I am licensed in California with 48 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress ,anxiety, trauma, depression & coping with grief and loss. I enjoy watching the rapid growth that is attainable thru the use of E.M.D.R. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. Taking the first step to seeking a more fulfilling and happier life takes courage. I am here to support you in that process.
Professional experience
50 yrs in practice
Stress and anxiety Trauma and abuse Coping with grief and loss Depression
Additional areas of focus:Aging and geriatric issues, Attachment issues, Caregiver issues and stress, Chronic pain, illness, and disability, Codependency, Commitment issues, Communication problems, Control issues, Coping with natural or human-caused disaster, Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD), Dissociation, Divorce and separation, Domestic violence, Drug and alcohol addiction, Emptiness, Family of origin issues, Family problems, First responder issues, Forgiveness, Guilt and shame, Hearing impaired, Hoarding, Hospice and end-of-life counseling, Immigration issues, Impulsivity, Infidelity, Jealousy, Life purpose, Midlife crisis, Veteran and Armed Forces Issues, Mood disorders, Narcissism, Panic disorder and panic attacks, Personality disorders, Phobias, Post-traumatic stress, Sexual assault and abuse, Sexuality, Social anxiety and phobia, Somatization, Women's issues, Workplace issues, Young adult issues
Clinical approaches: Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Gottman Method, Mindfulness Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy
Services offered
Video
Phone
Messaging
License information
CA LMFT 37603
Reviews
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Amazing
Written on Aug 24, 2026 after therapy with Pamela for 6 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, and adhd
I appreciate my therapist. She is understanding, knowledgeable and flexible.
Written on Aug 06, 2026 after therapy with Pamela for 7 months on issues concerning family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting issues, and coping with life changes
love having her!
Written on Jul 24, 2026 after therapy with Pamela for 1 year and 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, sleeping disorders, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, coaching, and adhd
Pamela is kind and a great listener. This is my first time doing therapy and she helped put me at ease and explained the process with great care. I am very excited and looking forward to healing with her help and expertise.
Written on Jul 23, 2026 after therapy with Pamela for 3 weeks on issues concerning relationship issues, and family conflicts
She’s great
Written on Jul 07, 2026 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, and adhd
No nonsense and attentive. I am very optimistic.
Written on Jul 06, 2026 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, and adhd
Pam is professional, intuitive, seeks to help resolve the issues. I’m very grateful for my time with her.
Written on May 29, 2026 after therapy with Pamela for 3 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and coping with life changes
Connected right away. Exceeded my expectations.
Written on Mar 27, 2026 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and trauma and abuse
Exactly the type of therapist I needed in this phase of my life and treatment. Very experienced from both life and her decades of work in trauma therapy. She was fantastic at facilitating EMDR on a very large trauma for me, an untreated ADHD adult woman, which is no small feat. She understands neurodiversity and to have these 2 qualities in a therapist (trauma informed pro with extensive ADHD knowledge and experience) was invaluable to me. I am very thankful for her help.
Written on Mar 16, 2026 after therapy with Pamela for 7 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, sleeping disorders, self esteem, coaching, and adhd
looking forward to another session
Written on Feb 27, 2026 after therapy with Pamela for 1 month on issues concerning stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, and adhd
Pamela is great, at times I just need someone to listen to me and at times I need feedback/advice. She’s very personable and I have really connected with her given similar experiences.
Written on Feb 22, 2026 after therapy with Pamela for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, self esteem, and anger management
Caring and compassionate therapist. She truly cares.
Written on Feb 14, 2026 after therapy with Pamela for 1 year and 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, coping with life changes, and adhd
Pam is great. If telehealth is the only option, then she is a great choice! she listens, encourages, down to earth , straight forward
Written on Feb 04, 2026 after therapy with Pamela for 7 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting issues, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Pamela Kesler is so incredibly knowledgeable in her field. She has been an amazing support in helping me process out the PTSD issues and encourages me to do what is right. Her expertise is an invaluable resource. I am truly blessed to have found the perfect therapist!
Written on Dec 09, 2025 after therapy with Pamela for 1 year on issues concerning trauma and abuse
Pam was very warm and made me comfortable right away. I feel understood by her.
Written on Oct 13, 2025 after therapy with Pamela for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, self esteem, and adhd
Pamela is great for EMDR and seeing a lot of personal progress since we have been working together.
