I am licensed in Pennsylvania with 28 years of professional work experience. I work with my clients to create an open and safe environment where thoughts and feelings can be shared without fear of judgment. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process.
Professional experience
28 yrs in practice
AddictionsRelationshipsFamily conflictsTrauma, AbuseEating disordersSelf esteem, MotivationCoping with life changes
Additional areas of focus:Abandonment, Adoption and foster care, Aging and geriatric issues, Antisocial personality, Attachment issues, Autism and Asperger Syndrome, Avoidant personality, BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture, Blended family issues, Body image, Cancer, Caregiver issues and stress, Chronic pain, illness, and disability, Co-morbidity, Codependency, Commitment issues, Communication problems, Control issues, Coping with natural or human-caused disaster, Dependent personality, Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD), Dissociation, Divorce and separation, Domestic violence, Drug and alcohol addiction, Eating and food-related issues, Emptiness, Family of origin issues, Family problems, Fatherhood issues, Fertility issues, First responder issues, Forgiveness, Gender dysphoria, Guilt and shame, Hearing impaired, HIV / AIDS, Hoarding, Hospice and end-of-life counseling, Immigration issues, Impulsivity, Infidelity, Intellectual disability, Isolation / loneliness, Jealousy, Life purpose, Men's issues, Midlife crisis, Veteran and Armed Forces Issues, Money and financial issues, Mood disorders, Multicultural concerns, Narcissism, Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Paranoia, Personality disorders, Phobias, Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships, Postpartum depression, Post-traumatic stress, Prejudice and discrimination, Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling), Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), Self-harm, Self-love, Sex addiction, Sexual assault and abuse, Sexual dysfunction, Sexuality, Smoking / vaping cessation, Social anxiety and phobia, Somatization, Traumatic brain injury, Trichotillomania, Women's issues, Workplace issues, Young adult issues
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James is the one therapist who gets me. The one who understands me, and therefore holds me accountable. I appreciate having that in my life!
Written on Jul 14, 2025 after therapy with James Joseph for 1 year and 4 months on issues concerning relationship issues, and coping with life changes
Extremely emphatic and caring.
Written on Jul 07, 2025 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, compassion fatigue, and adhd
You're in good hands with James. He creates a space where you can be you, and using psychodynamics identifies where your emotional system picked up a glitch. Helps identify the glitch, and often naming it is enough to take its power away.
He also does this cool thing called his job, and he's pretty good at it ?
Written on Jun 19, 2025 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
I’ve had the privilege of working with James Joseph Beaulieu as my therapist, and I can say without hesitation that he is truly exceptional in his field. James is not only a skilled and knowledgeable psychologist, but also an extraordinary listener—attuned, compassionate, and fully present in every session.
His ability to create a safe and supportive space has allowed me to explore difficult emotions and experiences with trust and confidence. He encourages growth with sincerity and care, helping me to see both my strengths and my challenges with clarity. His guidance is thoughtful and grounded in real expertise, yet always feels deeply personal and attuned to my individual journey.
Whether you are seeking healing, insight, or simply someone who will meet you with honesty and empathy, James brings his full presence and professional excellence to the work. I’m grateful for his support and highly recommend him to anyone looking for a therapist who combines deep skill with genuine human connection.
Written on Jun 08, 2025 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 years and 5 months on issues concerning relationship issues
Jim is a very knowledgeable and wise therapist. Jim is very good at what he does and has helped me cope with some of my past trauma. He is always willing to listen to my problems and help me with ways to deal with my daily struggles from my trauma.
Written on May 14, 2025 after therapy with James Joseph for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting issues, and self esteem
Jim is a great therapist and he helps me view life in a clearer perspective. Thanks Jim
Written on May 04, 2025 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, eating disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, and adhd
Very competent, same age as me, knows where I'm coming from.
Written on Apr 21, 2025 after therapy with James Joseph for 1 year and 6 months on issues concerning family conflicts, career difficulties, bipolar disorder, and adhd
Great listener, very kind and knowledgeable! Overall I have very much enjoyed my experience with Jimbo!
Written on Apr 17, 2025 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, self esteem, anger management, and adhd
Has lived a real life it seems and try’s and does connect with me as an individual and meet me where I’m at and help move thru life
Written on Mar 23, 2025 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, coping with life changes, and adhd
I feel that James listens to what I have to say, and he provides input to help me look at things differently .James provides a positive feedback on the tough situations.
