The media may play a significant role in our body image and how we feel about ourselves. We can consciously and unconsciously compare ourselves to the "perfect" images of people we see in magazines, commercials, films, and social media. If you struggle with your body image, you aren't alone – self-conscious feelings toward our bodies are pervasive in society.
You can learn to improve your self-esteem and body image and start feeling good about who you are, the way you are. This article explores the connection between body image and the media and provides tools to promote a healthy, positive body image.
Body Image And The Media Are Closely Related
Our attention is often focused on the connection between the media and body image for women, but the relationship exists for people of all genders and identities.
Women in the media typically look polished and together. They may have perfect hair and makeup, stunning complexions, thin waistlines, and curves "in all the right places." Likewise, men in the media are generally tall, muscular, and masculine with toned physiques.
How people look in the media creates an unrealistic image of what many people think they should look like. Only 5% of society resembles the images portrayed in the media. And 59% of people find beauty filters used in social media troubling.
Many studies have shown that the more time we spend viewing media, the higher the chance we'll experience low self-esteem. One study found that boys who felt pressure about their weight were more likely to have depression and engage in drug use or binge drinking.
Society’s portrayal of the “ideal” body is continually shifting. For example, in Ancient Greece, the “ideal” body type for women was “full-bodied;” during the Italian Renaissance, the “ideal” woman had a rounded stomach and plenty of curves; and the American 1990s often featured women who were thin with more androgynous features.
The Lie That Media Tells
The media often shows us images that may be difficult to live up to. Models, actors, and actresses tend to have professional makeup artists, hair stylists, fashion designers, and personal trainers. And their appearances are often altered with filters, body editing programs, Photoshop, and other digital manipulation tools. Common changes include:
- Airbrushing skin to appear smoother
- Thinning bodies and removing visible fat
- Enlarging “desirable” features (e.g., muscles, breasts, buttocks, etc.)
- Minimizing “undesirable” features
- Brightening and enlarging eyes
- Whitening teeth
- Removing stretch marks and cellulite
Many people may not realize they're trying to look like an ideal that might not even exist. This may cause individuals to believe they look below average because they compare their real-life appearance to digitally altered photos.
The Impact Of Social Media
Research indicates that over 92% of internet users are on social media, which often portrays a highlight reel of an individual's life.
For example, people rarely post pictures of themselves right after waking up (although they may claim to), in unflattering positions, or showing what their body looks like after having children. But, many people don't perceive the posts as selective edits. Instead, when we see pictures of people at their best on social media, we may mistake this for their everyday lives. And we may not know if they’re using filters, body apps, angles, lighting, and other methods of altering the images we see.
Then, we might compare our everyday life to their highlight reel. This could lower our self-esteem. Research shows a correlation between higher social media usage and lower self-esteem.
How To Avoid Low Self-Esteem and Body Image From Social Media
How bodies and people are portrayed in the media is a large-scale societal topic that may be difficult to change as an individual. But there are changes we can make in our personal lives to improve our body image and self-esteem. We’ll explore some of these below.
Limit Exposure To The Media
Research shows a link between body image and the media, and it may negatively impact your self-esteem. Therefore, you may want to limit your exposure.
Consider taking breaks from social media. Give yourself time away so you aren't constantly exposed to content that might impact your body image. If you have to, you can uninstall social media apps for a while so that it’s not as easy to check them. You can install apps that set limits on your phone for your chosen social media apps. These often automatically close the social media app after 10 minutes, 30 minutes, or whatever time limit you choose.
Try To Stop Comparing Yourself To Others
Comparing yourself to others may lead to disappointment because your self-esteem can become dependent on the lives of others rather than yourself. It could be time to work towards stopping this habit so you can improve your self-esteem.
Many people in the media have been touched up, so you may want to avoid comparing yourself to something that isn't real. Social media tends to be full of people's best images, often their happiest ones. It can be hard to find unaltered and unfiltered photos and even more challenging to be able to identify them.
As you exercise, you might also improve your cardiovascular health, increase your overall energy level, build muscle tone, and increase your strength. These things may help you feel better without comparing yourself to others.
Let It Go And Forgive
Sometimes, media and body image can hurt our self-esteem because someone in our past made a negative comment about our looks. Despite the old "sticks and stones" rhyme, words can hurt. But they don't have to hurt forever.
A mental health professional can help you begin to forgive, let it go, and move past the hurt. This might help you learn how to accept and love yourself.
Take Self-Esteem Challenges Seriously
Negative body image and low self-esteem may lead to other mental health challenges like anxiety and depression. The matter should not be taken lightly.
Some groups are acting to try to change the way the media unrealistically portrays people, and more people are embracing their natural selves and posting this on social media. If you're struggling with low self-esteem and body challenges, consider reaching out for support.
Get Help From A Professional
If you feel you have detrimental self-esteem and body image challenges, there’s nothing wrong with asking for help. Mental health professionals can help you pinpoint any underlying struggles, identify the impact the media may be having on your body image, and help you in your recovery.
Sometimes, self-esteem and body image struggles can become so severe that you may not even want to leave the house. This might make attending in-person therapy sessions challenging. If you struggle with getting to therapy appointments, online therapy can help. With internet-based counseling, you can get professional mental health services anywhere you have an internet connection. Plus, it’s more convenient than traditional therapy since appointments are available day and night.
Online therapy has been found to be just as effective as in-person therapy. Internet-based cognitive behavioral therapy (ICBT) to treat conditions like depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, and many others has been proven particularly effective. Over 300 studies have found that ICBT is more effective in the long term than in-person therapy, with more clients continuing to experience notable symptom reduction and mental health improvement even three months post-treatment.
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