Written on Oct 02, 2025 after therapy with Pamela for 1 year and 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
Pamela is great and listens very well
Written on Sep 13, 2025 after therapy with Pamela for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, and anger management
Pamela is a wonderful therapist with a lot of life experience and knowledge to share.
Written on Jul 15, 2025 after therapy with Pamela for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, and self esteem
Pamela is the real deal. She knows how to help me achieve the necessary goals in my mind and body. I love that she is straight forward in our conversations. I need that!!
Written on Jul 15, 2025 after therapy with Pamela for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, grief, intimacy-related issues, eating disorders, sleeping disorders, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
She was very informative
Written on Apr 12, 2025 after therapy with Pamela for 3 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, parenting issues, and self esteem
My experience with Pam has been amazing. She has literally helped me get my thoughts in order. I love her techniques . I feel so good after our sessions because she helps me to prioritize my issues and not just be all over the place.
Written on Apr 09, 2025 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, grief, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
Pamela Kesler is a God sent!! I’ve never met a therapist like her that has given me real results, using EMDR therapy. My anxiety, worries, and stresses have gone down just after 2 sessions. It is a miracle! She is a true professional, extremely knowledgeable, is a nurse, and I feel very comfortable with her in therapy. I was ready to give up on therapy until I met her! Her methods are scientifically based and her life story proved to me that it’s possible to heal.
Written on Apr 02, 2025 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, self esteem, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue
Pam is truly a sweetheart! Working with her has been a pleasure and I can tell it’s helping to express to remote and to really process some old heavy baggage. Grateful for her and her motherly wisdom, peace and blessings.
Written on Mar 08, 2025 after therapy with Pamela for 2 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, self esteem, anger management, bipolar disorder, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
Pamela was a delight. She is knowledgeable and kind. She introduced me to emdr and it changed my life. So thankful for her. Plus she is a funny and very interesting to talk to!
Written on Jan 21, 2025 after therapy with Pamela for 2 months on issues concerning depression, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Understanding and grace wrapped into an amazing woman who has the experience to back it all up.
Written on Dec 19, 2024 after therapy with Pamela for 4 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, anger management, career difficulties, coping with life changes, and adhd
Pamela is great! I appreciate her open, pragmatic, compassionate and approachable personality. She doesn't beat around the bush, and is flexible for what I want to focus on each session. I love hearing her stories and experiences, which really help me understand what is going on with me and feel attuned and seen.
Written on Dec 10, 2024 after therapy with Pamela for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, self esteem, coping with life changes, and adhd
Pam has extensive experience and hands on training in my needs practically and academically. I enjoy our time and am also challenged to grow where I need to be.
Written on Nov 21, 2024 after therapy with Pamela for 5 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, intimacy-related issues, sleeping disorders, self esteem, and adhd
I love Pamela. She is knowable, compassionate, and patient. I feel like she is working with me and takes the time to listen to me. I highly recommend her.
Written on Oct 17, 2024 after therapy with Pamela for 4 months on issues concerning family conflicts, self esteem, and compassion fatigue
I've been working with Pam on EMDR to relief me of my CPTSD. So far, it's been exactly what I needed.
I have defeated most of my stomach issues and now we are working on the issues in my neck and back. Emotionally I am working on my flashbacks, depression, anxiety and anger. Pam is smart and straightforward and I appreciate her expertise.
Written on Oct 16, 2024 after therapy with Pamela for 4 months on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related issues, self esteem, and coping with life changes
Dr Kesler has been able to help me with 3 sessions more than any of the dozens of talk therapies I’ve gone through combined. I am so grateful for her- her dedication, her patience and passion for what she does. She is changing, saving, and preserving lives. Thank you, Dr. Kessler!
Written on Oct 05, 2024 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship issues, family conflicts, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, parenting issues, self esteem, career difficulties, coping with life changes, coaching, and compassion fatigue
Pamela has been very helpful to me. Her direction and assistance has been very positive in providing my personal emotional growth and improved communication skills.
Written on Aug 01, 2024 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, lgbt, relationship issues, family conflicts, and self esteem
Very helpful! Glad I signed up
Written on Jun 12, 2024 after therapy with Pamela for 3 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety, and family conflicts
Pamela has been a great therapist by offering different tools and listening to my needs
Written on May 27, 2024 after therapy with Pamela for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, coping with life changes, compassion fatigue, and adhd
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