Written on Mar 03, 2025 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning family conflicts, and anger management
Empathetic , knowledgeable , professional and productive. I have found a true support and a person who has given me the strength and tools to handle a multitude of external issues.
Written on Dec 27, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 1 year and 2 months on issues concerning relationship issues
He has been great, very understanding. Does not speak over you and adds meaningful content into your conversations.
Written on Nov 13, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, grief, self esteem, compassion fatigue, and adhd
James has been extremely helpful in my addiction recovery journey.
Written on Nov 13, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 3 months on issues concerning addictions, relationship issues, and intimacy-related issues
James listens to me and he helps me to open up about what I am dealing with.
Written on Nov 09, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, and intimacy-related issues
Phenomenal & he’s changed my life
Written on Nov 04, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 months on issues concerning addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, coping with life changes, and adhd
I enjoy my therapist and therapy it does not feel like a chore
Written on Nov 03, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 7 months on issues concerning family conflicts
James (Jim) is an outstanding therapist and I can't speak highly enough of his service and ability.
Written on Nov 02, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, and intimacy-related issues
James is thoughtful, knowledgably, engaging, and just what I needed. I quickly felt a level of acceptance and comfort in sharing my story because of his demeanor and ability to connect.
Written on Oct 30, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, and eating disorders
Jim has helped me get back on the right track in life through a dark period, providing a safe space to rebuild trust and set goals to achieve. He has shown me that it is okay to open up about previous trauma and that there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
Written on Oct 20, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 3 months on issues concerning trauma and abuse
He is great
Written on Sep 24, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety
He listens well and provides great worksheets and things to work on between sessions.
Written on Sep 03, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, self esteem, career difficulties, and adhd
James has been a great help for me in dealing with my situation. He understands the issues that I am facing and helps show me the good things that are happening in my life and encourages me to move forward. I am very pleased to have his support.
Written on Aug 13, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
James has been a huge part of my therapy journey, and I am so forever grateful to have been connected with him. He really focuses on my strengths, which sometimes I need to be reminded of that. he really listens to what I have to say. doesn't make me feel like just a number which is nice. He's very personable and I would highly highly recommend working with him to anyone.
Written on Jun 28, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 months on issues concerning addictions, relationship issues, eating disorders, self esteem, and adhd
I feel seen and heard, and I enjoy how he clarifies my perspective on things
Written on May 21, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 6 months on issues concerning eating disorders
I really enjoy having my sessions with Mr. James Joseph he is a really good therapist. I had to identify certain things that I didn’t even know about by myself that I needed to work on as well in addition to the problems that I had goes to accomplish. He helped guide me in so many ways, and helped to manage my emotional stress settles. I truly think Mr. Joseph for uplifting me in the past year and a half.
Written on Jan 31, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 10 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
James has been doing this professionally for a long time - it's obvious that he truly loves what he does. He's got a knack for making his patients feel comfortable, which is key to building rapport and trust. I feel like I'm speaking to a friend when I communicate with James. He's a rare find!
Written on Jan 23, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 3 weeks on issues concerning addictions, lgbt, relationship issues, self esteem, compassion fatigue, and adhd
James (Jim) Beaulieu is an excellent therapist. He has developed a strong understanding of my difficulties and listens intently. He provides copying skills suggestions for me that are effective . He’s been an advocate and I appreciate his expertise.
Written on Jan 21, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 7 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting issues, self esteem, compassion fatigue, and adhd
After a few months of working with Jim I can say that I feel much better in my life. Jim is an excellent listener and gets to the point of what is really causing you to struggle. 11/10. You’re the man Jim.
Written on Jan 19, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, coping with life changes, and adhd
It just feels so comfort talking to him and engaging in conversation with him. It's like I've known him,all,my life! That's that kind of comfort level I feel when we link up for our session. Would highly recommend him to anyone else going through difficulties in life, no matter the situation.
Written on Jan 08, 2024 after therapy with James Joseph for 7 months on issues concerning relationship issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and anger management
I came to Dr. James with issues mainly with connections, entrepreneurship and confidence and he is helping me soo much to be confident and to build connections. From the beginning of our meetings I have developed over 10 different connections with other moms. Most importantly the relationship with myself is improving. I am more vulnerable and self confident than ever! So we work throught hings like that and it is so helpful!
