Exploring Family Sculpting

The Sculpting Process

Often, a family sculpting session's first task is choosing a sculptor. The therapist may ask if anyone is interested and describe the role. If more than one person wants to be a sculptor, the counselor may ask more questions to decide or allow both to work together with one acting as a lead sculptor. The sculptor can be any adult or child that can follow the sculpting responsibilities. A sculptor can also be a different person each session. 

To start, the counselor will often give the families a specific prompt and then ask the sculptor to place the family around the room according to how they felt about each person at a certain age. Alternatively, the therapist may ask the sculptor to position the family as they seemed to them before, during, or after an event. This part of the session involves roleplaying and imagination. 

Next, the sculptor follows the prompt given. They might put some people closer together than others. Two people may be hugging or pretending to push each other. The sculptor may add more minor details that reflect their perception of the scene, for example, tilting one of their heads up so their nose is in the air to indicate that the person feels superior. The sculptor determines all the positions and details.

For example, a therapist might prompt a child sculptor to position their family in the way they saw them after a close family loss. The child might position their parents far away from them and their siblings, indicating that they may have felt emotionally distant after the loss. 

Therapist Interventions

The therapist might choose to intervene at specific points during the sculpting. If an argument arises, they can help the family resolve the issue together through talk therapy. 

Psychodrama may sometimes uncover long-buried feelings that are so intense that the sculptor struggles to continue sculpting. If these feelings arise, the trained therapist might support the family as they understand their situation better, express their emotions, and begin their healing process. After the family is sculpted, a brief talk session may follow.

Purposes And Advantages Of Family Sculpting

Below are a few reasons people might use family sculpting for their conflicts. 

Assessment Of The Family 

Your therapist may use the information they gain during an initial family sculpting session to assess the conflict in your family to offer the most effective treatments. They may use later sessions to assess how you are progressing individually and as a group at several points in your family therapy. This process may assist the therapist in determining the course of treatment and deciding whether to make changes. If your family has accomplished all your goals within therapy, they may decide to take a different approach or ask if there are any further concerns. 

Interactive Family Roleplay 

Partaking in family sculpture therapy can be more interactive than talk therapy. Family sculpting can be an active experience that you may feel in your body.

A Visual Modality For Therapy

Family sculpting is often known as a concrete and visual modality that may be mixed with other types of therapy. As the sculptor sees them, the family dynamics become apparent so that the therapist can understand a situation they weren't a part of, and the family can learn from what they see. 

Immediate Insight

Family sculpting may be a fast way to address family dysfunction. When you see how the sculptor has placed you and others, you may be more receptive to hearing how they feel. Or, if you are the sculptor, you can express your feelings about the family structure through a few movements. Family sculpting may offer insight into uncovering truths about your family.

Revealing Hidden Issues

Family sculpting may help clients discover conflicts that few, or none, of the family were cognitively aware of. As the sculptor is arranging the family, everyone may notice that they placed someone in a way that doesn't make sense to them. The sculptor may not have a reason for it. 

As the therapist helps the family assess this sculpture and work through the conflict as revealed, the family may feel more self-aware. They could gain information that helps them focus on a desire to connect and feel healthier together.

Counseling Options 

Family issues may be challenging to resolve because they may be based on many feelings and perspectives. Opening conversations about the relationships and connections within your family can be a powerful exercise in finding those issues. Family sculpting is one method that therapists use to help families resolve relationship issues and begin on the road to healing together. However, there are other options. If you are unsure if face-to-face sculpting suits your family or if it is not offered in your area, you may also consider online therapy. 

For busy parents with busy children, having the flexibility of online therapy sessions can be beneficial. You may begin online therapy via video chat, online messaging, or phone. With therapy, family challenges, dysfunctional patterns, and goals may feel clearer and set a new direction for your family as a unit of unique individuals. If you're interested in getting started, consider an online platform like BetterHelp, which offers affordable weekly sessions with a licensed therapist. 

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