What Are Common Reasons People Go To Therapy?

It may seem like more people are going to therapy and speaking openly about their experiences with the process. While the stigma around seeking therapy for mental health conditions may persist, treating your mental well-being like your physical well-being has become more socially acceptable for some communities. Many more people feel comfortable reaching out for support from a professional to cope with life’s challenges.

If you have never gone to therapy, you may wonder if it would be beneficial to see a therapist and what mental health conditions are often treated in therapy. To get started, looking at the reasons people go to therapy and how therapy can make a difference may be helpful. 

Should I go to therapy?

Therapy was developed as a treatment response to address mental health conditions. Over the years, its popularity as a treatment method for many people has grown, and in 2023, over 41.7 million US adults saw a therapist. Research demonstrates that many forms of talk therapy can effectively reduce people's symptoms of conditions like generalized anxiety disorder or major depression. 

While you do not need a mental health diagnosis to go to therapy, medical doctors might refer clients experiencing specific symptoms to go to therapy for a follow-up conversation with a therapist. Below are several conditions therapists commonly address: 

• Anxiety
• Depression
• Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
• Eating disorders like anorexia nervosa, bulimia nervosa, or binge eating disorder
• Social anxiety
• Panic disorder
• Bipolar disorder
• Chronic stress
• Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD)
• Personality disorders like borderline personality disorder (BPD) 
• Mood disorders
• Phobias
• Prolonged grief disorder (more commonly known as complicated grief)
• Substance use disorders

You can also go to therapy for mental health challenges not related to a mental health condition, such as conflict with friends and family, seeking advice, diagnosis, or work stress. Although depression and anxiety may be some of the most common causes people seek a mental health professional, you’re not alone if you do not have one. 

Challenges you can address

You do not need to have received a formal diagnosis of any of the above conditions to seek therapy or benefit from therapy’s potential impacts. Below are a few life challenges that may be benefited from going to a therapist.  

While many relationship issues can be solved by both partners learning to recognize and assert their needs while respecting their partner’s needs, some relationships may be doing more harm than good on their own. In the case of abusive relationships, therapy can be a valuable support system for the survivor in identifying and addressing problematic patterns in their relationship. 

If you are facing or witnessing abuse of any kind, the National Domestic Violence Hotline is available 24/7 for support. Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or text “START” to 88788. You can also use the online chat. 

Families can involve complicated social systems. In situations involving family strife or intense family dynamics, family therapy can help family better understand one another and help them learn ways to be more supportive of each other’s needs. Family therapy may be beneficial when attempting to identify unhealthy dynamics before they become ingrained family behavior patterns in the long term. 

A physical health condition can be another form of stress in one’s life. Some people might go to therapy to discuss the emotional aspects of a new physical diagnosis or terminal diagnosis. Although they may seek primary care from a doctor for additional information and medical advice after a new diagnosis, a therapist can offer skills for healthily coping with the resulting emotional impacts. Some people with a physical illness may also be at risk of depression. 

Career therapy and life coaching

Potential benefits of therapy

Below are a few of the benefits of therapy you might encounter: 

• Reduced symptoms of mental health conditions, like bipolar disorder or depression, that may be negatively impacting your life
• Leaving your comfort zone 
• Recognition of problems you have previously struggled to confront 
• Validation and empathy from your therapist 
• Identification of coping mechanisms
• A more significant understanding of maladaptive coping techniques 
• An understanding of the deeper meaning behind your actions and reactions
• A more profound understanding of yourself 
• Perspective from someone outside of your social circle
• An understanding of the value of self-care 
• Comfort in being vulnerable with others 
• Integration of self-reflection into your daily life
• Improved self-expression and self-advocating skills 
• A realization of behaviors and thought patterns that may be holding you back from achieving your goals
• Greater resilience 
• A recognition that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness 

How to get started with a therapist  

If you’re curious about trying therapy, consider what you hope to get from the experience and the type of therapist you would want to go see. You might ask your friends, family, or physician for a referral to therapists in your area. You may also consider online therapy through a platform like BetterHelp, which can be a convenient option for people with busy schedules or those who prefer to seek therapy from the comfort of their own homes. 

Online support options