Written on Dec 27, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 8 months on issues concerning relationship issues
He does a great a Job at listening, communicating, as well giving you the space to just vent and get what you need off of your chest
Written on Dec 02, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
James is very detailed and supportive. I appreciate the time I have been able to spend with him.
Written on Nov 20, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 months on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, coping with life changes, and coaching
Without James in my life right now it would be continuing to spiral down a negative path. With his advice and conversations it’s nothing but up from here. He’s got such great advice and an approach to issues in someone’s life. Turning me into a better Husband/Father and Son! Best decision I’ve made this far continuing to speak with him and look forward to keeping on this path!
Written on Oct 19, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, and anger management
James listens very well and has been very insightful in helping to navigate my thoughts and ideas.
Written on Oct 18, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 4 months on issues concerning relationship issues, and family conflicts
James is wonderful at what he does
Written on Sep 21, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 4 weeks on issues concerning addictions, relationship issues, self esteem, compassion fatigue, and adhd
James is a truly stand up guy who greatly values both my time and my concerns. He's extremely helpful in helping me navigate the minefield of negative thoughts that have been pervasivly living in my head. I came to better help expecting to have to go through multiple therapists to find one that would work well with me but when I landed on James and after our first session that expectation proved that it wasn't needed. James is a terrific human being through and through and I wouldn't be who I am today without him.
Written on Sep 09, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
He’s a really great listener, and I appreciate him greatly.
Written on Sep 03, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, eating disorders, career difficulties, and adhd
Jim has been a great help to get me back to a place of productivity in life. He is a great listener and is able to step back and see the big picture, and articulate how to make positive changes in life. I would definitely recommend him highly.
Written on Aug 07, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 5 months on issues concerning self esteem, coaching, and adhd
James Joseph Beaulieu has been an incredible source of guidance and support on my journey towards personal growth and emotional well-being. From our very first session, James created a warm and welcoming environment that immediately put me at ease. His empathetic and nonjudgmental approach allowed me to open up and explore my thoughts and feelings in a safe space. Throughout our sessions, James actively listened, offering insights that were both enlightening and thought-provoking.
What truly stands out about James is his genuine dedication to my progress. He tailored our discussions to my specific needs and concerns, and his expertise in various therapeutic techniques was evident as he skillfully guided me through challenges and helped me develop effective coping strategies.
James consistently provided resources, exercises, and tools to work on between appointments, which greatly enhanced the impact of our work together.
Thanks to James compassionate guidance, I have experienced significant personal growth, gained a deeper understanding of myself, and learned to navigate life's challenges with resilience and positivity. I wholeheartedly recommend James to anyone seeking a skilled and caring therapist who is genuinely invested in their clients' progress and well-being.
Written on Aug 07, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, and sleeping disorders
Jim is the best!
Written on Jul 25, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 5 months
Jim is an extremely good listener and also provides very insightful feedback. I like that he is willing to give you moments during sessions to take a quiet pause and reflect before providing a response or continuing the conversation, often times those are moments of real breakthrough. He is professional, supportive, understanding, and experienced. I can’t say enough good things about Jim.
Written on Jul 17, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, lgbt, family conflicts, and trauma and abuse
10/10 would recommend. Fantastic approach to therapy, very open and flexible
Written on Jul 17, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 6 months on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
James has been amazing so far and very reassuring. He has the experience needed that has helped guide my therapy sessions and makes me feel safe and heard.
Written on Jul 02, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues
He is very perceptive and engaging
Written on Jun 29, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 6 months on issues concerning relationship issues, and family conflicts
He has been extremely patient and understanding. He’s honest and explains his well thought responses with real life experiences
Written on Jun 06, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd
I am very happy with the guidance I have been given so far, and I feel listened and valued! He has been a wonderful help to me so far, and I feel like I have someone who truly supports me and wants to see me succeed!
Written on Jun 02, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, lgbt, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Jim is the best! Such a humane person and identifies psychological conditions with scary accuracy. Recommend to all!
Written on May 31, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 4 months on issues concerning relationship issues, family conflicts, eating disorders, and coping with life changes
Jim is a very honest and straightforward therapist. He is supportive and understanding. I've enjoyed my sessions with him so far and I highly recommend him.
Written on May 10, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 1 month on issues concerning addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
He gets it!! I appreciate his insight and input!
