I am a Licensed Professional Counselor MS, LPC in Texas .
I have 26 years experience as a psychotherapist in private practice, virtually online, and I offered individual therapy to nursing home and assisted living residents. I was also a teacher and school counselor for 20 years. I have a special heart for educators and teachers.
I have been on Better Help since September 2020.
I am a Christian who believes in prayer and the Bible.
I offer Faith Based, Bible based counseling and prayer if desired.
Religious faith can be a source of comfort, grounding, and healing.
I am currently accepting new clients ages 18+ for individual therapy sessions only.
I do not offer couples therapy or family sessions.
My Office Hours are Mondays 6 am - 4pm, Wednesdays 6 am - 4pm, Fridays 6 am -4pm, Saturdays 6 am - Noon CST.
Some Sundays 9 am - noon. 2 pm- 3 pm CST.
My Areas Of Expertise Include:
Trauma, Toxic Relationships, Narcissistic Abuse, Christian Counseling, Women's Issues, Anxiety, Panic, Depression, OCD, Relationships, Communication, Boundaries, Divorce, Separation, Life transitions, Ages and Stages of Life, Grief and loss, Geriatric issues, Dementia / Alzheimer's, Hospice / End of life issues, Chronic Illness and pain, Caregiver wellness , Compassion fatigue.
My client centered approach & pace is customized to individual needs.
I offer unconditional positive regard to clients with a holistic approach of wellness in body and mind.
Therapeutic dialogue, or talk therapy is a positive approach to processing thoughts & emotions.
I am patient, empathic, and I am excellent at active listening.
Therapy is a safe, judgement free, no shame, no blame zone.
I want my clients to feel safe, heard, validated, and understood.
My hope is that all clients will feel lighter, brighter and more hopeful after each session.
Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process.
I look forward to working with you!
https://www.betterhelp.com/elaine-messarra/
Professional experience
26 yrs in practice
Stress and anxiety Relationship issues Trauma and abuse Coping with grief and loss Depression
Additional areas of focus:Coping with addictions, Family conflicts, Intimacy related issues, Sleeping disorders, Parenting issues, Anger management, Motivation, self esteem, and confidence, Career difficulties, Coping with life changes, Compassion fatigue, Abandonment, Aging and geriatric issues, Attachment issues, Blended family issues, Body image, Cancer, Caregiver issues and stress, Chronic pain, illness, and disability, Codependency, Communication problems, Control issues, Coping with natural or human-caused disaster, Divorce and separation, Emptiness, Family of origin issues, Family problems, First responder issues, Forgiveness, Guilt and shame, Hoarding, Hospice and end-of-life counseling, Infidelity, Isolation / loneliness, Jealousy, Life purpose, Men's issues, Midlife crisis, Money and financial issues, Mood disorders, Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Phobias, Postpartum depression, Post-traumatic stress, Pregnancy and childbirth, Self-love, Social anxiety and phobia, Traumatic brain injury, Trichotillomania, Women's issues, Workplace issues
These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Elaine Messarra. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.
Great listener, creates a safe space to share.
Written on Oct 30, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, and coping with life changes
I am confident Ms. Messarra will enable me to move forward with my mental health. She understands where I am coming from, who I am, and where I need to go.
Written on Oct 27, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 1 year and 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and relationship issues
Ms. Elaine is a wonderful therapist. She is thoughtful, kind, and listened to me when I felt like words couldn’t describe how I felt. She not only gave me therapy, but also prayed over me. This is what sets Ms. Elaine apart from other therapists. You will not regret having a session with her. I left feeling so much peace in my mind and heart.
Written on Sep 27, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, self esteem, coping with life changes, and coaching
She is awesome. hands down
Written on Sep 23, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, coaching, and adhd
Elaine does what she says she will do. She was responsive and knowledgeable. She provided resources like she explained which is very helpful
Written on Sep 10, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, and anger management
A significant help at a difficult time.
Written on Sep 02, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, and coping with life changes
She listens and helps me with goals. I am very appreciative that she is faith based. I believe in the power of prayer.
