I am licensed in New York with 10 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, family conflicts, eating disorders, & anger management. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support & empower you in that journey.
Additional areas of focus: Relationship issues, Trauma and abuse, Self esteem, Bipolar disorder, Coping with life changes, Body image, Codependency, Communication problems, Control issues, Dependent personality, Eating and food-related issues, Family of origin issues, Family problems, Guilt and shame, Impulsivity, Mood disorders, Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Personality disorders, Phobias, Post-traumatic stress, Women's issues
Clinical approaches: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
NY LMHC 010684-01
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Aileen Stotter. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.
Working with Aileen has been one of the most transformative experiences of my life. I came into therapy feeling stuck in patterns I couldn’t break on my own, despite being someone who reads constantly and prides myself on being self-aware. From the very first session, Aileen created a space that felt safe, compassionate, and genuinely supportive.
She has a remarkable ability to listen deeply, ask the right questions, and guide you toward insights you didn’t even realize you needed. There wasn’t a single “aha” moment—rather, it was a steady, powerful shift that unfolded through her patience, wisdom, and consistent presence. Looking back, I can honestly say my life has improved in ways I didn’t think were possible.
Aileen didn’t just help me navigate a difficult relationship; she helped me reconnect with myself, grow stronger, and regain clarity and confidence. I truly don’t believe this transformation would have happened without her.
If you’re looking for a therapist who is compassionate, insightful, and genuinely gifted at what she does, I cannot recommend Aileen highly enough. She is exceptional.
Written on Dec 10, 2025 after therapy with Aileen for 2 years and 7 months on issues concerning relationship issues, grief, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Supportive, listens, provides advice, knowledgeable in her field.
Written on Oct 30, 2025 after therapy with Aileen for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, parenting issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and coaching
Aileen has helped me tremendously through leaving my toxic relationship and helping me overcome my anxiety and building my self worth and boundaries. I highly recommend her.
Written on Nov 05, 2024 after therapy with Aileen for 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, and grief
She’s amazing, has many ways of understanding and giving advice
Written on Jan 30, 2024 after therapy with Aileen for 9 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety
She's great and really responsive to me. She is helping me cope with a major loss in my life.
Written on Nov 21, 2023 after therapy with Aileen for 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, coping with life changes, and adhd