Written on Mar 26, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, anger management, and coaching
He’s a pretty cool guy who takes his job seriously and enjoys what he does. He’s caring and passionate, glad I matched with him.
Written on Mar 17, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
This was my first time doing therapy and I am extremely grateful to have been matched with Jim. He's been very supportive and has made a big difference in my life. Great experience!
Written on Mar 13, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 3 weeks on issues concerning family conflicts, self esteem, and career difficulties
Excellent counselor! Very knowledgable, empathetic and impacting.
Written on Mar 09, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, and compassion fatigue
James is awesome and so helpful. Positive and wise. Great guy all around. Someone I respect and very kind as well as having a great view of life!
Written on Mar 08, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, trauma and abuse, self esteem, and anger management
James Joseph Beaulieu is an excellent therapist with years of experience, a kind heart and very compassionate and understanding approach with his clients. I am grateful to have had his help and highly recommend him to anyone looking for a great therapist.
Written on Mar 05, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting issues, self esteem, career difficulties, and coping with life changes
Absolutely amazing!
Written on Mar 01, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 months on issues concerning relationship issues, coping with life changes, and coaching
James is amazing, I feel a lot of relief after having my perspective listened to and validated by him. And I feel a great sense of encouragement from him to heal and grow. I think I might even be feeling happier - even if only slightly !
Written on Feb 28, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 months on issues concerning eating disorders
Knowledgeable counselors who listens. Great at helping me to see the full picture. I look forward to our sessions and his expertise.
Written on Feb 24, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks
Jim has been great so far. Always in communication, empathetic, and supportive.
Written on Feb 23, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, coping with life changes, coaching, and compassion fatigue
Jim has been outstanding so far! Just had my third session with him and I’m really thankful I found him. He is supportive, empathetic, kind and you can tell he really cares. One of the things that I find helpful is that he just doesn’t agree with you but gives you practical steps to take and challenges you to find ways to understand who you are. He is helping me through one of the toughest valleys of my life. I truly appreciate how responsive he is as well. It’s not just the sessions but him taking time out of his day to send messages of encouragement and check on me. I’m a Christian and he has been supportive in my beliefs along the way and has been a blessing in my eyes so far. I look forward to continuing our sessions and see how he can help me through all of my struggles. Keep doing Gods work Jim!
Written on Feb 06, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Jim is awesome and caring. I highly recommend.
Written on Jan 29, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
James is an outstanding therapist, great with listening and offering useful and accurate observations and opinions highly recommended
Written on Jan 23, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, sleeping disorders, anger management, bipolar disorder, and coaching
2 sessions in and I am very much enjoying my time. Looking forward to more.
Written on Jan 17, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, and intimacy-related issues
Very understanding and helpful
Written on Jan 15, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning addictions, relationship issues, and intimacy-related issues
Three sessions in. I feel heard and my thought processed challenged. Unlike going to the dentist, this “doctor visit” is something I find myself anticipating.
Written on Jan 14, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, and intimacy-related issues
Great experience.
Written on Jan 10, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, and trauma and abuse
Jim is great ! He really listens and I can really express myself when talking to him.
Written on Jan 02, 2023 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, and adhd
BetterHelp is a literal life saver! I was pushed here over an event that greatly upset me and buried my confidence and self respect. And when I had prayed to God to send some sort of answer, he gave me the website, and this service gave me James Beaulieu! This man is a GENIUS! In not just the advice, but the way he talks to me inspires me to dig deep into my issues stemming from Childhood.
The Service itself has also been so great in working with me financially - with the economy the way it is, and the timing when I sought help, they have gone ABOVE AND BEYOND to ensure I have access to the help I need so I don't hinder my progress and growth!
As an Indie Filmmaker/Writer, you can bet that the lessons I am learning are being applied to help others, and I'll be taking the GOOD WORD and PRAISE of BetterHelp and Mr. Beaulieu with me!
Thanks for everything, guys! I think I'll stay a while! :)
Written on Dec 28, 2022 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, coaching, compassion fatigue, and adhd
James is super kind and helpful. He is honest and respectful. Never had a therapist that I’ve felt this comfortable with. I don’t feel judge and he reminds me that we are humans and we make mistakes and that I shouldn’t be so hard on myself… and this is all only in one session. Can’t wait wait to see the results of working with him
Written on Dec 27, 2022 after therapy with James Joseph for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, addictions, trauma and abuse, and adhd
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