Written on Aug 29, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, anger management, career difficulties, and adhd
Elaine is very empathetic and compassionate with my needs. I love how gentle she is as I share my vulnerable heart. She also has so many great recommendations that she suggests to help me. I really appreciate her help so far. She has been a God-sent.
Written on Aug 22, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, anger management, and adhd
Miss Elaine is very pleasant and provides tools needed to help improve your life.
Written on Jul 27, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, parenting issues, and coping with life changes
I have benefited as a person so much since I started with Elaine back in January 2026. I feel heard, accepted, and have a safe space to talk through all of the challenges that life brings my way. My daughter and I talk about my friend Elaine being such a blessing in Mama’s life!
Written on Jul 08, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, coping with life changes, and adhd
Elaine is compassionate and truly let's you feel important during your session. She makes me feel seen and I truly enjoy working with her.
Written on Jun 19, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning addictions, trauma and abuse, and sleeping disorders
Wonderful therapist. She listens without judgement and is on top of sending me useful tools. I would recommend her 1000%>
Written on Jun 08, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 4 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, and coping with life changes
Elaine has been amazing at understanding me and my needs. She offers a variety of different therapy treatments that are very flexible and easy to work with.
Written on Jun 04, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and compassion fatigue
Elaine is always very helpful and professional
Written on May 29, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 1 year on issues concerning family conflicts, and self esteem
Very understanding and uplifting!
Written on Apr 14, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 11 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, and self esteem
She is a respectable, lovely, and a straight shooter. Beyond thankful for an active listener who I believe has my best interests at heart. Highly recommend.
Written on Apr 02, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Great
Written on Mar 28, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, career difficulties, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Elaine has been a huge help. She’s very attentive listens and gives a different perspective to help work through problems
Written on Jan 05, 2026 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, and anger management
She is a wonderful therapist. She listens and gives such amazing advice. Her words are kind and thoughtful. I’d recommend her to anyone.
Written on Dec 31, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, and self esteem
Excellent!
Written on Oct 26, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and adhd
She is wonderful and so supportive! She has helped me come up from sink hole of anxiety and depression. She has been a person in my corner from the very beginning.
Written on Oct 22, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, grief, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, and coping with life changes
Elaine has been such a sweet and steady helper. She’s aware of my anxiety symptoms and is there to offer individualized advice. She allows me to talk through situations and responds in truth and grace. I have found her to be very helpful!
Written on Oct 15, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 10 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety
Elaine is absolutely wonderful. She knows how to balance positivity & reality. Her overall aura is definitley needed in this profession. Elain is not only kind; but skilled as well.
Written on Sep 28, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety
I love our sessions, I must say she has been truly a God -Sent to me . Understanding, very professional, compassionate. Knows what to say and how to say it. She's highly recommended by me. Thanks Elaine.
Written on Sep 09, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, grief, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Elaine has been a great help in an overwhelming season. She is kind, a good listener and helps point you in the right direction. It's always nice to hear that it is normal and human to feel overwhelmed in life's tougher seasons. Elaine provides great resources to help gain perspective and manage stress.
Written on Sep 08, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, and coping with life changes
I had been carrying around an issue for years and finally decided it was time to address it. I didn’t know how to find a therapist, make convenient sessions fit into my life and make it easy to just start the process. Better Help immediately made the start simple and easy. I’ve had my first video session that was super flexible to schedule and complete. Progress already!
Elaine was understanding, soothing and asked really pertinent questions. I look forward to our next session.
Written on Sep 03, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, and family conflicts
Elaine is terrific. She listens to what you have to say and thoughtfully approaches your concerns. I always feel better about my situations when I have spoken with her.
Written on Aug 27, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues
Elaine is an excellent listener. She has the perfect blend of support and advice.
Written on Aug 04, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 9 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, grief, and career difficulties
Elaine is the absolute best and is helping me through and understand one of the darkest parts of my life
Written on Aug 03, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 4 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and anger management
Elaine is fabulous! I have only had 2 sessions so far but am excited to keep meeting with her. 10/10
Written on Jul 22, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
Very approachable and provides sincere great advice and support for every situation
Written on Jul 09, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, self esteem, anger management, and coping with life changes
She’s very helpful! She makes me feel comfortable. She is very kind and makes me feel heard. I would definitely recommend her to anyone!
