciously aware of it, like knowing how to read or play the guitar. Explicit memory typically requires conscious thought to recall. Under the umbrella of explicit memory are usually two smaller categories: episodic and semantic. In some ways, episodic and semantic memory can be connected and intertwined. 

Types of long-term memory

Let's begin with the two most common kinds of long-term memory: episodic and semantic.

Semantic memory can be defined as a structured remembering of factual information. These facts are usually not personal to you; they may instead be part of a universal group of knowledge. Knowing the alphabet and the names of colors, birds, and flowers can be examples of semantic memory.

Episodic memory can be viewed as your recollection of situations, events, and personal experiences. Some examples of episodic memory could be watching your children get on the school bus for the first time, witnessing a car accident, or going on your first date with your spouse.

While semantic memory can be objective, episodic memory tends to be subject to our interpretations and emotions. Episodic memory can explain why two people who have the same experience may recall it differently. Much of the act of remembering can involve the task of “encoding”: translating the memory into a format that makes sense in the context of your previous knowledge and experience. Because each person tends to be unique, they may encode memories of the same events differently.

A third kind of long-term memory, known as autobiographical memory, generally combines episodic and semantic memory. These memories can be seen as the facts and experiences that define you as a person. Unlike episodic memory, these memories are typically free from emotion. They may be composed of factual information, such as the name of the town where you were born and where you bought your first car. Like episodic memory, autobiographical memories are normally composed of information unique to you alone.

The difference between episodic versus semantic memory may at first seem clear-cut, but research has shown that these two kinds of memory are often intertwined. It has been found that we typically remember factual information better when it is aligned with our prior knowledge. If you have ever used a loved one’s birthday to help you memorize a date for a history test, then you may have experienced this phenomenon. Those who rely on episodic memories can usually retrieve factual, semantic memories more easily.

Many of the details in our episodic memories can rely on semantic memory, too. For example, you probably have many specific episodic memories of your high school years. These memories can be enhanced by your semantic memories of the name of your city or town, current or historical events that happened at the time, and the name of your high school.

Different kinds of episodic memories

Episodic memories can take many forms. Here are some examples:

Memories of personal facts

This can include basic information, like names and dates that are important to you. Some examples could be the name of your alma mater and the address of your first home.

Specific memories of events

These can be particular moments from your personal history, such as the birth of your child or your ninth birthday party.

Snapshots

These may be moments when you find out startling news. It may have been a significant life event, such as the birth or death of someone close to you. For some of us, historical moments like the Kennedy assassination, the Challenger disaster, or the 9/11 attacks may live in our minds in photographic detail as snapshots or flashbulb memories.

General impressions

We may have general episodic memories of what it feels like to swim in cool lake water or to eat a chocolate ice cream cone.

The process of remembering and forgetting

With thousands of hours of experiences logged in our brains, the number of experiences we remember can be surprisingly few. How is it that so many events are forgotten, while a select few live on in our consciousness as episodic memories? As it turns out, the process of remembering is usually quite complex. Several tasks typically need to happen to form episodic memories. These usually include the following:

Encoding: The brain may convert the memory into a format that can be easily stored and recognized. Encoding may be in the form of a visual image or the repetition of specific words or phrases.

Storage: After encoding, an experience can usually only remain in your short-term memory for about 20 seconds before the brain forgets it. If you rehearse or repeat the memory, it typically gets filed away and organized in your long-term memory for later use.

Retrieval: This is generally what you do when you recall an event or experience, usually by achieving the image or the words you used to encode it.

Forgetting can be the natural result of your brain not encoding or storing a memory. When a memory is not rehearsed or obtained, it usually fades away.

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Our brains typically choose which experiences to retain and which to forget, often without our conscious intent. Why do certain memories remain strong without our conscious effort? Recently, we have learned that emotion often plays a prominent role in the recall of episodic memories.

A study published in the Trends in Cognitive Science journal found that emotionally charged memories usually take longer to forget than those that are emotionally neutral. This fact may have something to do with the different brain regions involved in memory. The area of the brain that binds memories to specific emotions may be the amygdala, which is a brain region where emotions are usually processed. On the other hand, the binding of more neutral memories normally occurs in the hippocampus, a brain structure involved in learning. Memories stored in the amygdala tend to be much more resistant to forgetting than those stored in the hippocampus.

Therefore, a routine day may be much more easily forgotten because it usually lacks strong emotional content. However, the day you experienced a terrible car accident or the day your child was born will more likely live on in your memory because of their associated emotions. 

Episodic memory problems

Some illnesses and conditions can adversely affect your episodic memory. Here is a partial list:

  • Trauma
  • Vitamin B1 deficiency
  • Subarachnoid hemorrhage
  • Brain tumors
  • Hashimoto’s encephalopathy
  • Hydrocephalus
  • Alzheimer’s disease
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Experiencing challenges with memory?

You may have challenges with episodic memory if you have difficulty remembering events and experiences, even if they happened recently. In addition, memory problems can affect your relationships with others who expect you to join in recalling experiences. Due to the diverse factors involved in recalling events and information, people with memory problems should generally consult with their doctor to help them diagnose the cause. 

Coping with memory problems

In some cases, a therapist or psychologist can help people who experience memory loss as a result of aging, illness, or dementia. A therapist can teach them compensatory skills for coping with memory problems and provide emotional support to manage the effects of memory loss. In addition, people with memory loss, as well as their loved ones or caregivers, may benefit from support groups where they can discuss their experiences with people who have similar challenges. 

For people whose memory is affected by depression, anxiety, or post-traumatic stress disorder (in which memories may “pop up” as intrusive flashbacks or nightmares), cognitive behavioral therapy can be a common treatment option used by therapists, both online and in-person.

Benefits of online therapy

For people whose symptoms or schedules make traveling to an in-person session difficult, online therapy can offer a convenient alternative. Sessions held on the BetterHelp platform, for example, typically require only a smart device and a stable internet connection. An online therapy platform can also make it simple to connect with a therapist who has helped others with memory-related concerns.

Effectiveness of online therapy

According to a 2020 study, individuals with mild cognitive impairment generally experienced improvement in their memory, language, and visuo-constructional abilities after participating in online therapy. This study joins many others, suggesting that online therapy is normally just as effective as face-to-face therapy.

Takeaway

Episodic memory, or your personal recollections of events and situations you’ve experienced, can be one of the many forms of memory that help us navigate our lives and build a sense of self. The emotional significance of an experience may cause our brain to remember the event more vividly as a flashbulb or snapshot memory. If you need support in coping with memory loss or other memory-related concerns, online therapy can offer an effective alternative to face-to-face sessions.
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