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Marysa De Veer, NCPS

Stress and anxiety Relationship issues Trauma and abuse Career difficulties Coping with life changes
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About me

Welcome

Navigating burnout, career pivots, financial stress, or a painful breakup can feel overwhelming. You might be wrestling with trauma, OCD, depression, or the heavy toll of toxic family dynamics. Whatever brings you here, I want you to know that I believe deeply in your capacity to heal and thrive.

About Me & My Approach

I am a licensed therapist accredited by the National Counselling Society, with seven years of professional practice and over three decades of lived personal growth experience.

In our sessions, we will look beneath the surface of your struggles. Using a warm, person-centered approach, I will help you understand the emotional triggers and patterns rooted in your past. I blend deep empathy with practical guidance — incorporating gentle inner child work, meditation, and grounding techniques that you can actually use in your day-to-day life to feel more centered and resilient.

A Global Perspective on Healing

My approach to therapy is deeply informed by my multicultural background. I spent my first nine years integrated into a beautiful Muslim family in Northern Nigeria, later attending a Catholic boarding school in the UK. I spent time in Kenya and the Congo where my father worked, alongside family ties in the Netherlands and France. This global upbringing gave me a profound understanding of how culture, spirituality, and identity intersect to shape who we are.

Today, I continue to embrace community and diverse perspectives by building a sustainable lodge and tour center in rural Gambia, where I am learning the local Wolof language.

Creativity as Therapy

As a Kora musician and a craftsperson who teaches bookbinding, I have seen how creativity unlocks doors that words sometimes cannot. If it resonates with you, we can weave music, art, and creative expression into our work as powerful tools for self-discovery.

Qualifications & Next Steps

I hold a Diploma in Emotional Therapeutic Counselling, with specialized training in suicide and self-harm support. I am fully insured and engage in regular clinical supervision to ensure you receive the best possible care.

If you are looking for a therapeutic space that is professionally grounded, culturally aware, and creatively inspired, I would be honored to support you. Your journey is unique — let's take the next step together.

Books & Resources I Love
Healing Your Inner Child by Lucia Capacchione
The Untethered Soul by Michael A. Singer
Breathe In, Breathe Out by Stuart Sandeman
The mindfulness teachings of Thich Nhat Hanh
Healing the Shame That Binds You by John Bradshaw

Professional experience

7 yrs in practice
Stress and anxiety Relationship issues Trauma and abuse Career difficulties Coping with life changes

Additional areas of focus: Coping with addictions, LGBTQ+ related issues, Family conflicts, Coping with grief and loss, Intimacy related issues, Eating disorders, Sleeping disorders, Parenting issues, Anger management, Motivation, self esteem, and confidence, Bipolar disorder, Depression, Executive and professional coaching, Compassion fatigue, Concentration, memory and focus (ADHD), Abandonment, Adoption and foster care, Aging and geriatric issues, Antisocial personality, Attachment issues, Autism and Asperger Syndrome, Avoidant personality, BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture, Blended family issues, Body image, Cancer, Caregiver issues and stress, Co-morbidity, Codependency, Commitment issues, Communication problems, Control issues, Coping with natural or human-caused disaster, Dependent personality, Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD), Dissociation, Divorce and separation, Domestic violence, Drug and alcohol addiction, Eating and food-related issues, Emptiness, Family of origin issues, Family problems, Fatherhood issues, Fertility issues, First responder issues, Forgiveness, Gender dysphoria, Guilt and shame, HIV / AIDS, Hoarding, Hospice and end-of-life counseling, Immigration issues, Impulsivity, Infidelity, Intellectual disability, Isolation / loneliness, Jealousy, Life purpose, Men's issues, Midlife crisis, Veteran and Armed Forces Issues, Money and financial issues, Mood disorders, Multicultural concerns, Narcissism, Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Paranoia, Personality disorders, Phobias, Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships, Postpartum depression, Post-traumatic stress, Pregnancy and childbirth, Prejudice and discrimination, Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling), Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), Self-harm, Self-love, Sex addiction, Sexual assault and abuse, Sexual dysfunction, Sexuality, Smoking / vaping cessation, Social anxiety and phobia, Somatization, Women's issues, Workplace issues, Young adult issues

Clinical approaches: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Existential Therapy, Gottman Method, Imago Relationship Therapy, Jungian Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Narrative Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Somatic Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy, Systemic Therapy

Services offered

Video
Phone
Live Chat
Messaging

Languages

EnglishDutchFrench

License information

NCPS Therapist - Accredited Member (MNCPS Accred) #NCS20-01402

Reviews

These quotes represent just a few of the many positive reviews that we have received for Marysa De Veer. We don't pay anyone to provide their review and they are all made voluntarily. Some people's experience receiving therapy with BetterHelp might be different.

Marysa is a great therapist, sympathetic but ready to challenge your unhelpful thoughts when needed. I really enjoy our sessions.

Written on Jul 08, 2026 after therapy with Marysa for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, and adhd

One of the highlights of my week

Written on Oct 09, 2025 after therapy with Marysa for 1 year and 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, grief, coaching, and adhd

It's a bit soon since we only share three session but as until now, I am finding comfort in working on my issues with Marysa

Written on Jun 30, 2025 after therapy with Marysa for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, and self esteem

Marysa is a very empathetic person, an excellent listener, and a great therapist! I’m lucky to have been matched with her.

Written on May 16, 2025 after therapy with Marysa for 7 months on issues concerning depression, trauma and abuse, eating disorders, self esteem, and adhd

Easily accessible, very easy to talk to and very personable!

Written on Apr 14, 2025 after therapy with Marysa for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd

Marysa is a very kind lady who listens intently and offers helpful interpretations to my issues. She has a lot of worldly experience and has helped me to become more empathetic and show compassion to myself. Also loves books so can’t complain

Written on Mar 21, 2025 after therapy with Marysa for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, bipolar disorder, and coping with life changes