Written on Jul 01, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 8 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, and adhd
All around awesome! Words don't do justice as she is God sent!
Written on Jun 18, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 1 month on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, and coaching
She makes me feel listened to and gives me good advice to abide by
Written on Jun 02, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, parenting issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
She’s Great!
Written on May 12, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, and adhd
I have a true respect for Elaine as she has been so compassionate and comforting in the past few months , her advice and recommendations are always kind and gentle and prayerful.
Written on May 04, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 7 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, eating disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Working with Elaine has been a truly meaningful experience. She creates a safe, supportive space and listens with compassion and insight. Her calm, thoughtful approach has helped me better understand myself and navigate life with more clarity and confidence. I’m grateful for her guidance and would highly recommend her to anyone seeking a caring and effective therapist.
Written on Apr 03, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 4 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and anger management
I’m currently going through an unwanted divorce. As a man, we sometimes tend to believe that we can handle any and all situations/problems without needing help. It was a God-send that I got paired with Elaine! She has been the ear that I needed for someone just to listen to my struggles. She is very supportive and offers much needed advice to overcome obstacles that God has placed in my life. Thank you very much!!!
Written on Mar 10, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, and intimacy-related issues
Elaine was very helpful. She was attentive, compassionate, and kind. I'm glad I got an opportunity to work with her.
Written on Mar 08, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
She listens and empowers you to be happy
Written on Mar 08, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, family conflicts, and parenting issues
Ms Elaine is great. She understood what I was going through and she listens. I like the fact that I had a counselor that met my needs. She provided me helpful techniques and work that helped me to understand what I was going through. I would recommend her to anyone.
Written on Feb 26, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and relationship issues
She is so sweet and amazing!
Written on Feb 25, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, self esteem, bipolar disorder, and coping with life changes
Elaine is a blessing!
Written on Feb 24, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 5 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, grief, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
This was my first time going to therapy and Elaine was the perfect person for this journey. She is a great listener, provides sound counsel and wisdom. I preferred my therapist to pray for me and she did exactly that at the end of every session. It was one of the things I looked forward to most when I had my sessions. The world is so much better because of Elaine. She truly has a heart for helping people.
Written on Feb 20, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
This is my first time starting therapy, and I was very reluctant to begin because I wasn’t sure how it would go, but after working with Elaine, I have really enjoyed my appointments and I leave each appointment encouraged and empowered! I look forward to meeting with her each week and I truly see progress! She encourages me and guides me!
Written on Feb 15, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 2 months on issues concerning depression, and stress, anxiety
Elaine was very kind and helped me work through the demands of some serious health issues in our family.
Written on Feb 03, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
Elaine has been very supportive and reassuring during the hard times.
Written on Jan 04, 2025 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and compassion fatigue
A great listener and very helpful with understanding situations and helps me find my main goal
Written on Dec 31, 2024 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, and trauma and abuse
Elaine is an empathetic listener who guides you to reflect on who you are, who you want to be, and what you need to think about or work through to get there. Her words are full of wisdom and grace. It is a joy and blessing to have her Godly counsel in my life.
Written on Dec 02, 2024 after therapy with Elaine for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Elaine is very empathetic. She listens very intently and gives good strong advice to help you think through and navigate through your issues.
I’ve had a really rough year this year and she help me to put things back into perspective and focus on what truly mattered the most.
I especially appreciated her warm prayers. Elaine is truly gifted in praying, I instantly felt relaxed the moment she began to pray.
Mary
Written on Dec 02, 2024 after therapy with Elaine for 1 month on issues concerning self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Elaine is very understanding and truly shows that she cares about my well-being and overcoming my stress and fears in life.
