Toby Mailman

(LCSW-R, ACSW, CCPT)
Therapist Toby Mailman Photo

About Me

You have come to this website because you are seeking a way to answer some questions or resolve some kind of dilemma. My role is as a kind of "coach" to help you discover the strengths and skills you already have and to develop new ones that will help you find the answers to your questions or the resolution of your dilemma. My name is (Ms.) Toby F. Mailman. I am a New York State licensed Clinical Social Worker. I completed my degree at New York University and have been in practice with individual adults since 2001. I have worked with a diversity of clients, including diverse ethnicities, cultures, and sexual orientations. I have experience taking into consideration the norms of different cultures and the role they may play in psychotherapy.

My approach to psychotherapy is to establish a relationship with a client in order to foster trust, as I believe that trust is one of the most important factors for therapy to be helpful to the client. I use different kinds of modalities, depending on what I believe would be most effective for the client. Sometimes different kinds of modalities may be useful for the same person. The modalities that I have been using include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), Narrative Therapy, Body Work, Mindfulness and Psychodynamic Psychotherapy.
I believe that therapy is most effective when there are regularly scheduled weekly or bi-weekly sessions. Out of respect for each other, I would advise anyone as far in advance as possible if I need to reschedule an appointment and would fully expect that the subscriber who is seeking services with me would do the same. It is always best practice to consult with me before scheduling a different appointment, since some times may already be taken by a regular weekly client, even if they look "open" on schedules that are weeks ahead.

The issues I have worked on with clients include, but are not limited to:
Depression
Anxiety
Trauma
Adjustment issues
Grief and mourning
Immigration issues
Sleep issues

I hope I have an opportunity to help you improve and enrich your life, and I congratulate you on having the courage to take this step.



Specialties

  • Stress, Anxiety
  • Trauma and abuse
  • Grief
  • Self esteem
  • Depression
Also experienced in:
Addictions , Relationship issues , Family conflicts , Sleeping disorders , Parenting issues , Anger management , Career difficulties , Bipolar disorder , Coping with life changes , Coaching , Compassion fatigue , Abandonment , Read more...

Clinical approaches:
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Existential Therapy, Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Narrative Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy

Years of Experience: 20

Services Offered


  • Messaging

  • Live Chat

  • Phone

  • Video

Languages

English

Spanish


Licensing

LCSW #063392 (Expires: 2022-02-28)


Reviews

Written by S.T. on Nov 24, 2021 after therapy with Toby for 1 year and 6 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety

amazing as always

Written by M.I. on Nov 18, 2021 after therapy with Toby for 2 weeks on issues concerning depression, relationship issues, family conflicts, self esteem, career difficulties, and coaching

Toby is warm, compassionate and insightful. I highly recommend her.

Written by A.N. on Jan 15, 2021 after therapy with Toby for 1 month on issues concerning depression, stress, anxiety, family conflicts, grief, sleeping disorders, and self esteem

Toby is a very good listener and gave me some good tools to help deal with my depression.

Written by J.O. on Jun 17, 2020 after therapy with Toby for 2 months on issues concerning stress, anxiety

Toby is a great listener and has great suggestions on how to handle certain issues.

Written by J.O. on May 19, 2020 after therapy with Toby for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety

Toby has been immensely helpful, supportive, and encouraging over the past few weeks as I've tackled some of my most personal concerns. I would certainly recommend her.

Written by S.U. on Apr 09, 2020 after therapy with Toby for 2 weeks on issues concerning stress, anxiety

Toby has been very helpful in guiding me through working with habitual thought patterns and pulling them up by the roots. I have felt lighter and more functional since working with her.