Written on Nov 21, 2024 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, com
Elaine is an amazing listener and a Great counselor. She spiritual and amazing.:)
Written on Nov 04, 2024 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, and coping with life changes
Elaine is an amazing listener, and it was evident in our sessions that she truly cared. 10/10 would recommend.
Written on Oct 19, 2024 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, and adhd
So far I’ve had a great experience. I appreciate that I can message her throughout the week and having a weekly call will help me stay accountable
Written on Oct 17, 2024 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, bipolar disorder, compassion fatigue, and adhd
She is attentive and consistently devises effective strategies to address my concerns. Her compassionate nature shines through in all her actions.
Written on Oct 07, 2024 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coaching, and adhd
Elaine is absolutely amazing.
She listens and gives me her advice and a solution.
I would recommend her to anyone.
Written on Oct 02, 2024 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, and adhd
I cannot imagine my life without Elaine. She is so lovely to work with and listens without judgment. I am very appreciative of her.
Written on Mar 13, 2024 after therapy with Elaine for 2 years and 6 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Elaine has been my therapist for several years and has helped me get through a great deal of painful life issues. I would highly recommend her to anyone seeking therapy!
Written on Jan 01, 2024 after therapy with Elaine for 2 years and 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, depression, self esteem, relationship issues, family conflicts, and coping with life changes
Elaine is like speaking with a friend. I appreciate that she is willing to give me other perspectives.
Written on Oct 04, 2023 after therapy with Elaine for 1 year on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Compassionate and understanding. Listens well and offers ways to cope with life stresses.
Written on Sep 08, 2023 after therapy with Elaine for 1 year and 4 months
Elaine has a calming presence and really listens to you.
Written on Jul 27, 2023 after therapy with Elaine for 2 years and 7 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and coping with life changes
She is a very calming presence and responds in a timely manner.
Written on May 31, 2023 after therapy with Elaine for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, self esteem, and career difficulties
Elaine has such a peaceful presence and I enjoy our sessions
Written on Apr 23, 2023 after therapy with Elaine for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, and adhd
excellent therapist. Makes me feel cofortable. Not rushed.
Written on Mar 08, 2023 after therapy with Elaine for 2 years on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and self esteem
Elaine's insights are invaluable. After only a few sessions I am feeling much more positive.
Written on Feb 22, 2023 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, grief, self esteem, and coping with life changes
I haven’t been in therapy outside of church family. So this was a first for me as far as meeting a stranger. Although, it did NOT feel like meeting a stranger. She was so warm, respectful and helpful. She listened to me and related to me. I am blessed to have been matched with Ms Elaine. Def recommend.
Written on Feb 05, 2023 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, and adhd
Elaine is great. She’s made a big difference in my life.
Written on Jan 15, 2023 after therapy with Elaine for 6 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and coaching
She is very helpful and gives useful positive feedback.
Written on Jan 07, 2023 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, and compassion fatigue
Very wonderful therapist. The best I’ve had. She’s so nice and really listens to you and works with you. There’s no pressure; she is genuinely loves what she does and it shows. I’m so glad I had the pleasure of having her as a therapist!
Written on Jan 03, 2023 after therapy with Elaine for 1 week on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem
I've been talking to her for 3 years and I'm very appreciative for helping me through my struggles and improving myself as a person.
Written on Nov 30, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 2 years on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
She is amazing
Written on Nov 19, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Elaine has been so great .
Written on Nov 10, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 4 weeks on issues concerning depression, and grief
Ms. Messages is very much in tuned with me and my internal issues. I feel very fortunate to be able to learn from her. She is a gift!
Written on Nov 07, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, sleeping disorders, career difficulties, and coaching
Elaine is a very caring therapist! She gives me practical advice to complex issues.
Written on Nov 01, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 1 year and 10 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and grief
Kind and attentive to my needs. She takes the time to get to know me and help me to build the skills I need to cope and pays attention.
Written on Nov 01, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and grief
Elaine has been awesome, concerned, respectful and responding with wisdom. Appreciated
Written on Oct 16, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, and sleeping disorders
No matter when I have wrote Elaine I hear back from her in a timely manner. She’s has been a great help to me and I fortunate to have found her.
Written on Sep 29, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 1 year and 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, grief, eating disorders, self esteem, and career difficulties
Seriously one of the greatest therapist I’ve ever spoken with.
Written on Sep 18, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 7 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and coping with life changes
She is the best! Always answers in a timely manner and listens to your problems and is very sympathetic.
Written on Aug 30, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 6 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and coping with life changes
Elaine has been very supportive and encouraging.
Written on Aug 24, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 7 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
She is very compassionate, listens so well, and offers amazing advice and support!
Written on Aug 15, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and coping with life changes
Elaine has been a major BLESSING. I’m grateful for BetterHelp. Thank you for placing me with one of the best therapists!! I have referred 3 friends who have successfully signed up for BetterHelp, because I strongly agree that anyone who is struggling should reach out for help. Thanks to Elaine, I feel confident enough to share and process the good and bad things that I experience in life. I APPRECIATE ELAINE
Written on Aug 02, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 1 year and 10 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, and coaching
Elaine is great and takes the time to help me work through my feelings.
Written on Jul 31, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Elaine is always there for me. Sorry I'm having an emergency so this is not the time for a survey.
Written on Jul 23, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 5 months
She is very kind. When I spoke with her, I felt so comfortable and walked away from the session feeling positive with hope. I definitely respect Mrs Elaine and look forward to speaking with her more often!
Written on Jul 23, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and coping with life changes
Although this will be my third session I’m very happy with Elaine she’s given me great advice and listens to what I have to say as well as giving me more info to help with my anxiety.
Written on Jul 14, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, and coping with life changes
Love love love Elaine!
Written on Jul 08, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and anger management
She has helped me cope with difficult situations in my life
Written on Jun 16, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, and coping with life changes
I have been very pleased with the help Elaine has given me.
Written on Apr 28, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, and grief
First day and I already feel like I'm o the right track with Ms. Elaine! Can't wait to see what the future holds!
Written on Apr 19, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, coping with life changes, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
She truly helps me focus on myself. She makes me feel heard and seen. I truly couldn’t ask for a better person to speak to.
Written on Apr 09, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, grief, and intimacy-related issues
Elaine is wonderful ! I find comfort with her and feel very open when we have our sessions. It is definitely a safe space , she has helped me already with so much. I would recommend her to a friend :)
Written on Apr 02, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and career difficulties
Elaine is caring and such a great listener. I’m thankful for the relationship we’ve developed and value her advice
Written on Mar 29, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 1 year and 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, and career difficulties
Elaine has been wonderful to work with. She's a great listener, and we had an instant connection. I appreciate that she understands where I'm coming from, and provides me the guidance I need to work through my grief. I was hesitant about therapy, but am so happy I made this choice. Even after a few sessions, I can already feel and see a difference in how I feel. I will and have recommended Betterhelp and Elaine to others!
Written on Mar 28, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning grief
Elaine understood my predicaments and explains topics in a nonjudgmental way. She listens attentively to my innermost concerns.
Written on Mar 28, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, anger management, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
Elaine is a real person. She is lively and actively listens. She is super supportive and remembers things from our previous sessions and shares ideas others have had that helped me understand there is more out there!
Written on Mar 15, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 1 month on issues concerning depression, addictions, self esteem, career difficulties, and coaching
Ms Elaine has been so helpful and great listener. She makes me feel so calm. I think she’s amazing.
Written on Mar 12, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and self esteem
Great help!
Written on Mar 10, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Elaine is awesome! She’s a great listener and is just an all around wonderful person to speak to!
Written on Mar 04, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, grief, sleeping disorders, and coping with life changes
I haven't even had my first session and I feel Elaine Messarra cares about my well-being and wants to help me function normally in my daily life.
Written on Feb 14, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and self esteem
My therapist Elaine is the best.. she has helped me get through a rough time with the loss of my sister.. thanks again for everything
Written on Jan 27, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 4 weeks on issues concerning grief
Wonderful lady puts consideration into my thoughts and what I'm saying and responds without Criticism or any kind of redart that flect
Written on Jan 21, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, sleeping disorders, anger management, and adhd
I have really enjoyed my sessions with Elaine. She listened and gave me constructive techniques to deal with the issues that were stressing me out.
Written on Jan 20, 2022 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and family conflicts
Thank you! I really appreciate everything! I feel a lot better!
Written on Dec 29, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, grief, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and compassion fatigue
Although we’ve only had 2 sessions so far, I’m feeling very happy and comfortable with Elaine.
Written on Dec 12, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, parenting issues, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
Elaine is very understanding and a good listener, she provides tools to use and makes you think about all aspects of situations, she is helping me shift my mindset to more positive and growth oriented horizons. Her positive and kind energy makes me feel safe opening up around her. I have been through a couple therapist and Elaine is the only one who makes me feel like I am growing
Written on Nov 27, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, career difficulties, and adhd
Elaine has been so helpful with helping me manage the ups and downs of my life. A constant member of my support system. Can’t thank her enough for all her help and time
Written on Nov 21, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 1 year and 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, parenting issues, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Elaine is a fantastic therapist. I've tried a couple other therapists that I didn't click with and I felt like they were judging me. Elaine is absolutely wonderful, she is compassionate, a great listener, she understands what you are going through, and she gently guides you to finding your own answers within yourself. She is caring and supportive no matter what, and I feel like I can tell her anything (which I thought would be really hard for me, but she makes it easy). Elaine and her warm nature have helped me realize there is nothing wrong with me. I always feel better after my sessions with Elaine and I highly recommend her.
Written on Nov 13, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, coaching, and adhd
Elaine was very helpful and was a great listener. Even though I was nervous about my first experience with therapy being online, she made it very easy and comfortable.
Written on Oct 26, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 3 months on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and coaching
Elaine is very warm and kind. She is relatable and easy to open up to. She is professional and thorough. Would definitely recommend her!
Written on Sep 25, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd
When Elaine shows up on my screen for our meetings I almost immediately smile and know I’m in great hands. She’s been a god send to be completely honest!!
Written on Sep 21, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and grief
Elaine is so kind and understanding. She listens so well and gives great advice when asked for it! So glad we got connected.
Written on Aug 09, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 3 months on issues concerning grief, self esteem, compassion fatigue, and adhd
I actually have recommended you guys quite a bit, particularly during Covid when people have been suffering . It has been so nice for me to be able to have a counselor available through seasons when it is helpful to have someone to process with who is outside of my situation. Thanks so much for the good you guys are doing!
Written on Jul 26, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 3 months
Elaine is very good at listening, understanding what I am concerned about, and discussing those topics. She is very sweet, and I enjoy speaking with her.
Written on Jul 15, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and intimacy-related issues
She has helped me to open myself more. When I talk to my friends or family about my problems, sometimes I get criticized. With Elaine I know I am truly safe and she has never judge me about my feelings or decisions. I feel safe now.
Written on Jul 05, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues
I appreciate everything Elaine has been doing for me at this time. She listens to me and gives me good feedback.
Written on Jun 30, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Elaine is amazing. I will be leaving the service for financial reasons
Written on Jun 17, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 1 month on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, and parenting issues
Elaine has been so helpful to me and incredibly understanding. I have a tendency of thinking my problems are not that big of a deal but she always validated how I was feeling. I could not recommend her more!
Written on Jun 14, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, and coping with life changes
She is an excellent listener. Her observations and insights really help me navigate a difficult season in my life.
Written on Jun 10, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 6 months
Elaine does a wonderful job at getting to know the people she's helping, she's wonderful at her job
Written on May 19, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
I love Elaine! I love that she listens and sends resources to support you to become a better you! I love that she's really flexible and truly makes you feel like she's there for you through the journey.
Written on May 19, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, sleeping disorders, and coping with life changes
Elaine instantly put me at ease. She is so caring and helpful listening to my concerns with just the right amount of questions and guidance. I love how she asks me what I would like to work on and doesn’t force me to open a door I’m not ready for. She also helps to support what I’m going through with great articles and extra supplemental materials. I look forward to our chats and work. I feel lucky to be paired with just the right person in my first try at better health.
Written on May 10, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, parenting issues, self esteem, and adhd
Elaine was great in our first appointment. She is quick to respond which is important especially now when it is hard to get an appointment with a counselor. I have only had one session so far.
Written on May 05, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Elaine is wonderful! She listens to all of my rants about everything you can think of. She has been super helpful and supportive of me and my goals in life.
Written on May 03, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, and self esteem
Elaine is easy to connect with. She is a great listener but also provides valuable feedback and suggestions
Written on Apr 26, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning grief, intimacy-related issues, and sleeping disorders
I was very hesitant about starting this whole online therapy thing but as soon as I saw Elaine’s face on our first video call I felt at ease and knew I was in good hands!
Written on Apr 21, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and coaching
Better help did an amazing job placing me with Elaine. I was so unsure how everything would play out , that I put off checking into counseling for a month. Once I had my first session with Elaine, I knew I made the right decision. She gave me a scene of peace , and understanding. I couldn't wrap my mind around how this counseling would help my issues. I have had weekly sessions by choice with Elaine , and I have been able to apply the tools in my life she has taught me so far. I am very grateful God as used Elaine in this field , & that are paths have crossed for the better.
Written on Apr 14, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and adhd
Elaine is a kind and compassionate listener. She is quick to respond and talk me through the toughest of times. She has the compassion of an old friend while maintaining the neccesary boundaries of a coach and therapist. She cares about me while caring for me. She is wonderful.
Written on Apr 12, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, eating disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, and compassion fatigue
Sometimes all you need is a great listener to figure yourself out more. She’s amazing. Taught me to grieve way better than anyone
Written on Mar 09, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, grief, and coping with life changes
I do not know much about her but I care for this lady. She is very kind. She listens and give the wonderful kind advice that you need to hear. Thank you Ms Elaine
Written on Feb 16, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, coaching, and adhd
She is wonderful period.
Written on Jan 21, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 4 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, anger management, and compassion fatigue
I have had such a good time with Elaine. Every live session has been incredible, she really listens and remembers even the smallest details that I give her and that it itself makes me feel important and heard. She helped me through one of my darker episodes and I look forward to talking to her every week and really exploring my feelings and concerns with her. She’s amazing!
Written on Jan 19, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and coping with life changes
Elaine is a great listener and offers amazing guidance. I came to her very anxious and feeling isolated and with her help I was able to utilize my supports and now have healthier means of coping.
Written on Jan 16, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 3 months on issues concerning relationship issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Elaine is sensitive to my needs and generous with her time. It’s a lifeline at a difficult time.
Written on Jan 15, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, and trauma and abuse
It’s been great working with Elaine. She’s been extremely responsive and it’s so easy to schedule and comforting to know help is a call away.
Written on Jan 15, 2021 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, and adhd
She is Fantastic!
Written on Dec 23, 2020 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, and coaching
Elaine is the most kind and genuine therapist I have ever had! I really feel like she cares and is invested in bettering my life.
Written on Dec 16, 2020 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, family conflicts, eating disorders, and self esteem
She’s caught on to how I feel and operate very quickly. More quickly than I’m used to, so I was surprised! It was quite endearing.
Written on Dec 09, 2020 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
I’ve had three sessions and it’s already helping me cope with many life stressors and anxiety. Thank you!!
Written on Dec 08, 2020 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, grief, and parenting issues
she listens and responds very nicely! I enjoy talking to Elaine :)
Written on Dec 06, 2020 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Elaine is so kind and amazing. She helps me better understand myself and is very patient along the way.
Written on Nov 25, 2020 after therapy with Elaine for 3 weeks on issues concerning eating disorders, self esteem, and adhd
Great as always!
Written on Nov 13, 2020 after therapy with Elaine for 1 month on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, grief, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Great to share what's stressing me out with her.
Written on Oct 21, 2020 after therapy with Elaine for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, sleeping disorders, and compassion fatigue
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